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The Virgins is the story of Aviva Rossner and Seung Jung's erotic awakening at Auburn Academy re-imagined in richly detailed episodes by their classmate Bruce, a once-embittered voyeur, now repentant narrator, whose envy spurs the novel's tragic end.
* A New York Times Editor's Choice selection
* A Chicago Tribune Editor's Choice selection
* A Best Book of 2013, The New Yorker
* A Best Book of 2013, The New Republic
* A Critics' Choice selection for 2013, Salon
* A Best Indie Title of 2013, Library Journal
* One of Redbook's "Top Ten Beach Reads of 2013"
* One of O Magazine's "Ten Titles to Pick Up Now," August 2013
* Featured in The Millions's "Most-Anticipated" List 2013
* A "This Week's Hot Reads" selection, The Daily Beast
* A Vanity Fair Hot Type selection
* The Virgins was a finalist for the John Gardner Award
* Publishers Weekly named The Virgins one of the best boarding school books of all time
It’s 1979, and Aviva Rossner and Seung Jung are notorious at Auburn Academy. They’re an unlikely pair at an elite East Coast boarding school (she’s Jewish; he’s Korean American) and hardly shy when it comes to their sexuality. Aviva is a formerly bookish girl looking for liberation from an unhappy childhood; Seung is an enthusiastic dabbler in drugs and a covert rebel against his demanding immigrant parents. In the minds of their titillated classmates―particularly that of Bruce Bennett-Jones―the couple lives in a realm of pure, indulgent pleasure. But, as is often the case, their fabled relationship is more complicated than it seems: despite their lust and urgency, their virginity remains intact, and as they struggle to understand each other, the relationship spirals into disaster.
The Virgins is the story of Aviva and Seung’s descent into confusion and shame, as re-imagined in richly detailed episodes by their classmate Bruce, a once-embittered voyeur turned repentant narrator. With unflinching honesty and breathtaking prose, Pamela Erens brings a fresh voice to the tradition of the great boarding school novel.
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherTin House Books
- Publication dateAugust 6, 2013
- Dimensions5.2 x 1 x 7.9 inches
- ISBN-101935639625
- ISBN-13978-1935639626
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― John Irving, New York Times Book Review
"Adroitly capturing the anguish of adolescent desire, Erens's latest is a lesson in love, loss, and tragedy."
― Publishers Weekly
"Erens writes with great believability and sensitivity about the teenage years, when school and family pressures, along with sexual awakening, can seem like life-and-death issues. Whether she's describing a visit to an ice cream stand or Seung and Aviva's explorations of lovemaking, her prose is sensual and lyrical. . .Many readers will want to investigate this work."
― Library Journal
"As in many budding relationships, the best part of Erens’s recent novel is simply the suggestion of sex. In The Virgins, we join the author’s two college characters for their early explorations of one another and watch them through the voyeuristic perspective of another student."
― Time Out New York
"This newest addition to the 'boarding school novels we love' category mixes the unsettling drama of A Separate Peace with the sexual juiciness of Prep. . .The dark twist of an ending will haunt you for days."
― Redbook.com
"Perhaps it is going too far to say that The Virgins is primarily about the fundamental flaws of white, male narrators in fiction. It is also about sex, fear―especially of authority―class, desire, shame and jealousy. But in reveling in the power of narrative, the book asks the reader to think about who is―and who has been―allowed to wield it."
― The New York Observer
"With The Virgins, Pamela Erens' intricate second novel, she has done a star turn with the prep school tale, giving it meaning for those who might not usually care about that world."
― The Chicago Tribune, Editor's Choice
"It's rare to find a book that summons the delicate emotional state of teenagers ― especially when it comes to sex ― without being precious or cynical, but Pamela Erens' The Virgins beautifully manages that feat."
― Los Angeles Times
"[Erens] manages a delicate bit of witchcraft such that, by halfway through the novel, our fingertips are humming on the page. And that is due to the way she summons so intensely the momentousness of adolescence, when everything feels big and important, and every moment feels like the one after which you will never be the same again."
― The Guardian
"On par with the likes of Jeffrey Eugenides’s The Virgin Suicides and Sheila Kohler’s Cracks, The Virgins is a devastating tour de force that sets a new bar for unreliable narrators."
