Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? Kindle Edition
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Winterson does not write "womb to tomb" as she puts it. She circles the object of her study, her book. And we realize that this object is her heart, so tough that love is not allowed in. She pokes here and there, probing her memories, reliving brief insightful moments of her childhood. She reports to us how she could not love anyone, or even befriend a classmate, despite desperately needing someone in her young life.
And then, being Jeanette Winterson, she takes us to the present time and her search for her birth mother, which is mainly a struggle to get though the bureaucratic procedures set up to thwart adoptees from locating their birth parents.
The book ends with limited resolution, with Jeanette's heart finally opening. It is the most tender-hearted inconclusive ending I have read, probably ever. She stands with her heart exposed, bruised, torn, but beating strong.
I love this woman's writing. I do not always like her books, but this one is truly magnificent.
"She filled the phone box. She was out of scale, larger than life. She was like a fairy story where size is approximate and unstable. She loomed up. She expanded. Only later, much later, too late, did I understand how small she was to herself. The baby nobody picked up. The uncarried child still inside her."
A later passage reads:
"Babies are frightening - raw tyrants whose only kingdom is their own body. My new mother had a lot of problems with the body - her own, my dad's, their bodies together, and mine. She had muffled her own body in flesh and clothes, suppressed its appetites with a fearful mixture of nicotine and Jesus, dosed it with purgatives that made her vomit, submitted it to doctors, who administered enemas and pelvic rings, subdued its desires for ordinary touch and comfort. Then suddenly, not out of her own body, and with no preparation, she had a thing that was all body. A burping, vomiting, sprawling faecal thing blasting the house with rude life."
Jeanette makes it hard not to feel some sympathy, even for twisted Mrs. Winterson.
Like many patremoirs, Winterson's matremoir is as much about the power of storytelling as it is about the parent.Read more ›
My three-star rating stems from the fact that in this memoir, Ms. Winterson refers repeatedly to her other books and writings, quoting parts of them at length, and I'm not familiar with these books, so the references didn't hold the depth of meaning for me that they obviously hold for her. This feeling that I was missing out on something made it hard for me to stay with the narrative at many points. Yet she is a colorful and insightful writer, which kept me reading to the end.
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wow. I have enjoyed everything I've read of Winterson's, but this really wove its way into me. Very compelling. I love her thinking and use of language. Read morePublished 11 days ago by Amazon Customer
Not having been adopted myself, but often wishing that I had been, I've actually now been through the ups and downs of what it's like to wonder and discover both sides of the... Read morePublished 26 days ago by blackbear
Ever run across a book and an author that just bends your mind? This is how I felt as soon as I started the audio unabridged version of this book, and so had to buy the paperback... Read morePublished 1 month ago by Terry R. Minion
An introspective autobiographical journey into the realities of post WWII Yorkshire for an aware and keenly astute woman. Ms. Read morePublished 3 months ago by Sir Audley
I liked it and didn't. The endless introspection might be extraordinarily useful to many people, but I felt both deep sympathy and boredom.Published 4 months ago by codini
different writing from her novels, but then it's a different genre: memoir. i loved the difference: watching a mind like Winterson's ramble here and there through memories and... Read morePublished 4 months ago by A. Anderson
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