- Paperback: 228 pages
- Publisher: BRU Press (February 3, 2016)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0692620753
- ISBN-13: 978-0692620755
- Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.5 inches
- Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars See all reviews (200 customer reviews)
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #7,623 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses Paperback – February 3, 2016
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Amber Lia and Wendy Speake have linked arms to encourage and equip moms and dads who are in desperate need of hope, grace, and practical help for the parenting journey. Amber Lia | A former high school English teacher, Amber is a work-at-home mom of 3 little boys under the age of 8. She and her husband Guy own Storehouse Media Group, a faith-friendly and family-friendly TV and Film production company in Los Angeles, CA. When she’s not building sand castles with her boys on the beach, or searching for Nerf darts all over her house, you can find Amber writing to encourage families on her blog at Mother of Knights (www.motherofknights.com). Wendy Speake | Wendy Speake is a trained actress and heartfelt Bible teacher. She tells stories both on page and stage that allow her to point women toward Jesus on their hardest mothering days. You can follow along at WendySpeake.com or find her regularly as a guest at The MOB Society. Wendy resides in sunny San Diego with her handsome husband and their three ruddy boys.
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This is not one of those books.
I've seen reviewers call this book honest, practical, biblical, and helpful, and it is all of those things. It is divided into 31 topics and can function as a month-long devotional study. The chapters are short and contain many scripture references as well as practical advice. It can also be read straight-through (as I did). I have no doubt that every parent could find wisdom here applicable to her situation no matter the types of trials her family faces.
But this is not why I love this book, have found it infinitely valuable on first reading, and will return to it again and again. What Amber and Wendy have done for parents is beautiful and far beyond self-help or practical advice. You will not find in this book a message of sticky-sweet guilt accompanied by a list of things to do, quotes to pin on your mirror, and charts to make everything better. What you will find is the gospel, sometimes spoken in brutal honesty, but also in tender grace and humility.
See, the thing that tires me about all of those other books is that I know, to the core of my being, that I cannot just set my mind to be a good mom and make it all come out roses. I am weak, and I am a sinner, and I fail. I can memorize your list of alliterated correct responses to my triggers and somehow call that to mind when it seems like all the world is crumbling around me, but that won't save me, change me, or grow gentleness in me. That is the point of the gospel, and that is on glorious display in this book.
Whether you recognize a struggle with anger in your parenting or not, this book is an excellent resource. I don't know that I have ever read a better display of sanctification in progress. This is how it works. This is how God works- through prayerful repentance, humility, and the power of His Word. I started reading thinking I would pick out a few triggers that apply to me and breeze through the rest of it, but it turned out that every chapter arrested me. These are not easy or flippant answers; no cheerleading; this is truth and I think I can breathe again.
I received a free copy of this book.
This book is not about changing your kids, it's about changing your heart! Drawing near to Christ and letting him sustain you through the most difficult of times. Changing your thinking from a poor me, victim attitude, to I can do this, because the Bible says I can do All Things through Christ! And I can! My children are a beautiful gift from God and it is MY job to teach them, to be their first glimpse of God's great love for them. Hard to do a good job at that when flying off the handle all the time. I sill struggle, but am getting so much better! My husband and sister have seen a difference and commented on my reactions.
God uses our children to refine us, to make us better and draw us near to him. I tend to be an overachiever, so I was devastated at my lack of self control. And how can I expect self control from my babies, if I can't model it for them?
This book has really changed my way of thinking. Now I look at the hard situations and see them as opportunities for me to shine! To be like Christ, to do what is right! One of my favorite lines from the book: " Every challenging moment with my child can be a victory for ME, even if it is not for THEM." Even if they are bad, even if I haven't sleep or showered in days, even if everything is falling apart, I can still make the Choice to behave right.
Thank you for writing this book! I am a better mother and daughter to Christ because of it! :)
I also follow their face book page for great encouragement! No More Angry MOB (mother of boys)
My husband and I both just finished reading this and it has changed our family! Wendy and Amber give you practice ways to apply the biblical knowledge you already have and inject that into the attitudes and choices you make in the way you respond when parenting.
I am so thankful for this book!
I would look to hear a few chapters from their husbands for husbands as well...