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The Way They Learn Paperback – April 1, 1998
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Using expertise in education and learning styles, Tobias offers practical guidance for teaching to your child’s strengths―both at home and in school―even when his or her learning style is very different from your own. Enlightening and informative, this book will help with these issues:
- The different ways children perceive and order information
- Four learning styles and how your style and your child’s may differ
- How to bring out your child’s greatest strengths
- Ways to help your child grasp and remember what’s being taught
- Tips for advocating for your child with teachers
- How your involvement can increase your child’s success at school
- Print length176 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherFocus on the Family
- Publication dateApril 1, 1998
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.5 x 8.4 inches
- ISBN-109781561794140
- ISBN-13978-1561794140
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If you’re frustrated that your child isn’t learning the way you did, chances are he or she is too! In this practical resource, Cynthia Ulrich Tobias explains that understanding how you both learn can make all the difference.
An expert in education and learning styles, the author offers practical guidance for teaching to your child’s strengths―both at home and in school―even when his or her learning style is very different from your own. Enlightening and informative, this book will help you with these issues:
- the different ways children perceive and order information
- four learning styles and how your style and your child’s may differ
- how to bring out your child’s greatest strengths
- ways to help your child grasp and remember what’s being taught
- tips for advocating for your child with teachers
- how your involvement can increase your child’s success at school
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- ASIN : 1561794147
- Publisher : Focus on the Family; 1st edition (April 1, 1998)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 176 pages
- ISBN-10 : 9781561794140
- ISBN-13 : 978-1561794140
- Item Weight : 8 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.4 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #161,357 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #251 in Parenting & Family Reference
- #556 in Homeschooling (Books)
- #655 in Christian Family & Relationships
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About the author

Cynthia Tobias has a successful background that includes over 30 years of private practice, 8 years of teaching high school, and 6 years in law enforcement. She has authored 13 books and is a featured guest on radio and television, a popular presenter for business, government agencies, churches and schools throughout the U.S. and the world.
Cynthia’s educational clients have included a large number of public and private schools across the country and around the world. She has taken her educational expertise to many international schools and organizations, including those in China, South Africa, Bolivia, Trinidad, South Korea, Australia, and more.
Cynthia’s corporate clients have included Seattle Police Department, Los Angeles Police Department, International Association of Women Police (IAWP), General Motors, Walt Disney, Merrill Lynch, and BNSF Railroads, as well as numerous government agencies, law enforcement and fire & rescue services.
Cynthia received her B.A. at Northwest Nazarene University, her Master’s Degree at Seattle Pacific University, and an Honorary Doctorate from Northwest Nazarene University in 2015. She is the mother of twin sons, now young adults, and she and her husband Jack live in the Seattle area. For more information and resources, visit CynthiaTobias.com
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1. Learning Styles
a. Perception: Concrete or Abstract
b. Organize it: Sequential or Random
I finally understood how my husband thinks and organizes (or the lack thereof), because he is very random & I'm sequential - papers & books spread out haphazardly works well for him.
2. Memory Styles
a. Auditory - verbal type
b. Visual - image type
c. Kinesthetic - movement type (this one was a new concept to me, and I've actually used this style for many years, unknowingly)
3. Concentration Styles
Many styles here - this really helped me with my child and the study style that works best. You basically find your best way to be comfortable & that is the best environment you can concentrate & learn in - couch/bed/table/floor - night/day - music/silence/background noise - public/private - group/individual. The 'sit down at a desk with a lamp in total quiet' homework time is busted!
4. Understand Styles
a. Global - need the whole picture
b. Analytical - need details
I definitely have heard this before, but it was nice to read the details on it - I'm guessing I'm analytical :)
5. Intelligences
She explains how our talents can be applied for a career or hobby. Linguistic, Logical, Spatial, Musical, Kinesthetic, Interpersonal, Intrapersonal. I love the categories of interpersonal & intrapersonal, because it explains the differences and talents of social vs. introverted people.
I do like that fact that the author does clarify not to categorize ourselves & others 100% in one area. We can all be a mix & match - it's not mutually exclusive.
Despite it's subtitle ("How to discover and teach to your child's strengths" this book is unfortunately relatively light on helping you determine how to teach to your children. What to do with my quite intelligent 9 yo that can read beautifully but is a horrible speller and is a kinesthetic learner? This book has little to help me with that question. This book is of more help in understanding the basic framework than in implementing a plan of action based on it.
Still this was very enjoyable reading. Each style and way of thinking and understanding was really brought to life for me. She looks at each of the styles from the perspective of a parent with that style, which is very helpful as well. I would recommend this book to parents and students, but in targeting any trouble areas that your child has, you may need to look elsewhere for more detailed information about how to teach to their learning styles and strengths.










