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The Grand Paradox: The Messiness of Life, the Mystery of God and the Necessity of Faith Hardcover – February 3, 2015
If we were made for relationship with God, why do we often feel lost and distant from Him?
The life of Christian faith is and always has been a beautifully awkward reality. Following Jesus is done&;can only be done&;in the messiness of this world into which we were all born. Yet many Christians expect the walk of faith to be easier, neater, and relatively devoid of hassles.
So perhaps it&;s time for a frank conversation about the true nature of Christian faith. Maybe there are many desperately in need of a clear dialogue about how&;despite living in a turbulent, chaotic world&;our greatest joy is found in our pursuit of God.
In The Grand Paradox, Ken Wytsma seeks to help readers understand that although God can be mysterious, He is in no way absent.
- God&;s ways are contradictory and counter to the way the world tells us to pursue happiness.
- Doubt is okay, it will accompany in the life of faith.
- What looks like struggle can actually be the most important and meaningful season of our lives.
This book is an exploration of the art of living by faith. It is a book for all those wrestling with the paradoxes that confront those who seek to walk with Christ. It&;s an honest look at how faith works, here and now, in our culture, our time&;and how to put down real roots and flourish in the midst of our messy lives.
- Print length240 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherThomas Nelson Inc
- Publication dateFebruary 3, 2015
- Dimensions6.25 x 1 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100849964679
- ISBN-13978-0849964671
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"Grounded in examples from scripture and life experiences, his honest exploration of the questions and doubts Christians have speaks to both newer believers who might not fully understand their faith, and also to longtime followers who have gotten off track or are looking to understand why they believe." --PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
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--SHANE CLAIBORNE, Author and Activist
"Deeply personal, yet anchored biblically, The Grand Paradox will both encourage and energize you. I commend it highly."
--STEPHAN BAUMAN, President and CEO of World Relief
"My head and heart were full after engaging this book. I hope yours will be as well."
--LEROY BARBER, Author of Everyday Missions and Red, Brown, Yellow, Black, White--Who's More Precious in God's Sight?
"Ken's book is a significant voice of clarity for people on a faith journey whose path is riddled with fog. Enthusiastic applause for this gem."
--TSH OXENREIDER, Author of Notes From a Blue Bike: The Art of Living Intentionally in a Chaotic World
"Honest, compelling, and filled with Scripture, The Grand Paradox invites you to a deeper life of love, justice, and mercy in the midst of brokenness and pain. Ken's latest book will help you hold onto hope as you live and serve."
--PETER GREER, President and CEO of HOPE International and Coauthor of Mission Drift and The Spiritual Danger of Doing Good
Product details
- Publisher : Thomas Nelson Inc (February 3, 2015)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 240 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0849964679
- ISBN-13 : 978-0849964671
- Item Weight : 13.6 ounces
- Dimensions : 6.25 x 1 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,626,578 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #56,696 in Christian Spiritual Growth (Books)
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About the author

Ken Wytsma is a church planter, entrepreneur, and teacher who has taught on philosophy, creativity, and justice. He helped found an innovative college teaching students from around the world what it means to think theologically about creativity, leadership, and social justice. Ken also founded The Justice Conference--with conferences and expressions in eight countries over the past decade exposing thousands of men and women to organizations and conversations related to justice and the biblical call to give our lives away. Ken lives in Newberg, Oregon, with his wife, Tamara, and their four daughters.
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Customers appreciate the book's balanced insights on the life of faith. They find it thoughtful and enjoy the thoughtful subject and scripture selections. The book provides great insight on the human condition and how Christianity done right provides the answers we need. Readers mention that the book is honest, vulnerable, and poignant, though some feel there are no answers in the first few chapters.