― The Independent
"A devilish narrator looks back on his boarding school days, when he and another young man develop an obsession with the new girl on campus. But he tells their story in a voyeuristic way, to make this one of the most troubling and serpentine novels of the year."
― The Daily Beast
"Outsiders at a prestigious East Coast boarding school in 1979, Aviva Rossner and Seung Jung find and then tragically lose each other. Rarely has the anguish of young love, self-discovery, and sexual jealousy―heightened by the sting of class division―been rendered so tellingly."
― Library Journal
"In her second novel, The Virgins, Pamela Erens paints an arresting portrait of adolescent sexuality ― at once beautiful, erotic, awkward, and shameful. With its racial tensions, vile narrator, and tragic climax, The Virgins reads like a prep school Othello, set to a soundtrack of Devo and Jethro Tull."
― Leigh Stein, Los Angeles Review of Books
"In Pamela Erens’s evocative second book, The Virgins, boarding school is a microcosm of society, with its strict social norms that frown on blatant sexuality."
― The Rumpus
"With a lyrical voice, Pamela Erens has written a novel about first love and sexual awakening that is multilayers and perceptive...[The Virgins] is thickly layered with prose that intrigues the mind and captivates the senses."
― Foreword Reviews
"The metaphysics of The Virgins [is] that the potential eroticism in all things makes them all secretly significant."
― Slate
"Erens brilliantly captures that time when someone is determined to give up virginity and how all-consuming sex becomes. She writes about the mystique, the slow building and the machinations Seung and Aviva experience."
― New Jersey Star Ledger
"The Virgins does qualify as a new classic and students of the form will read it again and again."
― Gently Read Literature
"Virginity is treated with. . .grace and subtlety in Pamela Erens’s latest novel, The Virgins (Tin House Books), a beautifully written story about two outcasts who form an all-consuming bond at an exclusive boarding school, as told, in secretive, sweaty detail, by a rather odious classmate."
― Vulture.com
"With a cover like this, who could resist a peek? What lay inside was even more riveting than the titillating, slightly disturbing, Lolita-esque photo that first encouraged me to have a go. A prep-school saga about sex, rumors, young love, and adult regret, The Virgins encouraged its readers to feel as frenzied, and libidinous, and strung out as a 17-year-old in the throes of first lust. This small, smart masterpiece is a beautiful shot of adrenaline―with a terrifying come down."
― Hillary Kelly, The New Republic
"This is some of the strongest literary fiction I've read in a while..."
― The Tattered Cover
"The Virgins reminded me how gratifying it is to fall into a good novel―one that feeds the senses and makes us think."
― The Common Online
"As an editor, I can say this is one of the most finely crafted books I’ve read. The fresh approach of a narrator who is imagining our scenes adds a compelling filter who still feels trustworthy. . .Erens handling of the characters sexuality and the grace with which she handles the sex scenes―with teenagers―deserves a separate round of applause. . .As a reader, I was simply moved."
― The Painted Bride Quarterly, Drexel University
"Now that James Salter is in his twilight years, his considerable fan base will be ecstatic to encounter his heiress apparent, Pamela Erens, whose erotically charged prose reaches for naming the ineffable, honoring the elusive, and celebrating the bodily majesty of life. An extraordinary novel."
― Antonya Nelson, author of Bound
"A sensual and haunting story of sexual awakening, Pamela Erens’s exquisitely written The Virgins vividly captures the thrill of youthful innocence and the crushing pain of its loss. This is a profound―and profoundly moving―novel. I couldn't put it down, and I didn't want it to end."
― Will Allison, author of Long Drive Home
"Suspenseful and swift and well made, The Virgins, Pamela Erens's exciting new fiction, ratchets up the heat on the boarding school novel with ferociously sensual descriptions of frustrated love―love imagined and love experienced. Easy to fall for this book and fall hard."
― Christine Schutt, author of Prosperous Friends
"Like the unforgettable Aviva Rossner, The Virgins is small but not slight―intense, sublime, vivid, uncanny, irresistible. It joins the ranks of the great boarding school novels while somehow evoking the twisted, obsessive narrations of Nabokov’s Pale Fire or Wharton’s Ethan Frome. Pamela Erens is that rare writer who can articulate―and gorgeously―the secrets we never knew about ourselves."
