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- Publisher: Running Press Adult; 1 edition (April 23, 2013)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0762447699
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Until Chapter 17.
About halfway through the book, Sincero begins talking about excuses. Okay, yes. A valuable thing to discuss. People, myself included, make excuses all the time. But she decides to target a set group of people.
People who are clinically depressed. She says, and I'm paraphrasing here, that depression is a comfort because it gives those who suffer from it an excuse not to do anything but stay in bed.
And that is precisely when I tuned out. I went from loving everything she said to eye rolling in a matter of seconds.
My clinical depression is not an excuse. It isn't me being lazy. It isn't me snickering as I back out on plans I make with friends. It's me literally being unable to do anything because my disease is keeping me from doing it. There are days where I can't do anything at all. There are days where laundry piles up and my bedroom becomes a disaster and I hide away from the world because I don't think I'm worthy of being seen. There are days where I stop seeing my friends because I feel like I'm a burden to them.
And my friends understand this. They know what I go through and they know that if I need some time to myself to get my brain under control, then it isn't an excuse. It doesn't mean I don't love them. It means that I'm just dealing with negative thoughts and I need to work through it. The fact that Sincero completely misunderstands depression ruined this book for me instantly. Yes, I will admit she gives valuable advice. But once I figured out that her advice disvalues someone like me, I checked out.
Also, her advice...is highly privileged. She says things like, "If you can afford this book, then you're doing okay." "Just buy the car of your dreams!" "If you want to travel the world, stop making excuses and you can." Some people...can't do that. Don't get me wrong, I'm in a good place right now but a year ago? I could barely pay my student loans. I couldn't afford to replace the khakis that were part of my work uniform. I ate leftovers for days on end because my paycheck wasn't going far enough. I didn't blame the universe for this. And I certainly didn't spend beyond my means just because I thought 'the universe owes me and will figure it out.' Sometimes, you're just in a s***ty place in life. I was in a s***ty place for three and a half years. Going out and spending money on a trip around the world isn't exactly sound advice for everyone. I felt like Sincero was speaking to one small group of clients. I didn't fit within that group.
Like I said, she does say some really nice things. She did build me up for quite a few chapters. But she dropped me instantly and it hurt. Depression is hard enough. People with depression shouldn't hear that it's an 'excuse.' I was highly offended and if I wasn't so far in the book, I would've stopped reading altogether.
Needless to say, I'm pretty glad to be done with this one.
So maybe I'm just too science-minded to buy into this kind of stuff. But I still think any self-help book, even one marketed toward people of faith should provide...well...actual help? I did, however, receive one shining bit of advice from this book that boosted that one star ALL THE WAY up to three, but that's coming at the end. HOLD ON TO YOUR HATS.
I would like to agree with the reviewer who pointed out that one section of the book (if not more) could be EXTREMELY triggering to someone with depression or mental illness in general, so please avoid this book if that might include you. The author's mentality seems to be the classic, "Well, why don't you just stop being depressed?" GIANT EYEROLL. That mentality persists throughout: Low on money? Sell a painting for $50,000! Don't have any friends? Go get some! Don't have a job? Have you tried wanting one REALLY bad and then looking?
Now for a positive bit. One extra star is for the author's humor and honesty. I found myself enjoying interjections of the author's life story along with the stories of her friends and acquaintances. She's certainly found her own voice and it does shine through. In fact, because of the tone of the book, I was able to ignore the parts I could not connect with...right up until that part about depression.
And here's that last star. I needed a bit of a pep talk. At times (depending on the chapter and the day of the week) this helped me. It was like meeting up with an old friend who's doing way better than you in life. smiling politely and eating a salad, acting as though she's not judging your hamburger while humble bragging about her career. She's a bit annoying, but sometimes it's just enough to give you a little kick in the rear that sets you in motion. You'll probably never go get lunch with Jen Sincero again because, er, "I'm just so busy this month!"
Still, she managed to say something that really set you in motion. For me, it was this:"If you had an unlimited supply of cash, what would you spend your life doing?" (79). And, long story short, I'm applying for another Master's. Thanks, Jen. This was...so fun. Let's totally meet for coffee in a couple months! I'll check my schedule!