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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say: Destroying Myths, Creating Love Paperback – September 25, 2000

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In Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say, Dr. Warren Farrell demonstrates how gender-based anger at home, in the workplace, in omnipresent media images, and throughout the overall culture combines with men's own fear of speaking out to misrepresent the inner and outer reality of men's lives. Looking at the world from the perspectives of both men and women, Dr. Farrell provides a remarkable communication program to assist couples in moving beyond the current tripwire assumptions that lead to so much gender-based conflict, and to allow them to understand and love each other more fully than ever. His methods are the culmination of thirty years of experience with thousands of men and women in workshops, groups, and seminars. They prove that strategies that create love at home can also produce success and respect in the workplace.

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September 25, 2000
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9781585420612
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"The relationship logic alone is worth your time and money. The author is a man well known for his evenhandedness with both sexes."-Los Angeles Times Syndicate

"Warren Farrell argues that women and men may be more alike than we realize, but after thirty years of the women's movement, it is now men who are in crisis."-Time

About the Author

Warren Farrell, Ph.D., is the author of Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say and The Myth of Male Power. Dr. Farrell taught at the School of Medicine of the University of California in San Diego, and has taught psychology, sociology, and political science at Georgetown, Rutgers, and Brooklyn College. He is the only man elected three times to the board of N.O.W. in New York City. He lives in Encinitas, California.

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ASIN ‏ : ‎ 1585420611
Publisher ‏ : ‎ TarcherPerigee; Reprint edition (September 25, 2000)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 384 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9781585420612
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1585420612
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 0.035 ounces
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 1 x 9 inches

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J. Obeji

All caring women should read this book

Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2000

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When I first read the title "women can't hear what men don't say," I thought to myself "yeah, I can't hear what my boyfriend won't say." I wish he would speak up. After I read this book, I realized that there are alot of men that are afraid to speak up because feminism has swung the pendulum too far. This book was so enlightning and truly opened my eyes. Go to a greeting card rack sometime and see for yourself how many man-bashing cards there are. Do you ever see any women-bashing cards? There was a chapter in this book that actually made me cry because I realized how badly men have been treated in the past few years. Dr. Farrell does a wonderful job expressing what is happening in our culture. Dr. Farrell uses many studies that have been done and uses many examples in the book to get the points across. WOMEN - YOU HAVE TO READ THIS BOOK! As a woman, I ask you to please open your eyes to what is happening in our male-female relationships. Thank you Dr. Farrell for a great book.

95 people found this helpful

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PCLEM

Farrell's Inside Look at Feminism

Reviewed in the United States on November 29, 1999

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An ex-member of the board of the NY City chapter of NOW, an experienced marital counselor,and a respected researcher of gender issues, Warren Farrell has experienced feminism from both sides. His newest book, "WOMEN CAN'T HEAR WHAT MEN DON'T SAY", provides an excellent perspective on feminisms'influence on social attitudes toward men. Must reading for every fathers'/mens'rights activist, or anyone interested in a balanced view of gender politics.

19 people found this helpful

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Kat

Original ...insightful.... a must-read for anyone!

Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2013

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Dr. Farrell continues to challenge and penetrate
antiquated thinking about the sexes...roles and gender-based customs!!! His goals to propel relationships forward, out of the depths of misunderstanding, are lofty, and effectively demonstrated with yet another worthwhile book.
Highly recommend his others!

2 people found this helpful

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Lynn R Walsh

Five Stars

Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2015

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Very fine

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waz1122

Women canr hear what men dont say

Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2010

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Excellent follow up to his fantastic work. Women will also find this highly informative and inspiring

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Chirs Johnson

2 valuable chapters and a bunch of rant

Reviewed in the United States on December 19, 2012

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The first two chapters of the book (about giving and receiving criticism) are excellent - written in a very accessible manner and with practical and useful steps to use the advice provided. After that, though, the book turns into a long-winded rant about how men need more recognition for contributions in the home and a bunch of other stuff that has NOTHING to do with improving communications. While I appreciate the author's mission to raise awareness about men's issues, I really wish he had stuck with concrete communications advice.

I was thinking to take a workshop by the author. After reading the book, I've decided not to.

10 people found this helpful

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Bobby Branham

Women can't respect whiny men

Reviewed in the United States on January 10, 2010

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Warren Farrell is striking a national nerve with his focus on the 'war between the sexes.' He is trying to bring this war to an end and it should be. It is an unnecessary war. I don't agree with his political views or his policy advocacy, but I do appreciate his insight into the science neglected study of social power and the feminist victim identity. He demonstrates, with anecdotal evidence we can all relate to, that men are not nearly so powerful as a gender as the feminist rhetorical definition nor are women nearly so powerless. He is fighting gender preference and prejudice rife throughout our society from the media to the judicial system, from the average home to the average college lecture hall.

In this work, he makes the point that women say they want men to talk to them more then act in the harshest, psychological punishing ways they can to prevent their men from opening up to them, because women can't respect a whiny man. What women desire in loving care from their men, men desire in respect from their women, yet respect seems to be the first attitudinal attribute to go and the hardest to recover when the inevitable troubles come to a marriage relationship. Its an eye opening good read. If I'm going to look for emotional conversations, I'll listen to Dr. Laura Schlessinger or Dr. Warren Farrell. Otherwise, I'll stick to the Bible for my guidance through relationships. More and more I find, the studies only affirm what the Bible has been teaching for 2 millennia or the studies are wrong.

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Christopher

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Reviewed in the United States on June 27, 2016

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thank you

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