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Is There Anything Good About Men?: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men 1st Edition
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In Is There Anything Good About Men?, Roy Baumeister offers provocative answers to these and many other questions about the current state of manhood in America. Baumeister argues that relations between men and women are now and have always been more cooperative than antagonistic, that men and women are different in basic ways, and that successful cultures capitalize on these differences to outperform rival cultures. Amongst our ancestors---as with many other species--only the alpha males were able to reproduce, leading them to take more risks and to exhibit more aggressive and protective behaviors than women, whose evolutionary strategies required a different set of behaviors. Whereas women favor and excel at one-to-one intimate relationships, men compete with one another and build larger organizations and social networks from which culture grows. But cultures in turn exploit men by insisting that their role is to achieve and produce, to provide for others, and if necessary to sacrifice themselves. Baumeister shows that while men have greatly benefited from the culture they have created, they have also suffered because of it. Men may dominate the upper echelons of business and politics, but far more men than women die in work-related accidents, are incarcerated, or are killed in battle--facts nearly always left out of current gender debates.
Engagingly written, brilliantly argued, and based on evidence from a wide range of disciplines, Is There Anything Good About Men? offers a new and far more balanced view of gender relations.
- ISBN-10019537410X
- ISBN-13978-0195374100
- Edition1st
- PublisherOxford University Press
- Publication dateAugust 12, 2010
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions1.2 x 6.4 x 9.3 inches
- Print length320 pages
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'Male readers may find some solace in Roy F. Baumeister's "Is There Anything Good About Men?" Mr. Baumeister is less concerned about the wimpification of modern man than about the degree to which men have been historically "exploited." The very cultures that men have built, he says, have considered males more expendable than women... But men, Mr. Baumeister says, are often taken for granted and denigrated as the bane of female existence, with some gender activist insisting that women would be better off without them. In a feisty rejoinder, Mr. Baumeister says that "'if women really would have been happier without men, they would have set up shop on their own long ago."
--Dave Shiflett, Wall Street Journal
"Read this if you're open to a thought-provoking take on so-called battle of the sexes. Packed with counterintuitive but convincing points, the book will reshape how you think about sexism, feminism, and gender differences." Andrea Bartz, Psychology Todayl
"There are some interesting arguments concerning marriage, procreation, and the creation of culture that students and professionals in the field of evolutionary psychology probably
would be interested in discussing further." -- Elin Weiss, Sex Roles
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- Publisher : Oxford University Press
- Publication date : August 12, 2010
- Edition : 1st
- Language : English
- Print length : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 019537410X
- ISBN-13 : 978-0195374100
- Item Weight : 1.3 pounds
- Dimensions : 1.2 x 6.4 x 9.3 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,151,292 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #405 in Men's Gender Studies
- #1,197 in General Gender Studies
- #2,174 in Popular Social Psychology & Interactions
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Customers find the book well-written and easy to read, with excellent insights and a compelling narrative. They appreciate its gender perspective, with one customer noting it provides an evidence-based analysis of men. The book receives positive feedback for its readability and thought-provoking content, with one customer describing it as a fascinating journey into the world of men. The morality aspect receives mixed reactions from customers.
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 6, 2014Format: KindleVerified PurchaseThis was one of the most interesting and insightful books I've ever read. One might expect that it would either reinforce my male prejudices or alter my perception of how men are valued in our present culture but it did neither. The effect of reading this book enhanced my appreciation for women throughout history. The ridiculous conspiracy theories peddled by real and imaginary feminists have always seemed too farcical to buy, yet I find I've imbibed a lot more of their Kool-aid than I had expected. Fact is women don't make very good men (and men make worse women), and Though I've always been suspicious of feminist claims about patriarchy and similar nonsense, I still expect women to be more like men, but even worse, to understand manly attributes and the reasons why things are the way they are. Yet how could they? With all the endless drivel, starting with the foolish theory of the superiority of men and then swinging to the opposite extreme today, how could anyone land on truth?
Well I reckon that's just what the good professor has done.
Both sexes ought to be able to appreciate the strengths and weaknesses of the other. And what is in this book? Analysis of the mounds of research that has already been done where the truth sat there waiting to be found, but because of obtuseness, or political correctness, or prejudice, or just plain stupidity, the correct conclusions were avoided like the plague. Yet the conclusions were all there waiting to be teased out. Some of it is so obvious I keep slapping my forehead in disgust that I never saw it before.
The final paragraphs are a plea for all of us to quit thinking of the other sex as the enemy and see that partnership is by far the best policy. I couldn't agree more.
And then we add to that a clear, simple and accessible style that made this a very easy, pleasant read.
I'd give it 6 stars if they'd let me. My mind is still in the process of rearranging a lot of old ideas, so I can't tell yet if this will be as worldview-changing as Adam Smith's "Theory of Moral Sentiments" but it very well could. I've got a lot more thinking to do.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2010Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseThat question is easy to answer: yes! This book is an incisive, extended essay about gender differences and the role the play in our society, with positions that are backed up by a great deal of research, done both by the author and others. It also serves as an essay on the perceptions of gender in our culture, particularly among well-educated people. Until reading this book, I never realized how much misinformation about gender is widely accepted. For instance, the fact that the average male sex drive is stronger than the average female sex drive is obvious to many people (and can be proved, as the author points out), and yet textbooks and scholarly writing on sexuality and gender assert that there is no difference at all (or that women have a stronger sex drive), and this mis-perception is commonly promoted and repeated.