― Rebecca Makkai, author of The Borrower
"The Virgins is a stunningly beautiful novel. It is precisely observed, skillfully constructed, and brilliantly written. This is possibly the best novel of the many good ones set in a New England prep school, that terrain of elegance and envy, of flowering and blight."
― John Casey, National Book Award-winning author of Spartina
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1979
We sit on the benches and watch the buses unload. Cort, Voss, and me.
We’re high school seniors, at long last, and it’s the privilege of seniors to take up these spots in front of the dormitories, checking out the new bodies and faces. Boys with big glasses and bangs in their eyes, girls with Farrah Fawcett hair. Last year’s girls have already been accounted for: too ugly or too studious or too strange, or already hitched up, or too gorgeous even to think about.
It’s long odds, we know: one girl here for every two boys. And the new kids don’t tend to come on these buses shuttling from the airport or South Station. Their anxious parents cling to the last hours of control and drive them, carry their things inside the neat brick buildings, fuss, complain about the drab, spartan rooms. If there’s a pretty girl among them, you can’t get close to her for the mother, the father, the scowling little brother who didn’t want to drive hundreds of miles to get here. We don’t care about the new boys, of course. We’ll get to know them later. Or not.
She turns her ankle as she comes down the bus steps--just a little wobble--laughs, and rights herself again. Her sandals are tapered and high. Only a tiny heel connects with the rubber-coated steps. She wears a silky purple dress, slit far up the side, and a white blazer. Her outfit is as strange in this place--this place of crew-neck sweaters and Docksiders--as a clown’s nose and paddle feet. Her eyes are heavily made up, blackened somehow, sleepy, deep. She waits on the pavement while the driver yanks up the storage doors at the side. She points and he pulls out two enormous matching suitcases, fabric-sided, bright yellow. His muscles bulge lifting them onto the pavement.
I jump up. Cort and Voss are still computing, trying to figure this girl out, but I don’t intend to wait. Voss makes a popping sound with his lips, to mock me and to offer his respectful surprise. After all, I supposedly already have a girlfriend.
Do you need some help?” I ask her.
She smiles slowly, theatrically. Her teeth are very straight, very white. Orthodontia or maybe fluoride in the water. I wonder where she’s from. City, fancy suburb? It suddenly hits me. She’s one of those. I can see it in her dark eyes, the bump in her nose, her thick, dark, kinky hair.
I’m in Hiram,” she says.
Let me recreate her journey.
She awakens in her big room at an hour when it is still dark, pushes open the curtains of her four-poster bed. Little princess. Across the hall, her brother is still sleeping. He’s four years younger than she is: twelve. She makes herself breakfast: a bagel with cream cheese, O.J., and a bowl of Cheerios; she’s always ravenous in the morning. She eats alone. Her mother, in her bathrobe, reads stacks of journals upstairs. Her father is shaving. He doesn’t like to eat in the morning. He brings her to the airport but they say nothing during the long drive through the flat gray streets of Chicago. She hopes that he’ll say he’ll miss her, that he’ll pretend this parting takes something out of him. She was the one who asked to go away, but in the car her belly acts up, she’s queasy. She thinks she may need to rush to the bathroom as soon as they get to O’Hare. She wishes she hadn’t eaten so much. If her father would act like he might miss her, is afraid for her, she could be a little less afraid for herself. She has practiced her walk, her talk, everything she needs to present herself. She is terrified of going somewhere new simply to end up invisible again.
One long heel sinks into the mud. The past days have brought late-summer rains to New Hampshire, and although the air is now dry, the grass between the parking areas and the dormitories is soft and mucky. This is a girl used to walking on city pavement, concrete. She laughs and pulls herself out. She is determined to make it seem as if everything that happens to her is something she meant to happen, or can gracefully control. She avoids the wetter grass but in a moment she sinks again. Oh boy,” she says. Her dress is long, almost to her ankles. I put down her suitcases and hold out my hand; she takes it and I pull. Her freed shoe makes a sucking sound. When I go over the sound in my mind later, it strikes me as obscene. Her suitcases are heavy, heavy as I’ve since learned only a woman’s luggage can be. It’s only a little farther to her dorm. She tells me that she’s an upper--what other high schools call a junior--and we exchange names. Aviva Rossner. She repeats mine, Bruce Bennett-Jones, like she’s thinking it over, trying to decide if it’s a good one.
