A lot of books on this topic tell you what your brain does when it's going through a situation that requires willpower, but offer little in the way of practical ways around the problem. This book offers both enjoyable storytelling to illustrate what the problems are AND practical how-tos to get around them.
A quick example: in the first chapter, McGonigal explains how your brain tends to default to short-term benefits over long-term ones, which is why you often eat the cookie in front of you even though your long-term goal is to lose weight. She thoroughly explains why we've evolved to impulsively choose the short-term benefit, but then she gives both reflective exercises ("which is the harder option? Why is it harder? How do you feel when you think about going the hard route?") and practical strategies for how to stop giving in to the short term benefit when the long-term one is really what you want. In this case, it's keeping a log of when you're tempted (developing self-awareness) and practicing meditation for a few minutes a day (which gets your brain in the habit of pulling focus back to a single goal).
The other ten chapters similarly lay out a single willpower challenge, a few reflective exercises to help you identify where your personal challenges lie, and a few practical how-to tools to change your behavior. I think it's the combination of reflective exercises and practical ones that makes the difference for me in this book - a lot of books offer one or the other, which means you either spend a lot of time thinking about how great it would be if you could just magically make your brain better (if it's all reflection) or you get overwhelmed with a giant to-do list that doesn't seem immediately applicable to your situation (if it's all how-to tips).
McGonical lays out why the problem occurs, encourages you to apply that understanding to your own personal willpower challenge, and gives usable actions to overcome that challenge. It's a great structure for a book of this type, and I've found (as her students did) that when you actually sit down with pen and paper and put her exercises to use, it's made a notable difference in my ability to get through the impulse to procrastinate online (the personal willpower challenge I chose for my first foray into this book) and instead focus on long-term projects over time.
One caveat: I read the book through the first time without putting anything into practice, and while it was interesting, I definitely got MUCH more out of it when I did the exercises. I found there were sections I'd dismissed as not that important that turned out to be much more influential when I actually used them. I also recommend taking McGonigal's advice in the introductory chapter: don't try to put every chapter to use all at once. It was much more enjoyable to take a chapter per week (or so) and add to those habits over time - less stressful than trying to make all the changes at once, and a minor enough impact on my usual routine that I hardly noticed the effort. The results, however - very noticeable.
Highly recommended. It's a light read and would be a perfectly enjoyable book to read just to learn about the brain science, but the true benefit is in the exercises.
I will say that occasionally her writing style gets a little cutesy for my taste, but I didn't buy it for literary style, I bought it for practical use, and it absolutely delivered on that front.
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