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Vital Lies, Simple Truths: The Psychology of Self-Deception Paperback – May 1, 1996
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Daniel Goleman draws on evidence of all kinds—from brain function to social dynamics—to reveal how we skew our most intimate relationships, our day-to-day lives, and our common reality by burying painful insights and memories. This self-deception is our means of psychic self-preservation, the currency of survival in which an entire society colludes. But although self-deception is sometimes benign, it can also be dangerous and life-diminishing. This important book both illuminates and raises challenging questions about a subject that is central to our psychological existence.
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateMay 1, 1996
- Dimensions8.66 x 5.91 x 0.98 inches
- ISBN-109780684831077
- ISBN-13978-0684831077
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- ASIN : 0684831074
- Publisher : Simon & Schuster; 4.1.1996 edition (May 1, 1996)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 288 pages
- ISBN-10 : 9780684831077
- ISBN-13 : 978-0684831077
- Item Weight : 10.9 ounces
- Dimensions : 8.66 x 5.91 x 0.98 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #485,164 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,305 in Popular Social Psychology & Interactions
- #1,403 in Cognitive Psychology (Books)
- #9,603 in Personal Transformation Self-Help
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DANIEL GOLEMAN is the author of the international bestsellers Emotional Intelligence, Working with Emotional Intelligence, and Social Intelligence, and the co-author of the acclaimed business bestseller Primal Leadership. His latest books are What Makes a Leader: Why Emotional Intelligence Matters and The Triple Focus: A New Approach to Education. He was a science reporter for the New York Times, was twice nominated for the Pulitzer Prize, and received the American Psychological Association's Lifetime Achievement Award for his media writing. He lives in Massachusetts.
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For me the most astonishing revelation from this book SO FAR is the answer to Why did I say something and then
a little bit later wonder why I just said that when what I said is not how if feel...(not how I feel right not anyway!)
I really appreciate all of his books (I have most of them now) and feel that his book have answered many questions I have
had for a very long time.
FOR THE MOST PART HIS BOOKS ARE ABOUT NORMAL PSYCHOLOGY Which I have been looking for all of my life.
All of his books give us insight and positive ways to improve what we want to do.
(in contrast to Psychology which uses what I call derogatory words like neurotic,)
Have a Great Life I also recommend :'Lens Neurofeedback" by Stephen Larsen. Explains that just a 15 mph auto accident (and sports accidents and head injuries of any kind, falls, abuse: physical and emotional) can knock our brain off of its frequency.
Shows color brain scans and lots of case histories and information on choosing a practitioner. clearer thinking after my first session and after second session ALL Fibromyalgia Pain GONE. Pain has gone for several months and does not return unless I eat foods that trigger the pain... I also recommend the Book 'Diet Wise' by Dr. Mumby to help with the food/pain connection of food related symptoms I had not even related to food before reading this book.
I like the way Goleman touches on perception (see also Dr. Bruce Lipton's The Biology of Belief), self-esteem, projection, rationalisation, sublimation etc. On a collective level it becomes quite challenging when viewing the mirage realism or deception that some multi-national corporate and government leaders create. Perhaps a book who's subject matter is more applicable to world affairs than most of us realise.
Personally I would have liked more information about the links between the psychic numbing of awareness and the addiction to materialism as an opiate, but other than that I highly recommend it. It dovetails nicely into the findings from quantum science which shows its our consciousness which creates the filters through which we transform our reality.
At times I did find the reading tough going and would not recommend this for those people who might be embarking on a first tour of duty of psychological modelling.
Regards,
Daniel John Hancock
R. Bruce Moore, Ph.D.
The concepts really do enlighten about how perception and memory effectively create personality, and how fear feeds itself both intra-personally and societally. I still haven't latched on to anything poignantly useful, though.
Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2017