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- Reviewed in the United States on October 14, 2015I tried to read The Grand Paradox on my Kindle but quickly decided I needed a book so I could comment, underline and assign stars or checks at will. I have interacted with this book more than anything I've read in a long time, found some of it remarkably fitting for the chronological way I've experienced life as a Christian. I've been to those churches, read those books, listened to those speakers who promised certain things if I only had faith, donated this much, read this book or attended this seminar. Somewhere sometime long ago, I too concluded that life was messy and that God was indeed mysterious. I hope other readers sigh with relief while absorbing these conclusions.
This is a book that challenges the reader to consider and reconsider what we've longed believed and perhaps what we long to believe.
I appreciated the author's own personal stories blended with hearty doses of C. S. Lewis and Kierkegaard, inspiring stories of Teddy and Eleanor Roosevelt, add some Catch 22 and throw in Pascal's Wager and how can you not conclude that this is a nuanced and provocative read?
As someone who started a book club at church with ground rules that we not read many Christian books since so many are so poorly written, I was relieved to find what I expected with this book. Wytsma displays his intellectual grasp of church history and integrates his philosophical training with tender encouragement toward honesty and maturity. Bravo.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 19, 2019In the context of my learning and what I already know, I would give this book a 3 star rating. It is well-written, accessible, and has good content, but is not unlike anything I haven't already read in Relevant Magazine, Christianity Today, or from Donald Miller. However, I am giving this book a 4 star rating because I believe that it would be beneficial for more people in the Church to be fluent and influenced by this perspective.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2015This book has really meant a lot to me. It gives real hope in times of suffering and confusion by focusing attention on the trustworthiness of Christ. I was also surprised by easy, practical steps that we can take to help our faith walk such as: remembering and reciting past works of God, being obedient despite feelings, praying authentically, etc.. Ive grown tired of the trappings of books that promise 6 steps to this spiritual breakthrough or 12 minutes to that life change. This book doesnt promise instant, greater faith, but it does give a biblical and philosophically mature perspective on lasting growth. This is worth reading and re-reading.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2015I cannot say enough about this book. If you’re going through any season of doubt, depression or struggle, Ken offers helpful insight to keep moving forward in faith. I had been struggling with doubt and depression for quite for some time before reading this book. Like others, I got burned out in the social justice space. Ken's book brought life and faith back in there proper place and helped me climb out of my little hole. Some things we won't know this side of heaven, other things are meant for searching out. The Grand Paradox is a great road map for working through the complexities of life. This book lands in my top 5. Thanks Ken.
Scott P
- Reviewed in the United States on May 12, 2019I appreciated the honesty and the “you won’t find answers here” candor in the first few chapters. But, then the latter half of the book fell into the same old verse-quoting, niceties that we’ve been telling ourselves for centuries that always leave us looking for more. Maybe that was the point? I just expected something a bit more intellectually honest and perhaps something to help put some structure the questions we all have. Still worth a read.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2015I'm a huge CS Lewis fan...and apparently, so is Wytsma. No bother, though, for as much as his writing reminds me (and references) the great writer, it is still poignant and rich with observations that cause you to take pause and consider how it can or does apply to your own life. The depth of the investigation into how reality often frustrates the picture of Christian living is so rewarding because it meets all of us who attempt it right where we are; somewhere between giving up & giving in and accepting that the trials we encounter in life can be used (and are perhaps purposed) by God to bring us out with a stronger faith on the other side.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 5, 2018Never heard of this guy before. But that is the beauty of it. God never makes it about the messenger it is about the message. The Holy Spirit sent me a comforting message about walking by faith through this book. I love the way Ken took thought that can be confusing and brought a clarity that is wrapped in the certain uncertainty of our Christian Faith. Let us trust in God’s Plan.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 4, 2015Ken has wrestled the reality in which we live into sync with the mystery of God's existence in the most authentic way I have ever read. Meshing that with how a life of Faith is lived in the midst of that "tension", as he so aptly calls it, gives a foundation for everyday living beyond the silly, pat, not-in-tune-the-real-world drivel so often dished out to people from most authors. Can't recommend this book highly enough for anyone but most especially for those that have reached their limit of empty volumes of worthless words.
