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  • Paperback: 264 pages
  • Publisher: Revell (October 1, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0800731026
  • ISBN-13: 978-0800731021
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #186,977 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This book is full of some important jewels, but reaches them in a different way than I expected. It is written as a memoir by Elisabeth, including many portions of memoir by her mother as well. It is an interesting addition to the autobiographical history of many of her other works. Along the way are many reflections of the way her faith and family environment shaped her spiritual growth and the decisions she made. It is not a textbook on how to arrange one's family, nor a text on raising children. Although when I read this book the first time, this was the angle I was looking for, I'm grateful now that it was not directive, but rather illustrative of how one family who was fully devoted to Christ worked. I'm frustrated by the current Christian "literature" that implies there is a very narrow cultural way to have a "Christian family." The only narrow part should be the continuous focus on Christ! This book articulates that challenge well.
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Even many committed Christians seem to sometimes struggle with Elisabeth Elliot, whose writings, though chock full of much truth and wisdom, often come across as rather harsh and dogmatic.

This book, however, is a refreshing look at the family in which Elliot herself was raised. It is written largely as a memoir of the simple, day-to-day life of the Howard family (Elliot's maiden name.) The author draws heavily from her mother's recorded memories, which in the beginning, seem a little disjointed. I found myself skimming the early chapters a fair bit, but the book is worth a little perseverence.

As the story of Mr. and Mrs. Howard's marriage and early family life unfolds, it is rich with precious gems of wisdom. I was touched by so many of the little vignettes of ordinary life depicted, and inspired to implement many small changes in my own family life.

All the while, Elliot is careful to portray her family as very 'real,' and emphasizes that her story is only one family's story and not some legalistic grid to follow. 'The Shaping of a Christian Family' is a beautiful tribute to her parents, whose daily commitment to faith, family and discipline is a true picture of the delayed gratification of parenting. Many families, including my own, can benefit from the Howard's example.
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"No amount of talking penetrates as deeply as example," writes Elisabeth Elliot, and the pages of this book are permeated with that philosophy. Elliot frequently reminds the reader that this is simply a memoir of how one family raised honest, disciplined, godly children -- it is not to be taken as a step-by-step how-to guide.

The narrative begins very slowly as Elliot introduces you to her parents, beginning with their births. For those who pick up this book expecting to hear about Elliot's life, there may be some surprise at having to read so much biographical data on other persons. But those pages exist to introduce you to the parents whom Elliot uses as examples throughout the rest of the book.

Through the lens of her family's experience, Elliot illustrates a variety of principles for shaping a Christian home. As she says of her father, "[His] life as we witnessed it was more eloquent than anything he ever said," and Elliot uses him as a picture of godly fatherhood. Daily life, honesty, motherhood, and discipline are all similarly taught through a narrative memoir of Elliot's childhood.

Buy this expecting a ten-step approach to shaping a Christian home, and you will be disappointed. Know that you are purchasing a book meant to teach by example from one woman's life, and you will find a treasure. In Elliot's words, "The greatest need of families is holy parents;" read this book to find encouragement and an illustration of godly parenthood.
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I finished this book yesterday and LOVED it. I can say that I probably highlighted half of the book. I came away feeling challenged to raise a better family--not for the sake of competing with anyone else, but because I LOVE my boys and want them to love the Lord and to be enabled to have a great future thanks to a great foundation that gives them true confidence in Christ.
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At first, this book reads like a simple memoir, rememberances of E.E.'s grandparents and parents. However, further in, the reader sees how the intimate workings of her family fostered her faith and led her to Christ.
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My wife and I have both loved this book. The family ideal Elisabeth describes sets a high standard, one we very much believe in. She also acknowledges our need to be surrendered to the Holy Spirit for help in being godly parents and role models to our children. We have recommended this book to several friends who are currently reading it and have been blessed as well.

We are just beginning our journey as parents and are so thankful to have this resource to look to as we go. One question we ask of Christian parents with adult Christian children is, "how do you keep your children in the faith?" This book has been a confirmation and a comfort to us as we work toward this question in our family.

One practical thing to note when reading it, is that it begins in a rather round-about way. You have to get through the first few chapters that set the stage for Elisabeth's upbringing to understand better where she's coming from.
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