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Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community Paperback – January 8, 2013
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“Engaging and real, fascinating and gritty, Heuertz invites you to journey with him as he wrestles aloud with the challenges and surprises of life lived together. With insights collected from his experiences in slums, favelas, and neighborhoods around the world, he reveals the ugly myths that unhinge relationships. With a courageous honesty he speaks the unspoken questions that we all harbor, but are too scared to say. Heuertz gives hope, prophetic challenges, and an unexpected gift in this book.” (Nikki Toyama-Szeto, Urbana Program Director, Co-editor of More than Serving Tea)
“Unexpected Gifts is a prophetic book about the wisdom of community. For nearly two decades Christopher Heuertz has led the community Word Made Flesh, whose goal is to serve and be with the most miserable and oppressed people of our world, hidden in war-torn lands, slums, and red light districts of big cities. The community founded in the evangelical church has become ecumenical; members from different churches united in their desire to serve the poorest of the poor, are inspired by Jesus. I would hope that many from my own Roman Catholic church may discover this new community clearly blessed by Jesus and the Holy Spirit.” (Jean Vanier, author, founder of the Communities of l'Arche)
“There are few people who can reframe the way we think or act and bring about a paradigm shift . . . Chris and Phileena are gifted with this. Their experiences are filtered through grace and the unconditional love of God, which Chris brilliantly articulates in this book. Fundamentally, it’s a book about faithfulness to relationships. Anyone interested in leading an authentic Christian life will find wisdom reading it. Although Christian community-living is difficult, Chris challenges the common response of rejection within those communities. He suggests that the challenges can be converted to unexpected gifts. Chris is a brilliant and creative thinker of our time and uses parallel stories to contrast and expose the truth that leaves an indelible impression on your mind." (Pranitha Timothy, Director of Aftercare, International Justice Mission)
“By sharing stories of tragedy and triumph, Chris illustrates an intricate picture of how communities come together in the beauty and the broken. His passion, commitment, and service toward others is evident through his vulnerable and transparent experiences in community. I feel immensely privileged to learn from these intimate stories of honest pains and true joys that stem from genuine relationships. You’ll find yourself both challenged and encouraged by this gift that Chris shares with us.” (Nikole Lim, Founder & Executive Director of Freely in Hope)
“Chris Heuertz’s Unexpected Gifts is a clarion call to missional community as ancient as Jesus’ first challenge for the disciples to ‘follow me’ . . . together. Heuertz’s eyes have seen the glory, and his flesh has borne the scars of life together. As a result, his provocative and inspiring roadmap for community life offers insightful instruction for the next generation of saints while applying a healing salve for those who may have tried and failed before. Heuertz’s book is an unexpected gift, indeed.” (Lisa Sharon Harper, Director of Mobilizing at Sojourners, Co-Author of Left, Right and Christ: Evangelical Faith in Politics, and Author of Evangelical Does Not Equal Republican . . . or)
"Ever wondered what it actually means to live in community? Chris Heuertz asks tough questions and shares vivid stories that will both haunt you as well as lift your spirit. He takes you on a journey through the slums of Calcutta to the war-torn streets of Sierra Leone to dimly lit clubs in Omaha, Nebraska posing questions and looking for answers. It's a trip worth taking." (Scott Harrison, Founder and CEO of charity: water)
"In a world of stale religiosity, Chris Heuertz is a breath of fresh air. He's unafraid to ask risky questions and even propose provocative answers, but he does so with humility and grace. Unexpected Gifts challenges readers to consider that the supposed burdens of life-on-life community may be blessings in disguise. Read it and prepare to be changed." (Jonathan Merritt, author of A Faith of Our Own: Following Jesus Beyond the Culture Wars)
"In his book, Unexpected Gifts, Chris Heuertz confesses that this was not an easy book to write. Truth be told, this is not an easy book to read. If you're looking for an easy, simple, solution-based seven steps and gung-ho parade to being a perfect community, look elsewhere. This book is raw, difficult, uncomfortable, and emotional, but here's the deal: it speaks truth—with humility and honesty—and points us to the One who created us for community, friendship, and relationship. Community is the thing that we long for the most, and in my opinion, the thing that scares us the most. I don't know how to recommend this book but to simply invite you to journey with it." (Eugene Cho, lead pastor of Quest Church, founder of One Day's Wages)
“Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community brings a freshness to a topic in danger of growing stale: community. It is honest. It’s not often that a leader is so forthright, confessional even, about personal struggles, mistakes, and regrets. It is refreshing. Throwing open the doors and windows and letting in some air so we can all breathe a little easier and deeper. This transparency contrasts deeply with the more common posturing to prove something….competence or holiness or effectiveness or whatever the case might be. It is gritty. Tackling very real but seldom addressed areas like failure, doubt, grief, disappointment, sexual energy, and even boredom. It’s nuanced throughout with Chris’ international experiences (like traveling the ancient Camino pilgrimage), to biblical exploration (like considering the reasonable pragmatism of Judas), to personal anguish (like the decision not to have children) that keep it real, insightful, and compelling. I highly recommend this read if you have any interest in community, leadership, or living an authentic life of faith." (Stuart Erny, Director of Campus Ministries, Anderson University)
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Reading Christopher Heuertz's new book, Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community, gave me a sense of nostalgia and longing for those times. Heuertz is executive directer of Word Made Flesh, an organization committed to "serving Jesus among the poorest of the poor." Unexpected Gifts tells a little bit of the story of Word Made Flesh, but I could only infer a little from the book. Apparently WMF is made up of communities around the world who live intentionally (and, presumably, communally) in very poor areas, ministering among the residents.
