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Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry: A Self-Help Book for Sex Workers Paperback – July 13, 2017
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- Print length308 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateJuly 13, 2017
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.77 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-100998892068
- ISBN-13978-0998892061
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- Publisher : Erotic as Power Press LLC, The (July 13, 2017)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 308 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0998892068
- ISBN-13 : 978-0998892061
- Item Weight : 13.8 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.77 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #519,009 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #51,895 in Self-Help (Books)
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About the author

Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com.
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Lola does not candy-coat the experience of the sex industry, but she does not judge, demonize, or victimize sex workers either. To say her tone is nonjudgmental is an understatement. She doesn’t just avoid slut shaming; she challenges it head-on and offers sex workers thoughtful, well-reasoned encouragement and support.
And also, Lola has done her homework. Earning her M.A. in Human Sexuality Studies and M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising obviously taught her an appreciation for solid research. She brings her own vast experience in the industry, but she also presents serious, well-documented structures and solutions from disciplines ranging from philosophy and psychology to business and marketing. That said, she writes in an approachable, girlfriend-y voice that makes you feel like she wrote this book just for you.
*Please note: Often, my book reviews read a little more like love letters. I know that and post my thoughts among the other book reviews on Amazon and GoodReads anyway. Lola is a friend and client. I had the pleasure of reading some of this book in draft form and involvement in the project in its final stages.*
Wonderfully written with an open, inviting, and deeply caring voice that guides the readers through an intricate world of considerations about an ever important field of work - Sex Work - whose time to shine in our modern American society has finally arrived.
Ultimately, Thriving in Sex Work succeeds in revealing a most surprising reality. That reality being that Sex Work is Real Work - and Hard Work - plain and simple. And that Sex Work is comprised of most if not all the same issues that any career includes - plus, of course, all the additional abilities that must be carefully developed in order to perform a career that demands the absolute most intimate of circumstances.
Part compassionate psychology and part level-headed planning, this book and the advice that it shares is going to mean the world to our currently existing and expanding force of Sex Workers as well as those who care for and love them.
My heartfelt appreciation and admiration to Lola Davina for creating this beautiful book and the gorgeous new vision it presents of Sex Work!
-- Rory Aiken - Author of Hypersexual
I liked that it was geared to all aspects of sex-work, because a lot of us work in various roles, and although there's serious differences, most of us have to deal with stigma, safety and financials to some degree or another.
I've worked in the industry (in various roles) for decades and wish I'd had this when I was younger. It's a must-read for those entering the field and also a good support for more experienced workers in those times when the work is getting you down.
We've needed a book like this in our community for a long time.
The author takes a deep dive into the "life" and comes back up with genuine insight and practical tips for sex workers. There are tips and strategies to deal with physical safety as one would expect, but there is practical and wise advice for emotional and Financial safety too. If you're in the "life" and feeling burnt out or you think you know what a sex worker's life is about this is a very smart, saavy and practical read. It's also completely inclusive and the author shares many detailed personal accounts from her years on the job. The author is also highly educated with 2 degrees. How about that?!
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