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And They Lived . . . Paperback – May 30, 2023
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From the author of Can't Take That Away comes a sex-positive, fairytale-inspired YA novel that celebrates first love and self-acceptance, perfect for fans of What If It's Us.
"My heart didn't stand a chance. I loved it from once upon a time all the way to its joyfully complex ever after." - New York Times bestselling author Becky Albertalli
"A jolt of lightning to my soul. The characters are so bright, the emotion is so vibrant, and the love is exquisitely electric." - Jason June, author of Jay's Gay Agenda
Chase Arthur is a budding animator and hopeless romantic obsessed with Disney films and finding his true love, but he's plagued with the belief that he's not enough for anyone: he's recovering from an eating disorder and suffers from body dysmorphia fueled by his father, and can't quite figure out his gender identity. When Chase starts his freshman year of college, he has to navigate being away from home and missing his sister, finding his squad, and contending with his ex-best friend Leila who is gunning for the same exclusive mentorship. If only he can pull together a short for the freshman animation showcase at the end of the semester.
Then Chase meets Jack Reid, a pragmatic poet who worships words and longs to experience life outside of his sheltered world. But Chase throws everything into question for Jack, who is still discovering his sexual identity, having grown up in close-knit conservative family. Jack internalized a lot of homophobia from his parents and childhood best friend, who unexpectedly visit campus, which threatens to destroy their relationship. Chase will have to learn to love--and be enough for--himself, while discovering what it means to truly live.
- Print length384 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBloomsbury YA
- Publication dateMay 30, 2023
- Grade level10 - 12
- Reading age14 - 17 years
- Dimensions5.45 x 1 x 8.2 inches
- ISBN-101547612126
- ISBN-13978-1547612123
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“Captures all the best and most terrifying parts of loving both yourself and others, masterfully balancing a dreamy romance with the raw honesty it takes to sustain it. This book is a true delight.” ―Dahlia Adler, author of Cool for the Summer
“Steven Salvatore writes complicated love stories with such sincerity, thoughtfulness, and emotional resonance. My heart didn't stand a chance-I loved it from once upon a time all the way to its joyfully complex ever after.” ―Becky Albertalli, New York Times bestselling author of Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda
“I devoured this novel. . . . Compulsively readable, unapologetically human, and refreshingly original, this is a modern gay fairy tale that will turn even the most jaded reader into a hopeless romantic.” ―Nicolas DiDomizio, author of Burn It All Down
“Reading And They Lived was like a jolt of lightning to my soul. The characters are so bright, the emotion is so vibrant, and the love is exquisitely electric. Chase's story is a reminder to all of us that we're deserving of love from ourselves and others, and-even through the hardships-to enjoy the journey and live.” ―Jason June, author of Jay's Gay Agenda
“Sincerely funny and heart-achingly real. . . .Salvatore delivers the memorable queer fairy tale readers are craving!” ―Julian Winters, award-winning author of Running With Lions
“Salvatore has done a superb job of dealing with a dramatic complexity of issues while creating equally complex, highly empathic characters. Readers will urgently root for a happily ever after.” ―Booklist, starred review
“Taking on coming out, the challenges of art-making, the importance of mentors who get where one is coming from, and the joys and terrors of romance, Salvatore sweeps readers off their feet.” ―Publishers Weekly, starred review
“A sex-positive, LGBTQIA+ romp through an artist's freshman year of college, with quick, witty dialogue and sure pacing that makes it a perfect crossover title for older teens and college students in the vein of Rainbow Rowell's Fangirl and Margot Wood's Fresh.” ―School Library Journal
“[Chase's] growth, supported by queer mentors and friends, provides affirming representation of questioning and nonlinear healing . . . A dramatic and refreshing storm of emotion.” ―Kirkus Reviews
“This charming, joyful story-about self-love, fighting for what's right, and the love to be found in chosen family-will make you want to put on a pair of red heels and blast Mariah Carey.” ―Booklist, starred review, on Can't Take That Away
About the Author
Steven Salvatore is a gay chaos agent whose obsessions include Star Wars, Mariah Carey, his loud Italian family, boating in the Adirondacks, exploring Italy, and having and then dissecting his existential crises (not in that order). For twelve years, he was a studied, accomplished writing professor having held many positions within higher education spheres; he now works as an academic advisor at Manhattanville University. He has an MFA in Creative Writing from The New School and he's a book coach and founder of Queerative Writers, a full-service creative hub for LGBTQ+ aspiring writers. A lifelong New Yorker, he now lives in New Jersey with his amazing fiancé Chris. He is the author of AND THEY LIVED…, CAN'T TAKE THAT AWAY, and NO PERFECT PLACES.