Unexpected Gifts will appeal most to those who are, or are considering, living communally. Heuertz presents an honest picture, not glossing over some of the difficulties of community living, especially when the community has chosen to live in a slum or other marginal setting. He starts out by saying the book is "about the cost of community, not positive spin. In community, there will always be a series of losses, giving something up to gain something more. But in the giving up, we find better versions of ourselves.Read more ›
Chris' experience as international director of Word Made Flesh for the last sixteen years enhances his storytelling as he shares the lives of those around the globe that face unfathomable suffering yet still press in to the love and hope of God with a faith that I will never understand. These stories are intertwined to reveal the work of God's kingdom, inexorably making all things new, as we too are made new through the struggle of shared experience.
Topics like failure, the presence of doubt, and entitlement are so often labeled as areas we should avoid in our effort to make it to the top, but Chris tackles these issues as the very experiences that invite us into deeper waters both within ourselves and within others. With honesty and vulnerability, we see that we can be a part of creating something beautiful in our relationships, and that maybe that's what God intended all along.
Chris and his wife Phileena, are two of the leading voices in missions, both sounding a siren call to the practices and postures necessary to be a part of God's redemptive work. May we all glean from their wisdom and learn from their example.
Now, with Unexpected Gifts, he pulls back the curtain.
For nearly two decades, Chris has made building community in some of the hardest places on earth look, well . . . easy. With this disarmingly honest book, we learn that it has been anything but. And, Chris himself is candid about his own struggles and multiple failures along the roads of friendship and leadership. The openness and integrity with which Chris writes is precisely what makes this book so valuable to every one of us who have tried, struggled, and often failed at building meaningful and lasting relationships in groups both large and small.
This book is a compelling invitation, chapter after chapter, to wade through the brokenness of community and discover more about yourself, in order that you too might stumble upon the Unexpected Gifts waiting for you there.
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I had a hard time getting past the first chapter. I don't know if I was board, overwhelmed or just lacking in the 'attention skill' department but it was difficult. Read morePublished on May 28, 2014 by Aaron R
this is a wonderful book that will challenge you and push you further in your conversation about the gifts and challenges of being in community as well as help you look at your... Read morePublished on April 9, 2013 by julia
Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community by Christopher L. Heuertz yields two gifts: WHAT Heuertz wrote and THAT he wrote it. Read morePublished on March 23, 2013 by Ian Durias
Chris Heuertz is vulnerable, honest and beautifully raw in this amazing book. This book put words to the feelings and thoughts experiences I have personally encountered for myself... Read morePublished on March 20, 2013 by Jeff Tarr
Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community
“In true community, failures give us the chance to choose people over principles. Read more
Relationships, known also as Community are essential for abundant and vibrant life. Grasping that is crucial but understanding how community is fraught with minefields is also... Read morePublished on February 13, 2013 by Michael J.
In his new book, Unexpected Gifts: Discovering the Way of Community, Christopher Heuertz takes a hard honest look at the real-world life of community from a confessional viewpoint. Read morePublished on February 11, 2013 by Jonathan Dodd
I received a copy of Unexpected Gifts free from Howard Books for the purpose of this review. The opinions expressed here are my own. Read morePublished on February 5, 2013 by Kelly
I love Chris Heuertz. I really do. I think he's not only brilliant, but truly a man of integrity that lives out everything he writes and speaks about. Read morePublished on February 3, 2013 by Andrew Marin