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This Book Is Gay Paperback – September 7, 2021
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The bestselling young adult non-fiction book on sexuality and gender!
Lesbian. Gay. Bisexual. Transgender. Queer. Intersex. Straight. Curious. This book is for everyone, regardless of gender or sexual preference. This book is for anyone who's ever dared to wonder. This book is for YOU.
This candid, funny, and uncensored exploration of sexuality and what it's like to grow up LGBTQ also includes real stories from people across the gender and sexual spectrums, not to mention hilarious illustrations.
Inside this revised and updated edition, you'll find the answers to all the questions you ever wanted to ask, with topics like:
- Stereotypes―the facts and fiction
- Coming out as LGBT
- Where to meet people like you
- The ins and outs of gay sex
- How to flirt
- And so much more!
You will be entertained. You will be informed. But most importantly, you will know that however you identify (or don't) and whomever you love, you are exceptional. You matter. And so does this book.
This book is for:
- LGBTQIA+ teens, tweens, and adults
- Readers looking to learn more about the LGBTQIA+ community
- Parents of gay kids and other LGBT youth
- Educators looking for advice about the LGBTQIA+ community
Praise for This Book is Gay:
A Guardian Best Book of the Year
2018 Garden State Teen Book Award Winner
"The book every LGBT person would have killed for as a teenager, told in the voice of a wise best friend. Frank, warm, funny, USEFUL."―Patrick Ness, New York Times bestselling author
"This egregious gap has now been filled to a fare-thee-well by Dawson's book."―Booklist *STARRED REVIEW*
Coming soon from Juno Dawson: What's The T? (June 2022) The companion title to the groundbreaking This Book Is Gay, What's the T? tackles the complex realities of growing up trans with honesty and humor and is joyfully illustrated by gender non-conforming artist Soofiya.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSourcebooks Fire
- Publication dateSeptember 7, 2021
- Grade level8 - 12
- Reading age14 - 17 years
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.73 x 8.25 inches
- ISBN-101728254329
- ISBN-13978-1728254326
- Lexile measure1070L
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| About | The bestselling young adult non-fiction book on sexuality and gender! | Discover what it means to be a young transgender and/or non-binary person in the twenty-first century in this candid and funny guide for teens. | Is Bill lost in the park? Was he eaten by a shark? Don't be silly! “You need to chill – my brother Bill is now my sister Lily.” |
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About the Author
Juno Dawson is the international bestselling author of fiction and nonfiction for young adults. She is a columnist for Attitude magazine and a key LGBTQ+ activist with the charity Stonewall. A former teacher specializing in behavior studies, Juno now writes full time and lives in Brighton, England.
Product details
- Publisher : Sourcebooks Fire; 2nd edition (September 7, 2021)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1728254329
- ISBN-13 : 978-1728254326
- Reading age : 14 - 17 years
- Lexile measure : 1070L
- Grade level : 8 - 12
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.73 x 8.25 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #24,243 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #2 in Teen & Young Adult LGBTQ+ Issues
- #10 in Teen & Young Adult Nonfiction on Dating & Intimacy
- #1,414 in LGBTQ+ Books
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Customers find the book easy to read and reference. They find the information informative, providing a great overview of life in the LGBT community. The humor is described as witty and entertaining. The color scheme and illustrations are also appreciated.
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Customers find the book well-written and easy to read. It's informative and entertaining with facts and anecdotes. The author doesn't talk down to her audience and covers a wide range of topics. While the language is accessible for young people, some readers feel the book has too much sass and cheesy humor.
"...However, the author never talks down to her audience and she covers the entire range of topics for any of us who have come out as queer and for..." Read more
"...The text itself is factual and very matter of fact (and occasionally funny)...." Read more
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"Well written with facts, humor and anecdotes. Non judgmental. Answers a lot of questions in well organized and self-contained chapters...." Read more
Customers find the book informative and helpful. They say it provides a good overview of life in the LGBT community, offering up-to-date, real-world information. The book is well-researched and covers a wide range of topics.
"...the author never talks down to her audience and she covers the entire range of topics for any of us who have come out as queer and for those..." Read more
"...to prurient interests, only to curiosity, and to answer that curiosity with factual information, accompanied by personal quotes from a variety of..." Read more
"Super informative whether you are gay or not. Totally recommended for anyone who wants to know from the very basis what being LGBTQ means" Read more
"...Learning is the key to understanding; understanding is the key to love and peace. There is no "right" truth, no matter what anyone says." Read more
Customers find the book humorous and entertaining. They find the humor witty and addicting, with plenty of resources cited.
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Customers appreciate the colorful front cover and illustrations. They find the book visually appealing and say it adds fun to some heavy subjects.
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 19, 2025Breezy but thorough."This Book is Gay" is aimed at young queer folk. However, the author never talks down to her audience and she covers the entire range of topics for any of us who have come out as queer and for those thinking of coming out.
This would also be great for straight people who might want to learn about our LGBTQ communities.
