Buy new:
$15.99$15.99
Ships from: Amazon.com Sold by: Amazon.com
Save with Used - Good
$12.39$12.39
Ships from: Amazon Sold by: Zoom Books Company
Return this item for free
We offer easy, convenient returns with at least one free return option: no shipping charges. All returns must comply with our returns policy.
Learn more about free returns.- Go to your orders and start the return
- Select your preferred free shipping option
- Drop off and leave!
Download the free Kindle app and start reading Kindle books instantly on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required.
Read instantly on your browser with Kindle for Web.
Using your mobile phone camera - scan the code below and download the Kindle app.
Image Unavailable
Color:
-
-
-
- To view this video download Flash Player
Follow the authors
OK
A Terrible Thing Happened: A Story for Children Who Have Witnessed Violence or Trauma Hardcover – Picture Book, June 17, 2020
Purchase options and add-ons
This gently told and tenderly illustrated story is for children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode, including physical abuse, school or gang violence, accidents, homicide, suicide, and natural disasters such as floods or fire.
Sherman Smith saw the most terrible thing happen. At first he tried to forget about it, but soon something inside him started to bother him. He felt nervous for no reason. Sometimes his stomach hurt. He had bad dreams. And he started to feel angry and do mean things, which got him in trouble. Then he met Ms. Maple, who helped him talk about the terrible thing that he had tried to forget. Now Sherman is feeling much better.
Children who have witnessed violence or other traumatic incidents are at surprisingly greater risk for committing violence in the future than are children who have actually been involved in such events. The event might be a car accident, domestic or school violence, suicide, or a natural disaster such as a tornado, flood, or fire. Regardless of the type of incident, child witnesses often react by trying to forget or ignore the experience. When their feelings are pushed underground in this manner, these children may begin to feel bad in ways they don't understand and become angry as a result of feeling bad. It is this anger that can give way to violence. Caring adults can make all the difference by helping children talk about and understand the experience. An afterword by Sasha J. Mudlaff written for parents and other caregivers offers extensive suggestions for helping traumatized children, including a list of other sources that focus on specific events.
- Reading age5 - 9 years, from customers
- Print length32 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Grade levelPreschool - 3
- Dimensions8.32 x 0.38 x 8.24 inches
- PublisherMagination Press ― American Psychological Association
- Publication dateJune 17, 2020
- ISBN-101557986428
- ISBN-13978-1557986429
![]() |
Frequently bought together

Frequently purchased items with fast delivery
From the brand
-
Books for Kids from APA
American Psychological Association works to advance psychology as a science and profession and as a means of promoting health and human welfare. APA publishes books for young readers under its imprint, Magination Press, that aim to make navigating life's challenges a little easier. It's the synthesis of psychological science with informational fiction that makes an APA kids book distinctive.
-
Visit our Store
-
-
-
-
-
From the Publisher
Sherman Smith saw the most terrible thing happen. At first he tried to forget about it, but soon something inside him started to bother him. He felt nervous for no reason. Sometimes his stomach hurt. He had bad dreams. And he started to feel angry and do mean things, which got him in trouble. Then he met Ms. Maple, who helped him talk about the terrible thing that he had tried to forget. Now Sherman is feeling much better.
Editorial Reviews
Review
Review
About the Author
Cary Pillo, a fine arts and design graduate from Washington State University, has illustrated many children’s educational materials and children's books, including A Terrible Thing Happened, Gentle Willow, Striped Shirts and Flowered Pants, and Tibby Tried It. She lives in Seattle, WA.
Product details
- Publisher : Magination Press ― American Psychological Association
- Publication date : June 17, 2020
- Edition : 1st
- Language : English
- Print length : 32 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1557986428
- ISBN-13 : 978-1557986429
- Item Weight : 8.8 ounces
- Reading age : 5 - 9 years, from customers
- Dimensions : 8.32 x 0.38 x 8.24 inches
- Grade level : Preschool - 3
- Best Sellers Rank: #229,591 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- Customer Reviews:
About the authors

Discover more of the author’s books, see similar authors, read book recommendations and more.

Discover more of the author’s books, see similar authors, read book recommendations and more.
Customer reviews
- 5 star4 star3 star2 star1 star5 star89%9%2%0%0%89%
- 5 star4 star3 star2 star1 star4 star89%9%2%0%0%9%
- 5 star4 star3 star2 star1 star3 star89%9%2%0%0%2%
- 5 star4 star3 star2 star1 star2 star89%9%2%0%0%0%
- 5 star4 star3 star2 star1 star1 star89%9%2%0%0%0%
Customer Reviews, including Product Star Ratings help customers to learn more about the product and decide whether it is the right product for them.