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- Publisher : Bloomsbury YA (May 30, 2023)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 384 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1547612126
- ISBN-13 : 978-1547612123
- Reading age : 14 - 17 years
- Grade level : 10 - 12
- Item Weight : 12.8 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.45 x 1 x 8.2 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #399,601 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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STEVEN SALVATORE is a critically acclaimed author; writing professor; Mariah Carey lamb; and Star Wars fanatic with an MFA in creative writing from the New School. They are the founder and CEO of Queerative Writers, a virtual creative workshop series for LGBTQ+ aspiring writers. They are the author of young adult novels like And They Lived . . ., Can’t Take That Away, and No Perfect Places: A Novel, as well as the forthcoming adult romcom debut The Boyfriend Subscription.
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Customers find the romance in the book sweet, romantic, and wonderful. They also say the main character's love for Jack is heartfelt.
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I 𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗗 this sooo much! I laughed and I 𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗗!
This is a beautifully written and heartfelt story that explores themes of self-discovery, acceptance, and love. The story follows Chase Arthur and Jack Reid who fall in love their freshman year in college. Chase is a hopeless romantic struggling with body dysmorphia and gender identity and Jack is trying to navigate the challenges of coming out to his family and friends.
The writing is engaging and honest, capturing the emotions and struggles of Chase and Jack with sensitivity and authenticity. It skillfully weaves in themes of acceptance, forgiveness, and the importance of being true to oneself.
Salvatore handles the sensitive topics of body dysmorphia and eating disorders with sensitivity and care. He does not shy away from depicting the realities of these conditions but also does not sensationalize or glorify them. Instead, he portrays them in a way that is authentic and relatable, giving readers a deeper understanding of what it's like to live with these challenges.
You 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 read this (or listen to the audiobook, which was amazingly done by Kirt Graves) and that’s all I have to say.
Be aware that there is a ton of potentially triggering content, things do get a little dark and dramatic in the second half of the book. Refer to content warnings at the end of my review if you have triggers.
My only real problem with this book is the way his school is written. In art school, everyone has to take several semesters of foundational art classes before getting into your major, but this school just has these kids, in their first semester freshman year, jump right into a super advanced class in their major. It’s a major part of the plot though so I just had to shrug and accept it. I can’t believe no one who read this before it was published had art school experience. It seems like a very easy thing to just ask someone who went to school for animation to take a look at your manuscript or at least ask them some questions about their art school experience.
The main character has body dysmorphia and there is a lot of internalized fat phobia and he feels bad about his body a lot, but he does go to therapy and he’s in a better place mentally by the end of the book, so if you are looking for a book where the MC is fat and confident and it’s not a big deal, this is not that book.
CW: Homophobia/slurs, threatened outing, fat phobia/slurs, body dysmorphia, graphic disordered eating/purging
The feels got me something fierce; I laughed and cried so hard, it exhausted me.
The characters are so relatable, as are their internal struggles. If you know, you know. It was both encouraging and uncomfortable to take this journey with them.
You know a good book when it sparks such a strong visceral reaction.
I look forward to seeing what Steven writes next.
If only my queer self had a book like this when I was young… 🥺❤️
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'And They Lived ...' was a much sadder story than I was expecting, although the blurb does reference that this will be a much darker tale than the whimsical front cover might suggest. I thought the representation of body dysmorphia was handled incredibly well, making Chase's thoughts about himself potentially difficult reading. Perhaps even more so, I was deeply affected by the portrayal of Jack's internalised homophobia, and his story was so heart-breaking there were many times I wished the story had been dual-PoV, so we could see what was going on in his mind too. I'm all but certain he was struggling with severe anxiety, so I think it was something of a shame this was never confirmed, as it would set his ghosting of Chase in context. There were some incredibly difficult moments to read, involving rejection and homophobic behaviour, and no one really comes out of this book a fairy tale hero. With that said, I found Jack's poems beautiful, especially the one focused on the theme of disappointment. Maybe for a contemporary college romance I found it a little too bleak, but it was a deeply affecting read.
CW: Homophobia; homophobic slurs; bulimia; body dysmorphia; parental bullying; gaslighting; suicidal ideation; possible anxiety disorder?