Highly recommended.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 19, 2023I bought this book primarily because it had been placed on several “banned books” lists. Which just goes to show how afraid of facts some people are. There are only two restrained nude line drawings, one of a man and one of a woman. And their inclusion isn’t frivolous, the drawings are to enhance the educational value of the text. The text itself is factual and very matter of fact (and occasionally funny). There’s no attempt to appeal to prurient interests, only to curiosity, and to answer that curiosity with factual information, accompanied by personal quotes from a variety of people.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 4, 2025I enjoyed it, although some things could have been changed or not added at all lol
- Reviewed in the United States on May 27, 2024I work in education, and I got this as a quick read, and it was so awesome that if I worked with older students, I would share it with them, especially those who are questioning their identities.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2024Super informative whether you are gay or not. Totally recommended for anyone who wants to know from the very basis what being LGBTQ means
- Reviewed in the United States on June 26, 2023Juno Dawson has written a must read for anyone wishing to better themselves and the world. Learning is the key to understanding; understanding is the key to love and peace. There is no "right" truth, no matter what anyone says.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 7, 2022I bought this book because school boards are being asked to ban it. (There is no better advertisement for a book than that - great boost for the author and publisher.) I’m a 73 year old grandmother. The book is explicit but not scintillating. I have no doubt that the kids reading it have far, far more explicit and exciting sources of information. The book would be enormously helpful to a kid with questions, nothing to ban here. Happily, our local school board gave the ban request its full attention, like any other request, and then voted not to ban books.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2023Well written with facts, humor and anecdotes. Non judgmental. Answers a lot of questions in well organized and self-contained chapters. Shame people want to ban it. The chapter on sex starts with a trigger warning and it's handled better than most public school Sex Ed classes.
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Mathieu CorriveauReviewed in Canada on October 7, 20215.0 out of 5 stars Saying I love this book is an understatement.
Saying I love this book is an understatement. This book is THE book that made me want to read more and value educational LGBT books because there is a lack of education of it in our schools.
Easy to read read and follow. I'm down to my third copy of the book because I believe it should be read more and I donated the previous two books to LGBT organisms.
This is a Sex-Ed book, even for straight people. It does go through the ins and outs of gay culture now. It is an interactive book, there are places to draw and write.
For a ADHD person like myself, opening the book at any page, I'm sure I will learn something new or understand something better. This book is a very good start to have arguments in LGBT topics and arguments.
Overall, this is is one of the best books I've read and actually use and reread very often.
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Humberto.Reviewed in Mexico on June 24, 20195.0 out of 5 stars Perfecta explicación
Excelente libro sobre la comunidad LGBT, explica muchas cosas y de una manera fácil y entendible
Heather PlayleReviewed in the United Kingdom on September 16, 20165.0 out of 5 stars Be a cool parent
I loved this book, and I wish it had been around when I started wondering about my sexuality. It doesn't take itself too seriously, and handles all the basics without getting hysterical. It also covers likely reactions of family and friends - possibly the biggest barrier to coming out. It makes you feel ok about being gay, and that's so important for young people. It also made me giggle a lot, because Juno Dawson's take on so many aspects of gay/straight life is hilarious. Life is far too short to take seriously, and this book really gets that. All parents should also read it, whether or not anyone in the house is gay. Definitely one to buy, read, and then put on the most available bookshelf in your house if you have rising teens. Don't freak out if it goes missing. It's probably doing the rounds of all the questioning young people in your children's circle, and you will be known as the coolest parent for having bought it and made it available (especially if the spine is well-creased).
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SkriptorReviewed in Germany on January 1, 20165.0 out of 5 stars Klasse!
Sehr direkt, sehr witzig, sehr klar, sehr pointiert und empathisch geschrieben ist dieses Buch ebenso kurzweilig lesenswert wie hilfreich für Menschen, die eine queere Identität für sich entwickeln und selbstbewusst leben wollen wie auch für alle, die sich z.B. als Eltern, Lehrer, Therapeuten etc. mit Fragen sexueller Identität, unterschiedlicher sexueller Präferenzen, Coming Out Fragen und queeren Lebensformen intensiver beschäftigen wollen. Ich habe das Buch gelesen, weil mich interssiert hat, wie ein solches Buch 2015 aussieht im Unterschied zu ähnlich gelagerten Werken, die ich in den Achtzigern und Neunzigern gelesen habe, und ich muss sagen: die Lektüre hat einfach auch Spaß gemacht, selbst wenn einem die Themen vertraut sind und man seinen eigenen Weg gefunden hat.
Holly ReidReviewed in Canada on June 29, 20205.0 out of 5 stars If you are anywhere (or not at all) on the LGBT+ spectrum, you gotta read this!
Funny, witty, informative...this book has it all, and is the perfect manual for those coming out, or dealing with societal stigma. It covers all spectrum including trans, and some other topics that are bound to peak your interest.
The little drawings and charts are hilarious











