I struggled a bit with how to rate this show. I'll speak to my opinion of the entire first season.
To begin with, I'm a serious theatre lover, and someone who hates musicals. I like foreign films and edgy comedy. I really like artsy, boundary-pushing shows. On the other hand, while there was a lot of very interesting stuff in Transparent, and Jeffrey Tambour gives an amazing performance, I didn't really enjoy watching this show. I don't find it funny very often. Mostly, I find it incredibly sad.
I'm not troubled by the level of graphic sex in this show because of what it is, but I did feel while I was watching that I was watching *gratuitously* graphic sex. Much like levels of gore (*ahem* Quentin Tarantino) that seem like a lazy layer of icing on what could be a genius cake, it seemed to me that the characters in this show were so self-absorbed, so pathetic, so unlikeable, that the graphic sex acts as a yellow highlighter of selfishness smeared all over each fornicating character. Maybe, being so old-fashioned as to find sex a beautiful, natural act of love and joy, I'm just not hip enough to "get it" in this series?
I also hold a very liberal position on adults making adult choices, alone or together. The part of this show that I did like was the fascinating process of Jeffrey Tambour's character finally blossoming into the woman he's always known was inside himself. This is sensitively done, and feels very honest, real, and, finally making the title ring true!--"Transparent!"
Is it meant to be a metaphor that the father's years of hiding her true self from the world led to such insufferable consequences in the characters of her three children? This is the part I struggle with. The adult children are all vile. I can't enjoy any scene where they are the center of attention. No amount of interesting story line makes up for the pain I experience contemplating the existence of people like this.
I wonder if this is why Middle America hates the coasts? I grew up in the Pacific NW, and I live in a liberal New England city, but I believe in morality (mostly as what one must live for oneself, not as a threat to hold up to the throat of others.) The very idea that these characters could seem believable to anyone leaves me reeling. I find them very hard to imagine as real.
Toward the end of the season, there's an episode in which the youngest daughter has a bizarre, dis-associative date with a very butch lesbian. That storyline was one of the few I felt was actually pretty compelling and it has stuck in my mind for weeks. More character development like this, that seems like real, flawed human behavior instead of a sociopathic impulse to work as counter to human goodness as possible, could bring me back to give season two a chance.
There is really good acting here, and an aggressively edgy script. I wish the totality of the subject matter made it worth watching for me. I am legitimately baffled as to what others find to love in it.