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This Is Real and You Are Completely Unprepared: The Days of Awe as a Journey of Transformation Hardcover – September 1, 2003
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There are times in life when we are caught utterly unprepared: a death in the family, the end of a relationship, a health crisis. These are the times when the solid ground we thought we stood on disappears beneath our feet, leaving us reeling and heartbroken, as we stumble back to our faith.
The Days of Awe encompass the weeks preceding Rosh Hashanah up to Yom Kippur, a period in which Jews take part in a series of rituals and prayers that reenact the journey of the soul through the world from birth to death. This is a period of contemplation and repentance, comparable to Lent and Ramadan. Yet, for Rabbi Alan Lew, the real purpose of this annual passage is for us to experience brokenheartedness and open our heart to God.
In This is Real and You Are Completely Unprepared, Lew has marked out a journey of seven distinct stages, one that draws on these rituals to awaken our soul and wholly transform us. Weaving together Torah readings, Buddhist parables, Jewish fables and stories from his own life, Lew lays bare the meanings of this ancient Jewish passage. He reveals the path from terror to acceptance, confusion to clarity, doubt to belief, and from complacency to awe.
In the tradition of When Bad Things Happen to Good People, This Is Real And You Are Completely Unprepared enables believers of all faiths to reconnect to their faith with a passion and intimacy that will resonate throughout the year.
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherLittle, Brown and Company
- Publication dateSeptember 1, 2003
- Dimensions5.7 x 0.92 x 8.92 inches
- ISBN-100316739081
- ISBN-13978-0316739085
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Customers find the book helpful and inspiring for spiritual reflection during the holidays. They describe it as a wonderful, worthwhile read that prepares them for the holidays. Readers appreciate the honest and tender writing style.
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Customers find the book helpful for understanding the high holidays. They say it provides a meaningful and spiritual journey through personal reflection. The book is described as interesting and insightful, with personal anecdotes that help with understanding.
"...But overall the content is good, and I did enjoy the read." Read more
"...Inspiring and life affirming!" Read more
"...What an incredible book full of insights and wisdom to help me prepare for the upcoming festivals of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot...." Read more
"...He also shares personal stories that are both deeply real and inspiring. Sadly, Rabbi Lew is no longer with us, though his spirit lives on...." Read more
Customers find the book easy to read and a good read for the holidays. They appreciate the wise, humane, tender, and heartbreaking writing style. The book provides valuable insights and is recommended for the high holidays.
"...Zen training AND was a graduate of the Iowa writing program, uses poetic language and great wisdom to light the way "in this ancient journey of..." Read more
"...Two thumbs way up! PS This could be a great book for anyone who ponders life and death regardless of their religion." Read more
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Customers appreciate the book's authenticity. They find it honest and relatable, sharing a personal spiritual journey.
"...He also shares personal stories that are both deeply real and inspiring. Sadly, Rabbi Lew is no longer with us, though his spirit lives on...." Read more
"An extraordinarily honest, ope, prayer, a personal journey of spiritual reflection, all within the Jewish unfolding of the High Holidays, but a..." Read more
"This book shares the real, beautiful experience of wakefulness. Yom Kippur comes every year, but you can experience it everyday." Read more
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"...every year during the high holidays and it never fails to educate, comfort, and explain. A must have." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on September 3, 2024It’s being used as a text in a class during the weeks preceding the high holidays.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 18, 2023The late Rabbi Alan Lew, who had 10 years of serious Zen training AND was a graduate of the Iowa writing program, uses poetic language and great wisdom to light the way "in this ancient journey of transformation . . . this map of the soul." And he's right there in the turmoil and shambles of life with us, not dictating instructions from a bima. He was unlike any other rabbi and this book is also unlike any other. Highly recommended.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2023This book was received quickly and in good condition. I found it difficult to read due to the small print and the way it was written it was difficult to get started. But overall the content is good, and I did enjoy the read.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 17, 2023Apparently this book had become somewhat of a modern classic like Rabbi Kushner’s “When bad things happen to good people”it is a deep dive into the true message of The High Holy Days and how to prepare yourself.
A book to Ideally begin reading a month before the holidays to fully grasp the intention of these Days of awe. Inspiring and life affirming!
- Reviewed in the United States on September 6, 2020I read this for a book club through one of our community’s Jewish centers, The Soul Center. What an incredible book full of insights and wisdom to help me prepare for the upcoming festivals of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot. I am sure I will be reading it again next year. Two thumbs way up!
PS This could be a great book for anyone who ponders life and death regardless of their religion.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 20, 2024Excellent product and delivery
- Reviewed in the United States on September 24, 2023A must-read for anyone striving toward an awakened life, Jewish or not. Rabbi Lew infuses his book with love and light amidst the suffering of everyday life. He also shares personal stories that are both deeply real and inspiring. Sadly, Rabbi Lew is no longer with us, though his spirit lives on.
Richard Nager
- Reviewed in the United States on May 19, 2019Reading this book is an outstanding journey to prepare oneself for the High Holydays. What a delightfully insightful Rabbi and writer. I'm so sorry I didn't encounter him while he was still alive. I borrowed this book from my temple library and immediately knew I had to own my own copy to use each year to prepare for the Days of Awe. In addition, I have purchased the two other books Rabbi Lew wrote and look forward to adding them to my personal library!
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Jill SegalReviewed in Canada on September 26, 20235.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book
Book was delivered on time. Is an excellent book
Silvana ZehnpfennigReviewed in Germany on September 3, 20225.0 out of 5 stars Powerful
This book is a treasure to give you a great awareness of your only human being, full of deep impressions, to make you feel, who you are.
lynne g.Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 28, 20175.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Amazing book, bought it out of interest and found it very interesting and poetic at times.
danielle touatiReviewed in France on October 8, 20155.0 out of 5 stars High holidays and more
One of the most inspiring book I have ever read, good preparation for High Holidays for lay people as well as rabbis !
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A. BölkerReviewed in Germany on April 4, 20205.0 out of 5 stars top
sehr interessant und spirituell