She walks ahead of me instead of following, perhaps intending me to watch her small ass shifting under the white jacket. The wind lifts the hem of her dress, pastes it against her long bare leg. The Academy flag whips around above us and clings to the flagpole in the same way. The smell of ripened apples floods the air. We’re on the pavement, finally; she click-clacks to the heavy door and opens it for me. Strong arms on such a slender girl. Someone’s playing piano in the common room, a ragtime tune. Aviva starts up the stairs, expecting me to bring the bags. It’s strictly against the rules for a boy to go up to the residential floors. I go up.
Inside the dorm, the light is dim. The walls are cream-colored and dingy, the floors ocher. She counts out the door numbers until she finds hers: 21. I put the suitcases by the dresser, the same plain wooden dresser that sits in my room and in every student room on campus. Her suitcases containwe’ll all see in the days to comeV-necked angora sweaters, slim skirts, socks with little pom-poms at the heels, teeny cut-off shorts, cowboy boots, lots of gold jewelry, many pouches of makeup.
There’s a mirror above the dresser. I catch a view of myself: sweaty forehead, damp curls. Aviva’s roommate is not here yet. The closet yawns open, wire hangers empty.
Thank you so much,” she says.
I give the front door a push. It hits dully against the frame, doesn’t shut. Aviva has plenty of time to do something: slip into the hallway, order me to go away. She regards me with a patient smile. I am going to slow down the action now, relating this; I want to see it all again very clearly. Like a play being blocked--my stock-in-trade. And so: I push again and the door grinding shut is the loudest and most final sound I have ever heard. Aviva steps back to lean against it and let me approach. She’s a small girl and moving close to her I feel, for once, that I have some size. The waxy collar of her jacket prickles the hair on my forearms. Her neck is damp and slippery, and her mouth, as I kiss it, tastes like cigarettes and chocolate. I picture her smoking rapidly, furtively, in the little bathroom on the plane. Her hair smells a little rancid. The perfume she put on this morning has moldered with sweat and travel and now gives off an odor of decayed pear.
Don’t open your mouth so wide,” she says.
My feet are sweating in my sneakers. My crotch itches. My scalp itches. She drops her hand and I see that her fingernails are painted a pearly pink.
She tilts her head against the door and laughs. Her thick curls swarm. I could bite her exposed neck. I do not want to get caught, sent home. I see my father’s hand raised up to hit me and know I’m about to step off a great ledge. In a panic I reach for the doorknob, startling Aviva. I open the door carefully, listen to the stairs and hallways. It’s all right,” she says, although how can she know this? But she happens to be correct. There’s the oddest emptiness and silence as if these moments and this place were set aside just for us amid the busyness of moving-in day at the Academy. Aviva gives the door a bump with her ass to shut it again, but I insert myself into the opening and slide past her, fleeing down the stairs and out into Hiram’s yard.
Cort and Voss are no longer sitting on the bench in front of Weld. A lone bicycle is chained to its arm.
Later I see Voss in the common room reading a New Gods comic book. How was the chick?” he asks. I shrug. Big nose, I say. Too much makeup. Not my type.
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- ISBN-10 : 1935639625
- ISBN-13 : 978-1935639626
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- Dimensions : 5.2 x 1 x 7.9 inches
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Reader's Digest calls Pamela Erens one of "23 Contemporary Writers You Should Have Read by Now."
Erens is the author of three novels for adults--ELEVEN HOURS, THE VIRGINS, and THE UNDERSTORY--one novel for children, and a book of nonfiction.
ELEVEN HOURS (Tin House Books) is about the intersection of two women, nurse and patient--both with complicated pasts--over the course of a day leading up to childbirth. The novel was named to the year-end "Best of 2016" lists of NPR, The New Yorker, Kirkus, and Literary Hub. It received acclaim from The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Los Angeles Times, Boston Globe, and NPR, and other venues.