The beautiful thing about this book is that it is, for the most part, remarkably unbiased. As a social scientist, the author knows how to interpret data and describe its implications while avoiding value judgments. He points out where implications are clear-cut but multifaceted, and also points out where there are multiple possible causes or effects. Nonetheless, this is destined to be a controversial book. Some of the points in this book support some out-of-fashion traditional beliefs on gender. Others novel beliefs that are at simply at odds with what educated people are supposed to think. And while the author himself steers away from advocating any specific course of action, it is easy to imagine people reading more into his analyses that is actually there, due the charged nature of the topic. I have many close, well-educated female friends, and I would be reluctant to bring up the information in this book in conversation with most of them -- the topic just seems too sensitive, regardless of how fascinating the information is or how open-minded my female friends claim to be.
Criticisms: Although this book is very unbiased, relative to popular writing on gender, there are a couple cases where the author could have gone even further out of his way to avoid potential claims of bias. Using the word "progress" in the context of culture is always a bit dangerous -- it's uses in this book could have been replaced by a less value-oriented description (although probably at the expense of being much more verbose). Also, the author's notion that cultures "want" things is a bit slippery -- it can have slightly different shades of meaning, some of which would allow the author to embed value judgments, although I did not feel it was abused for that purpose in this book. Some parts of this book were a bit redundant, but the number of insightful comments more than compensated for this fact.
I purchased the Kindle edition. There are a few typographical errors related to missing or extra spaces between letters, which is unfortunate. However, it does have a fully functioning index with links, which was a pleasant surprise.
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Frugal DougalReviewed in the United Kingdom on April 12, 20165.0 out of 5 stars This book is brilliant. I could be picky about the occasional typo ...
Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseThis book is brilliant. I could be picky about the occasional typo here and there, but I was reading the kindle version, not sure if thy exist in print.
As a fifty something guy I found the argument put forward by the author excellent, though requiring some thinking on my part to plug gaps. For example, if marriage is a means by which society/culture transfers resources from men to women, how does the dowry system, prevalent in many cultures, tally with that? My guess is that it's a long term investment to produce grandchildren, but that's not explicit from the text.
However, this is a brilliant book and I would recommend it to any young man just embarking on life's rich journey, and would actually buy a copy for any youngsters I knew if they weren't already married with kids. If I knew when I was in my teens what I have had explained to me in this book, things that I vaguely, instinctively, knew to be the case, I just didn't have the research, intellect and insight of The author, my life might have turned out differently. But, I am where I am and not too dissatisfied with life, plus the book wasn't published until I was in my late forties.
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Fernando Stefanelli GalucciReviewed in Brazil on May 1, 20205.0 out of 5 stars Indispensable these days
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseIn these dark times of politically correct fundamentalism, feminist zealotry and demonization of everything male, a book that demystifies the reasons behind the differences between the sexes is a fundamental read. I congratulate Oxford University Press and Prof. Baumeister for this fantastic book!
José LuisReviewed in Spain on April 6, 20145.0 out of 5 stars Balanced
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseA balanced book that will enrage the gender police. But nowadays, common sense is just offensive. Good work Roy, I hope for a version in Spanish.
Christopher K WallaceReviewed in Canada on November 23, 20145.0 out of 5 stars We've all likely seen fine examples of that in our own lives
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseThis is a book fathers will share with their sons. More importantly, they will want their daughters to read it too. Indeed, together, parents might want to read this themselves and consider sharing this important point of view with all their children.
It's clear in his writing that Roy Baumeister has no agenda other than a search for truth.
Outside of biological imperatives, I very much appreciated his position that men and women have similar potential abilities, standing in for one another when circumstances call for it. We've all likely seen fine examples of that in our own lives; Mother Nature having made us as complimentary beings rather than opposites.
His careful arguments about how men built the culture around us, and the way that culture takes advantage of men's greater variability, oft times making them highly expendable, is a powerful observation. That the culture they built sometimes turns on them, rendering them vulnerable to their own expendability, also carries in it the answer to men's lowered status in the modern world.
This is another superb book from one of the best social commentators around.
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Carlos VázquezReviewed in Mexico on November 6, 20195.0 out of 5 stars Altamente recomendado
Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseCreo que el punto central del libro se puede resumir en que, debido a las diferencias entre hombres y mujeres, particularmente que las mujeres tienden a establecer relaciones cercanas y los hombres se relacionan mas en grupos grandes, las culturas fueron construidas por los hombres y, por consiguiente, siguiendo patrones de conducta masculinos. Después, cuando por diversas razones, se decide integrar a las mujeres en puestos clave, surgieron los malentendidos porque las mujeres no entendieron porqué la cultura funcionaba de determinada manera, dando origen en muchos casos a los mitos feministas de “opresión”. Cabe mencionar que la cultura construida por los hombres daba su lugar a la mujer, incluso con ciertos privilegios.
El mundo es un lugar hostil. Hay que trabajar y competir. El hombre también tiene estas características: es competitivo y duro, así que los hombres construyeron la cultura siguiendo este patrón. Se me ocurrió que así como la hostilidad de este mundo fue explicada por algunos hombres primitivos como los caprichos de seres divinos, así también, cuando las mujeres entraron en el hostil mundo de los hombres, algunas mujeres explicaron esta hostilidad como la “opresión” de los hombres hacia las mujeres.
Excelente libro con mucha información acerca del comportamiento masculino y femenino y cómo diversas culturas alrededor del mundo siguieron el modelo masculino para sobrevivir y florecer y, lo mejor, de paso desmentir muchos de los mitos que abundan hoy en día.
De los mejores libros que he leído este año, sin duda. Altamente recomendado.










