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Three Wishes: A True Story of Good Friends, Crushing Heartbreak, and Astonishing Luck on Our Way to Love and Motherhood Hardcover – April 6, 2010
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"An 'incredible tale' and 'Oprah-esque yarn"--The Toronto Star
"...an incredibly wise, witty and powerful memoir...[The authors] forged an incredible sisterhood that speaks to the importance of friendship in women's lives and shows how empowering friends can be." --Irene Levine, The Huffington Post (added by author)
"This true story is a love story--but not a typical one....[The] book's message is pretty good: when you decide to pursue your dreams, good things will find a way of happening." --Woman's Day (added by author)
"The book is a riveting account of their journey to motherhood, which takes some unexpected twists and turns..." --Ladies Home Journal (added by author)
"…This personal, carefully-recounted tale will resonate with any career woman wondering if it’s too late to have it all.” (Publishers Weekly starred Web exclusive review, May 2010)
"Reading Three Wishes is like being let into the juiciest of confidences. I dare you not to root for these tough and gentle women." (Jill Eisenstadt, author of From Rockaway and Kiss Out )
"Three Wishes is a true-life sisterhood tale of friendship, love, amazing luck, and sperm. I was drawn into each woman's life, and their quest for love and motherhood, although not necessarily in that order. A must-read for the 21st century woman on the same journey." (Alice Domar, PhD, author of Be Happy without Being Perfect and Conquering Infertility )
"Three Wishes is a page-turner--full of twists and turns, great and small--that proves life is still a mystery and nothing, if we want it badly enough, is impossible." (Laura Zigman, author of Animal Husbandry and Piece of Work )
"Riveting, seriously riveting!...It's so triumphant, too, in the best possible way." (Julia Sweeney, author of God Said, Ha! )
"This braided story--of longing, persistence, plans gone awry, the gifts of good luck--is at its center about love in its many forms. With its magic numbers and precious vials, it might be a fairy tale, were it not, in its details, so bracingly, bravely contemporary and real." (Elizabeth Graver, author of The Honey Thief and Awake )
"like The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants for adults. Lots of women out there will want to read this book." (Library Journal Barbara Hoffert )
"a fascinating collaborative memoir" (Publishers Weekly Gwenda Bond )
"Three Wishes is a memoir-times-three about what happens when co-author Carey Goldberg decides to go to a sperm bank. The eight vials she purchases turn out to have an unexpected effect: As each woman consider using the vials, she falls in love and becomes pregnant without an assist from science. Goldberg, Beth Jones and Pamela Ferdinand take turns sharing their stories, which are not without heartbreak, but happiness and hope ultimately prevail in this surprising tribute to friendship and motherhood, despite the odds." (Bookpage Linda M. Castellitto )
Top Customer Reviews
The basic story---3 women around 40 want kids. They don't have the right men. One of them gets a vial of sperm from a donor. Through a complicated series of meeting men and chance, the vial gets passed on twice. In the end---well, I won't give it away, but it's a happy ending.
What bugged me was that these women, by their own life choices, created this situation, but then felt very, very entitled to have the perfect man and baby. They all put their careers first---and that's fine,but anyone as intelligent as they all are knows that close to or over 40 is not the best time to have a baby, and indeed, they find that out in very hard ways. They all want men that are like themselves, but in that, they have about 1% of men to chose from--men with "good" careers, a good education, the right kind of family---I'm pretty sure there are lots of ordinary, good-hearted men out there they would never give a second look.Read more ›
This book is about "successful" 40ish women who want to have babies. I would say "have a baby" is more accurate than "become mothers." Babies, here, are another accessory, an achievement to check off on some list. They feel inadequate for having reached their age without having checked "baby" and "husband" off the list. Without giving too many spoilers away, the book describes their unusually charmed--even for wealthy folks used to getting what they want--path to achieve the goals remaining on their list.
The book is made dull by how utterly unexamined their choices are, and the lack of perspective these women all share in common. They seem oblivious to the fact that they have little in common with the average woman in the USA, they seem to think their story will be some kind of "every woman" struggle that we can relate too. It's not. It's just another memoir of amoral yuppies predictably getting what they want, because they can afford to make it happen no matter the cost.
One thing that comes through loud and clear is these three are friends, the kind of friends you want to have, friends for life and that is the engine that drives this story. That friendship sees them through disappointments and trials. That friendship also frames the quest to become mothers. Anyone who has looked tearily at another negative pregnancy test will find this story too familiar...to a point. These are three women who have financial resources and abilities that baffled me as I read. Is this really the way it is? What about the rest (most) of us who just make it day to day without the reach or finances to just order donated sperm if we want? These three women who are so blessed and able have a story, but don't seem to have a lot of insight or warmth towards the subject. The writing is stilted at times and it is hard to stayconnected. Their friendship is the best part of the book,sadly it is not enough.
Each one of these gals want a child. They all let the careers take front and center, then suddenly realized that time was running out. Kinda made me think of Marissa Tomei from My Cousin Vinny tapping her foot saying "My biological clock is ticking." Carey even said she wished her friends who had older children would have told her how special this having a baby is and she would have made it a priority sooner.
Supposedly friends, but I didn't get that, more like acquaintances other than the vial of sperm from an anonymous donor they passed around to each other tying them together. The book chronicles their trials and tribulations of making the decision, finding love and the joy and sometimes sorrow that pregnancy brings, ultimately with each having their beautiful babies.
These were very "progressive" liberal thinking women, sometimes promiscuous, and free spirited. All would be considered quite comfortable financially. World travelers going here and there at the drop of a dime. I'm no prude, but when Beth's boyfriend to be doesn't wanna jump in the sack with her after the first date she is shocked because she always thought you have sex first then you see if you like all the other stuff about em. This is so not my way of thinking. Nor is jetting off to Africa for 21 days leaving my baby and husband behind. I couldn't leave any of them for that long!! When my Dad passed in 09, I took my kids and stayed with my Mom for almost 3 weeks and that was just too long to be away from my husband, we both hated it.Read more ›
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Reading about theses journeys felt intensely personal to me. A love story written for the more realistic of our generation.Published 15 months ago by Angela
Many of the reviews for this book say it’s a book for women who feel their biological clocks ticking. Read morePublished 18 months ago by Avid Reader
Read this book as it was the choice for our book club. It sounded interesting as I experienced infertility in my 30s during the 90s. Read morePublished on February 19, 2013 by seeking insight
This is a sad book in which 3 women nearing 40 want to have a baby, intending to use donor sperm. They all find men instead (some questionable). Read morePublished on January 28, 2013 by NatomaMommy
I'm in my early 20s and can't necessarily relate personally to the reproductive-clock troubles matter in the book, but it was still absolutely PHENOMENAL!! Read morePublished on December 22, 2011 by LaLaLaLaLa
I, like many women of a certain age, became mildly obsessed with finding a partner before it was too late for a baby. Read morePublished on January 14, 2011 by EDaley
I finally had to give it up at about pg 101. For this book being written by three journalists, it was so flat. Read morePublished on November 20, 2010 by doityourself4
Our generation of women have had more opportunities than our mothers. Women have spent more time in school and establishing our careers and waited longer to be married or start... Read morePublished on November 4, 2010 by Gaby at Starting Fresh blog