Erens's second novel, THE VIRGINS (Tin House Books) was described by John Irving in The New York Times as "flawlessly executed and irrefutably true." THE VIRGINS was a New York Times and a Chicago Tribune Editor's Choice, and was named a Best Book of 2013 by The New Yorker, Library Journal, Salon, and The New Republic. The novel was a finalist for the John Gardner Fiction Prize for the best work of fiction published in 2013.
Erens's debut novel, THE UNDERSTORY (Ironweed Press) was a finalist for the Los Angeles Times Book Prize and the William Saroyan International Prize for Writing. The original 2007 edition was reissued by Tin House Books in 2014.
MATASHA, Erens's novel for children, was published by IgKids in 2021. Aimed at ages 9 through 14, MATASHA takes place against the backdrop of the end of the war in Vietnam. It's about the bridge from childhood to adolescence, family breakup, intellectual curiosity, and figuring out who can help when no one around you seems able to.
MIDDLEMARCH AND THE IMPERFECT LIFE, Erens's most recent book (2022), is part of Ig Publishing's nonfiction BOOKMARKED series and explores the formative influence of George Eliot's masterpiece on Erens's personal and artistic life.
Erens's short fiction and essays have appeared in a wide variety of literary, cultural, and mainstream publications, including The New York Times, Slate, Vogue, Elle, Virginia Quarterly Review, Los Angeles Review of Books, The Millions and Tin House, and in the anthologies WHY I LIKE THIS STORY, VISITING HOURS, and THE HOUSE THAT MADE ME. For many years, Erens worked as a magazine editor, including at Glamour. Her website is www.pamelaerens.com.
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Pamela Erens' new novel The Virgins seeks to capture that time, those feelings. It's 1979 at Auburn Academy, a prestigious New England prep school. Seung Jung, an affably popular Korean athlete, proctor, and dabbler in recreational drugs, begins a relationship with new student Aviva Rossner, a mid-western Jewish girl both desperate to be noticed and not to be noticed, who is trying to escape an unhappy childhood. While Seung is laid-back while Aviva is intense, the two find refuge in each other and their relationship, and are caught up in the youthful exuberance of young love and sexual exploration.
"Even the teachers talked about them. Seung Jung and Aviva Rossner were bewitched."
The couple isn't ashamed of demonstrating their affection for one another wherever they are, much to the chagrin of teachers and school administrators, and both the resentment and titillation of their fellow students. Bruce Bennett-Jones, a student quick to point out he descends from one of the "better" families in New Jersey (from the same town as Seung, but from the "right side of the tracks"), narrates the novel, both from remembered observations as an outsider looking in at Aviva and Seung's relationship, and details he imagined as someone resentful of the relationship, since he was attracted to Aviva himself.
As we often learn, however, what we see and what we believe to be true isn't always the reality, and that is the case for Seung and Aviva's relationship, which struggles far short of the unbridled sexual congress their peers imagine they partake in constantly. Laden down by physical and emotional pressures, by the expectations of Seung's parents and the dissolving marriage and disregard of Aviva's, the couple realizes that they, too, don't really understand each other, which ultimately leads to tragic consequences.
The Virgins all too accurately captures the feelings of adolescent relationships and the way they affect others. And while Bruce Bennett-Jones is an unsympathetic narrator, the way Pamela Erens describes his conflicted emotions and actions is spot-on as well. I found it interesting that the book was set in 1979, because apart from random mentions of historical events (and the absence of cell phones, emails, and text messages), I didn't necessarily feel that the time period had much of a bearing on what transpired in the book--so much of the feelings and issues it portrayed are the same today.
Erens is an excellent writer and she really hooked me on the plot pretty quickly. My only regret was that while I wanted to know what happened to the main characters, other than Seung, I didn't like them much. (It's a testament to Erens' storytelling ability that some of the supporting characters were far more interesting and dynamic than Aviva and Bruce, and in fact, I would love to know what happened to them.) Aviva's emotional coldness and vacillations made her less appealing, and Bruce's actions and simultaneous bravado and self-loathing made him very hard to care about. But again, it shows the strength of Erens' story that I wanted to keep reading despite disliking the characters.
