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The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners Paperback – February 12, 2013
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"I recommend this book to anyone that is into, getting into, or even just curious about prostate play."
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"A truly comprehensive guide to prostate play. While the authors have been careful to thoroughly address the basics for beginners, more experienced players will still find this book useful."
"The book reads well, approaches subjects in a readable way, and is informative and candid. It feels as though you have a prostate sex expert in the room with you as you read it, ready to answer any question you may have and reassure you that your desire to experiment is fine!"
John D Stories
"This is a wonderful book for anyone interested in learning more about the prostate, whether you have one or love someone that does."
Property of Potter
"Both easy and fun to read and written in a very entertaining style the language colorful, but no so much so that it distracts you for the massive amounts of information the pages provide. I’d definitely recommend it to anyone of any sexual orientation."
"Not only does The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure provide detailed, practical advice about prostate stimulation, it is inclusive of transgender women and genderqueer people, and it comprehensively addresses cultural constructs of masculinity that may prevent men from enjoying prostate play (for instance, the idea that heterosexual men do not enjoy sexual penetration). I loved reading it and would highly recommend it to anyone interested in this topic."
Laura Anne Stuart, SEXPress
"If you only have one book about prostate play on your bookshelf, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure should be it. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that it’s the best book on anal play of any sort that I read simply by being inclusive, realistic and easy to digest."
Of Sex and Love
"You’ve heard of G-spot orgasm, now let's move on to the P-spot. This is THE guide."
Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra
"When this book says ultimate guide it means ultimate. I swear they cover every question that has ever been asked, or possibly will be asked about prostate play!"
"I would feel confident recommending this book to anyone interested in exploring prostate and anal pleasure from an absolute beginner to an intermediate level player. Even if you have taken a course on this topic previously, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure serves as a fantastic reminder for all the tidbits of information consumed in the course of a class."
The Sex Lady
"After interviewing 200 men and their partners Charlie Glickman (who I have personally referred to as a prostate whisperer” and prostate Batman”- clearly he’s my go-to source on all things prostate) and Aislinn Emirzian have produced a roadmap to prostate pleasure that I can only describe as exhaustive, in the best possible way. This book serves as an intro to prostates”, a guide to pleasure through prostate stimulation and a discussion of the stigmas that surround the activity all at once. Regardless of you orientation or experience level, even if you have no immediate plans to stimulate a prostate, this book is an immensely valuable addition to your library."
The Redhead Bedhead
"Charlie and Aislinn have done a fantastic job compiling all the info into an easily accessible guide. I HIGHLY recommend it. It would be pretty awesome for a couple to read it together. In fact, this book and a beginner prostate toy would make an extremely thoughtful gift."
The Beautiful Kind
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure is a great book. I love its language especially; clinical when necessary, a dash of tongue-in-cheek humor, and then its casual/relatable the rest of the time. Thank goodness, really, it has been quite refreshing to finally be treated like a real, live adult by a how to” book, instead of a dummy”. And it isn’t just the language that has me smiling, it is that the reader starts with FAQ’s AND THEN, the authors answer those questions right away! How cool is that? I was pleased that I didn’t have to wait until the end to get answers."
"Men who may not feel confident exploring anal play will be empowered to claim the prostate as an erogenous zone ripe for exploration. And men who already enjoy prostate play will find much to learn from sex educators Charlie Glickman, Ph.D., and Aislinn Emirzian, whose wisdom and warmth will be both reassuring and inspirational to readers."
Erotic Readers and Writers Association
"Women have their G-spots. And thanks to the prostate, men have their P-spots. Most gay men are fully aware of this special internal playground, but what many don’t know is how to make sure it’s reaching its full potential. Until now. Say hello to The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Think of it as kind of a Back Doors for Dummies. Or Everything I Ever Needed to Know About My Prostate I Learned from that Kindergarten Teacher I Banged Last Week.But in all seriousness, this is an extremely interesting read (and the homework’s fun, too). Written in a very conversational tone with limited use of clinical sounding terms, it’s filled with advise on not just how to make this tiny gland the life of every party, but also how to maintain its health. It answers any possible question you might have, plus dozens you’ve likely never considered.Read this book and who knows, you might just learn a few new tricks. Which in turn might help you get a few new tricks."