To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. Instead, our system considers things like how recent a review is and if the reviewer bought the item on Amazon. It also analyzed reviews to verify trustworthiness.
Learn more how customers reviews work on AmazonCustomers say
Customers find this book effective for working with children, particularly those aged 5-9, and appreciate how it explains trauma-focused behavioral therapy. The language is easy to read and understand, and customers like the story's approach, with one noting how it normalizes reactions and behaviors to trauma. The illustrations receive positive feedback, with one customer highlighting the tasteful display of stuffed animals.
AI Generated from the text of customer reviews
Select to learn more
Customers find this book effective for working with children, particularly as an introduction for ages 5-9, helping them understand and express their feelings.
"Such a great book for kids who have witnessed trauma!!..." Read more
"Great book for children that has lost something in their lives or has gone through any kind of trauma." Read more
"...As a counselor in training, I find this book to be a wonderful resource for children, parents, and therapists to help open communication following..." Read more
"We work with trauma survivors and have found this book to be excellent for small children...." Read more
Customers appreciate how the book explains trauma and its effects on children, making it a perfect resource for trauma-focused behavioral therapy and working with children who have experienced traumatic events.
"...During his emotional transition, this helped make sense of the physical feelings he had like the knotting in his stomach and his bad dreams...." Read more
"...It focuses on the thoughts, feelings, and actions that came about after the main character witnessed "a terrible thing"...." Read more
"...child witnesses something upsetting/traumatic and is an excellent book to help them recover." Read more
"...She took one look at it and said it was for babies. The message is a good one but I would recommend this book for kids over 6 or 7." Read more
Customers appreciate the language of the book, finding it easy to read and understand, with one customer noting it is clear without being overly detailed.
"...This book is very intense despite the simple language...." Read more
"...Beautifully written and illustrated." Read more
"...The language is simple but nevertheless straightforward and appropriately-detailed and the afterword section, "A Note to Parents and..." Read more
"...They believe what they read. The text is written in an easy, comforting style...." Read more
Customers enjoy the story of the book, with several mentioning their children loved it, and one noting how it effectively normalizes the reactions and behaviors to trauma.
"...of child trauma are almost universal however, and are expertly woven into the story...." Read more
"...This is a must have for every child therapist’s library! The storyline is wonderful in facilitating trauma processing, and the illustrations are..." Read more
"...It is a nice story that discusses BIG issues. I didn't feel comfortable introducing this to my kids who haven't experienced the same issues." Read more
"Great quality, wonderful story" Read more
Customers appreciate the illustrations in the book, with one customer noting the tasteful display of stuffed animals and another highlighting the appropriately-detailed artwork.
"...witnessed something shocking or tragic, as well as a very nicely illustrated picture book...." Read more
"...is wonderful in facilitating trauma processing, and the illustrations are engaging even for kids with the shortest attention spans." Read more
"...The illustrations in the book are great! Also, the "Parents and Caregivers" section in the back is insightful and practical." Read more
"...It also suggested some outlets like drawing pictures of things. At the end, he asked what the terrible thing was because it never says...." Read more
Reviews with images
Bridge important conversations, don’t wait.
Top reviews from the United States
There was a problem filtering reviews. Please reload the page.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2016"A Terrible Thing Happened" is a wonderful book for any child that might be coping with having witnessed something shocking or tragic, as well as a very nicely illustrated picture book. What actually attracted me to the book was its illustrations, but I was drawn in by the story as well.
The book is about Sherman, a young raccoon, who as the title suggests, witnessed something terrible. We don't find out what it was that Sherman witnessed, which allows the book to be used for a variety of situations. We do learn that keeping his feelings inside has affected Sherman in a number of negative ways, including feelings of anxiety, not sleeping well, and eventually acting out and hurting others. Fortunately, Sherman gets the help of a caring counselor at school. The language is simple but nevertheless straightforward and appropriately-detailed and the afterword section, "A Note to Parents and Caregivers," offers a number of a well-thought-out suggestions, as well as a list of other helpful reading material. The illustrations go well with the text, at times dark representing Sherman's feelings, but also very soft and tender, and bright as things start to look up. The counselor's office is presented as a very reassuring place that would be welcoming for a young child, with a soft, pastel-colored carpet, a vase of flowers, a small and tasteful display of stuffed animals on the top of the bookshelf and comfortable furniture.