The Virgins is a tremendously intriguing social commentary and a true reflection of a time in our lives we remember all too well, no matter how far away from it we come.
Pamela Eren's coming-of-age novel on a prep school coed campus (Phillips Exeter in New Hampshire, thinly veiled as "Auburn Academy") shimmers as a masterpiece newly hatched. The prose sparkles and brings characters and scenes to life in brilliant color. At the same time, it disturbs. And it depicts and comments on tensions in class, privilege, education, leisure, gender, sexual coming of age, and multi-cultural America.
I don't want to give away too much here. So I'll highlight with quotes, a few themes, and context. Overall, I found this novel first-rate and gripping.
A Korean American high school senior boy from New Jersey, Seung, hooks up with a Jewish first-year girl, Aviva, from the Chicago suburbs. They flaunt their relationship, generating both resentment of how they seem to flout the school's rules and get away with it, and imaginative flights of jealousy in the eyes of some. The jealous include the story's narrator, Bruce Bennett-Jones, who is a peer of Seung's from the same New Jersey town - though Bruce is from the white, affluent side of the tracks.
Bruce meets Aviva before Seung does. He helps her carry her bags up to her room, arriving swiftly at this:
"She's a small girl and moving close to her I feel, for once, that I have some size. The waxy collar of her jacket prickles the hair on my forearms. Her neck is damp and slippery, and her mouth, as I kiss it, tastes like cigarettes and chocolate. I picture her smoking rapidly, furtively, in the little bathroom on the plane. Her hair smells a little rancid. The perfume she put on this morning has moldered with sweat and travel and now gives off an odor of decayed pear.
"Don't open your mouth so wide," she says.
"My feet are sweating in my sneakers. My crotch itches. My scalp itches. She drops her hand and I see that her fingernails are painted a pearly pink.
"She tilts her head against the door and laughs. Her thick curls swarm. I could bite her exposed neck. I do not want to get caught, sent home. I see my father's hand raised up to hit me and know I'm about to step off a great ledge. In a panic I reach for the doorknob, startling Aviva. I open the door carefully, listen to the stairs and hallways. (p. 13-14)
Later, Aviva and Seung in one of many public scenes:
"He rinses dishes, loads the two huge dishwashers, wipes down counters, mops the floor. When Mr. Carlton, the dining hall supervisor, isn't there, Aviva follows the conveyor belt into the kitchen and visits. She likes to watch Seung's muscular arms plunged deep into the sudsy yellow water. The femininity of the task throws his masculinity into relief. It is the same with his skin-- satin, hairless-- which only sculpts his swollen biceps and thick wrists more nakedly. His arms, so capable, so bent to his duty, stir her profoundly. She slips behind him and wraps her own around his waist. It pleases her to think that the other kitchen lackeys may grumble at this exhibitionism. (p. 95)
At one point, Seung brings Aviva home to his family:
"At dinner Seung coaxes her to try kimchi, the traditional Korean cabbage pickled in hot spices and garlic. "It's very hot," he warns. The family laughs as she cuts a small piece and puts it in her mouth. They are waiting for the inevitable explosion of alarm and disgust. Then they can laugh some more, at the mysterious things that separate some peoples from others. But she loves the cabbage, the heat. She asks Seung to serve her more. The family cries out with amusement and delight, urges her to have a third helping, a fourth.
"You are an honorary Korean!' cries Mr. Jung. 'You are one of us!' He is a bit drunk. Seung shakes his head at her: Don't be fooled.
"Thoroughly pleased with their guest, this little white girl, Jewish even, they insist on trying to teach her some Korean words. Bap is rice; cha is tea. Chaz is Seung's hyeong, or elder brother. She can't make the right sounds. The words have a bark, a snap, in their mouths that she can't re-create. Chaz tells his parents to stop tormenting the poor girl.