Gay List Daily
"This modern guide will steer you past any hang-ups and gently around anatomy's curves to bring you prostate pleasure and orgasmic thrills you never knew you had coming to you. If you've got questions, Charlie and Aislinn have got the answers."
Dr. Sadie, Author, Tickle My TushMild-To-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty
"Dr. Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian have written the end-all guide to prostate pleasure. This book will appeal to so many different groups of people - solo, partnered, vanilla, hetero, queer, bi, gay, young, old... everyone who wants to know more about this oft-ignored source of pleasure in one's sexual repertoire. The focus of this book is on informing beginners through masters level everything from dispelling myths to basic communication skills to the how-to's of giving or receiving prostate pleasure. Well done!"
~Lanae St.John, Sexologist & Sex Educator "The MamaSutra"
"I appreciate that I was exposed to new ways of thinking about prostate stimulation and to perspectives that Charlie and Aislinn have gleaned from others’ trials, errors, and significant pleasures. This very good book will likely influence many people’s sexual lives, and ways of thinking about sex and what it means to be a man (and a sexual man), for years to come."
Debbie Herbenick, author of Great in Bed
"This superb guide combines the friendliness of a good buddy with the savvy knowledge of a top-notch sex educator, explaining the in's and out's, how's and why's, of prostate pleasure, including answering those questions you thought you couldn't ask anybody. Whatever you want to know about the pleasures and the how-to's of prostate stimulation, it's in this book."
-Joan Price, author of Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex
"A great addition to a largely underground history that is finally coming into the light. Everyone deserves the sex information that will make their desires consensually possible, safe, and full of pleasure." Dr. Carol Queen
"A very thoughtful and well-written look at this hidden but important part of male sexuality. Highly recommended for any man or couple who wants to explore the prostate and its potential for extra sexual
Paul Joannides, PhD, author Guide To Getting It On
From the Back Cover
The P-spot is today's hottest topic in male sexuality. Just as G-spot exploration forever transformed many women's experience of orgasm, growing numbers of men are enhancing their sex lives with P-spot arousal and orgasm. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, written by sex educators Charlie Glickman, PhD, and Aislinn Emirzian, offers men erotic pleasure beyond what they imagined possible. This indispensable manual to P-spot pleasure covers both solo and partner play. Whether you are a first-time adventurer or a seasoned practitioner, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure will support and guide your exploration of this powerful source of sexual fulfillment.
What you'll learn inside:
Handy how-tos on massage, pegging, positions, toys and more
Techniques for building trust and talking about your desires
How to maintain and improve prostate health
Important safety and hygiene information
Illustrated tips and techniques about achieving supercharged orgasms
Top Customer Reviews
If you're even the tiniest bit curious about prostate play, this book is a must-have!
One of the first things I thought about with the book was that it made it less about you and more about what you can do with your partner. This involves alot of discussion, trust and the ability to think of others as you are exploring ways to better satisfy each other.
We all know that there are some things that are just not normally discussed. Prostate pleasure is one of those things. The book helps you to see that it is less about sexuality and more about sensuality. That's a great point for individuals who think it is just something for same-sex relationships. Explored in a way that is not just tasteful but informative, I think Glickman has been able to take the sting out of discussing a sensitive topic---opening the door to another way that couples can bond.
If you are looking for ways to enhance your intimacy level with your partner then this ultimate guide might be just what you need.
I've heard Dr. Glickman speak several times and I read his blog regularly. He's on a mission to provide the solid information that we need to get the most sexual pleasure from our bodies, our relationships, our attitudes. He's a fabulous sex educator (and one of the 45 experts providing advice in my award-winning book, Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex).
I'm glad that he has written a book himself so that we can all gain from his knowledge and upbeat, shame-free approach.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Very worthwhile reading, whether you're new to the subject or not. Full of good information.Published 6 months ago by Native Son
Have not finished the book yet but a lot of great knowledge. If interested in the subject, this is the book to get. Both of us are reading it.Published 16 months ago by The Grab Family
I had read articles and reviews about this book (all positive and informative) and they were all true! Read morePublished 18 months ago by Stephanie
If you want to please your husband and know how to, read this book;) keep that prostate happy!Published 19 months ago by Sue Orr