One thing I really liked about this book is that despite the situation covered being very generic, the main character, Sherman, is not generic. Although it is somewhat subtle, he is given a personality. For example, we told that it is normal for Sherman to tease his sister. Perhaps not the most admirable thing, but nevertheless something that kids do. Also, when he is asked to draw a picture of how he felt when he is angry, it is said that it "seems strange" to him but that he did it anyway. Again, a subtle sign of personality, as for some children this may feel like a normal and natural way to express their feelings. Readers are also reassured that Sherman is not a "bad kid," that when he started getting into trouble at school for acting out, he felt bad, as this wasn't normal for him.
I think this book would be great for a variety of situations and audiences. Though it is clearly targeted at young readers, the story would resonate with anyone in a similar situation, as it is very well-presented. At the end of the book, readers are presented with a simple, reassuring message.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 12, 2013This book was fantastic. It was immediately engaging and relatable to my little girl. She was drawn right into the story and concerned for Sherman, worried about him and whether he would be okay. She was so relieved when he finally was, because that too, meant she would heal as well. It always refers to whatever traumatic thing that was seen as "the terrible thing" so it leaves interpretation open so that each child can relate it to their own experiences. The subsequent symptoms of child trauma are almost universal however, and are expertly woven into the story. He tries to forget the terrible thing he saw, as most kids do, and ends up with displaced anger, trouble at school and with friends, bad dreams and trouble sleeping, head and tummy aches, etc- it is only when he is able to face his fears of remembering and process through what happened with a trusted adult, that he begins to move on and feel better, more like his old self. It acknowledges that while he can't change what happened, he doesn't have to hold on to it anymore. It was a perfect allegory and provided a beautiful and natural way to open up dialogue with my child about what she went through; she was very responsive to it and started opening up so much more in therapy. She became open on the very next visit to drawing pictures of what happened as Sherman had done, and to tell her what they were about. It was an instant success for us. Careful though, I have to hold back tears when I read it bc it is so touching. My daughter IS Sherman, and if you work with, or have your own children who have witnessed something traumatic, they WILL find themselves in this book and not feel so helpless or alone anymore by the end of it. My highest recommendation, both as a mother and as someone who has been in the mental health field for more than 10 years.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2023I use this book to help my child clients process trauma, and it’s been especially useful for my younger clients. This is a must have for every child therapist’s library! The storyline is wonderful in facilitating trauma processing, and the illustrations are engaging even for kids with the shortest attention spans.
Top reviews from other countries
EddylineReviewed in Canada on December 11, 20195.0 out of 5 stars This is a terrific book for working with children who have experienced trauma
I work as a psychotherapist treating children and youth and often utilize what I call therapeutic picture books to reinforce the work we are doing in each therapy session. Over the course of the last 10 years I have probably bought about a dozen copies of this book, because it has been so helpful in the treatment of trauma with children. We learn that Sherman the raccoon (the main character the book is about) has seen '"something terrible" and that all his efforts to forget what he saw are not only not working, but he is getting into lots of trouble because it gets harder and harder to not remember. Then along comes the trusty art therapist bear who helps Sherman process what he saw by drawing what he saw (only every represented with dark scribbles) and other things about that day. I highly recommend this book.
-
JesusMReviewed in Mexico on July 25, 20245.0 out of 5 stars Libro necesario para comenzar a hablar de secretos
Recientemente mi hijo ha comenzado la escuelita, así que comencé a buscar la manera de enseñarle que podrían pasar cosas que le causen conflictos en su cabecita pero no quería ser muy agresiva con el tema, así que esté libro me pareció buena idea, y lo fue.
El tema es un mapachito con cambios de humor debido a que presenció algo muy feo, nunca se menciona qué más al final del libro enfatizan que puede ser desde un mal trato, hasta un accidente, algo que a la mente de un niño pueda ser demasiado para procesar, y muestra como el mapachito va teniendo problemas y como pudo solucionarlo, la historia es sencilla y directa, guía al niño a comunicar lo que siente y a buscar formas de no quedarse él solo con el conflicto. Sigo practicando el tema con él para lograr la comprensión lo mejor posible (tiene 2 años), pero si recomiendo el libro, nos gustó mucho.
B. AtencianoReviewed in Spain on December 13, 20135.0 out of 5 stars children and PTSD
As a child therapist, working with trauma and violence, this book is one of my "must haves" in the consultation room. Kids get it at the first read, and helps them to understand what they are being put through.
me 343Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 14, 20195.0 out of 5 stars Great resource
I bought this as a conversation opener for the children I work with. It is a great story which investigates how we feel when we suppress our feelings/worries and that we can talk with someone about anything. The story is useful in any situation around trauma, as it is not specific about what the character saw, leaving it open to interpretation of the listener.
Would recommend.
Joe JordbakkeReviewed in Canada on April 21, 20245.0 out of 5 stars Love it
Great book.