"Aviva's getting tired," Seung agrees. (p. 74-5)
Later, on their way to visit her family in Chicago, they get sidetracked marking time in New York City before a plane they're meant to catch. The scrape they get into is enigmatic of what's to come:
"After an hour or so, when the two teenagers have answered the same questions over and over, have allowed their bags to be searched, have shown Aviva's bankbook and her father's credit card and Seung's driver's license, have offered to get Aviva's mother or father on the phone, it occurs to Aviva that these three men may detain them long enough to make them miss their plane. She shows the men their tickets again, explains their need to depart. Seung says very little. He understands that the part of an Asian boy is to be silent. Nothing he can say will instill trust. And Aviva begins to understand that the door of the room will not open until these men wish it to open. For the first time she grows uneasy. If she were older and less convinced that the world works along rational and reasonable principles, she might think to make more of the fact that her uncle is a lawyer at a large firm in Chicago. She might hint at her surprise that Mr. Ianetti would be suspicious of two students who attend the prestigious Auburn Academy. She might mention some of her family's expensive vacations: Switzerland, the Galapagos, Mexico." (p. 115)
Eventually, trouble mounts at Auburn. And Bruce the jealous narrator suggests an emerging crisis and reveals the social ethos in the school as an institution of society:
"Then a silence fell and the faculty members looked down at their notes or off into the distance, and, according to the ex-lacrosse player, everyone knew what everyone was thinking, which was that Aviva Rossner and Seung Jung had been flouting the rules for months, had been violating Auburn's ethic of healthy moderation by spilling sex into every cranny of the school, and that, to maintain the proper separation between adult and child, decency and decadence, somehow it had to come to a stop." (p. 219)
I was spellbound by this novel. And let me clarify, I typically am not one to seek out a coming-of-age novel, nor teenage sex tales. Pamela Erens packs a big story into one year at a prep school - about growing up amid changing colors and tensions of elite society.
Let me add that I do not know personally the world of Phillips Exeter and other boarding schools like it. If you know it, you'll judge for yourself how real it is. I will take John Irving's testimonial in his New York Times review (8/9/2013) where he - a 1961 alum - wrote, "Pamela Erens and her monstrous Bennett-Jones have told a devastating story. `The Virgins' is a brutal book, but it's flawlessly executed and irrefutably true." Further, the story resonates on many notes in a recent sociological ethnography of class and higher education by C.J. Churchill and G. E. Levy, The Enigmatic Academy: Class, Bureaucracy, and Religion in American Education (2011).
I recommend The Virgins enthusiastically with five stars. On top of that, the Audible.com performance is superb.
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The book was okay and isn't one that I am going to scream home about and evidently remember. It is a book that I was retentively enjoying when I was reading, up to a certain point, but then it just kind of drifted off for me. My enjoyment drifted and the story seemed to drifted. The concept behind this book did do a good job at highlighting and illustrating a certain section of what it is like to be on the clasp of adulthood, but not being quite there yet. With all your hormones running amuck and with you thinking that you know everything and wanting to try everything while you are still young enough to do so. I liked the idea behind this book, more than I did the execution of it sadly.
With this book being told from just one character, you are left with so many questions, that you just don't get answers to. Why does this character do this and this and this? with not answers to these. Maybe the character themselves don't know, but it would be nice to have some clarification. There's an event that takes place at the end that would have made a bigger impact on the reader, if the narrator hadn't spoiled it half ways through the book, as I found myself just waiting for this event to take place, becoming less connected as I knew what was due to come. Picking up sighs and signals.
The events of that academic year reverberated throughout the campus and continue many years later to haunt our narrator, Bruce Bennett-Jones. The blossoming relationship between unlikely couple, Aviva Rossner and Seung Jung, is watched with envy and fascination by their classmates including Bruce.
Is Bruce’s account accurate or is it constructed from snippets of information and Bruce’s imagination and jealousy? Bruce had fancied Aviva from the moment she gets off the bus as a new student but she quickly becomes an item with Seung.
It is quite a sensual tale, though keeping in mind Bruce’s perspective much of it may be his fantasies as he could not have witnessed the intimate moments he describes. He isn’t at all a sympathetic character, an entitled young man from a privileged background.
I had been drawn to this novel by the comparisons to ‘The Virgin Suicides’ and while there are some similarities this novel didn’t reach that level of excellence for me.
While I appreciated Erens lyrical prose, I just found it too difficult to relate to the characters, especially Bruce.
2.5 stars rounded up to 3.




