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You Know When the Men Are Gone Hardcover – January 20, 2011
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In Fort Hood housing, like all army housing, you get used to hearing through the walls... You learn too much. And you learn to move quietly through your own small domain. You also know when the men are gone. No more boots stomping above, no more football games turned up too high, and, best of all, no more front doors slamming before dawn as they trudge out for their early formation, sneakers on metal stairs, cars starting, shouts to the windows above to throw them down their gloves on cold desert mornings. Babies still cry, telephones ring, Saturday morning cartoons screech, but without the men, there is a sense of muted silence, a sense of muted life.
There is an army of women waiting for their men to return in Fort Hood, Texas. Through a series of loosely interconnected stories, Siobhan Fallon takes readers onto the base, inside the homes, into the marriages and families-intimate places not seen in newspaper articles or politicians' speeches.
When you leave Fort Hood, the sign above the gate warns, You've Survived the War, Now Survive the Homecoming. It is eerily prescient.
- Print length240 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherPutnam Adult
- Publication dateJanuary 20, 2011
- Reading age18 years and up
- Dimensions6.2 x 0.93 x 8.54 inches
- ISBN-100399157204
- ISBN-13978-0399157202
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Benjamin Percy, author of The Wilding, Refresh, Refresh, and The Language of Elk
"What a fascinating, rare glimpse into the domesticity of war. This is a wonderful debut. Each beautifully rendered story is braced with intelligence and wisdom."
Jill Ciment
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- Publisher : Putnam Adult; 1st edition (January 20, 2011)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 240 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0399157204
- ISBN-13 : 978-0399157202
- Reading age : 18 years and up
- Item Weight : 12.5 ounces
- Dimensions : 6.2 x 0.93 x 8.54 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,017,728 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #17,266 in War Fiction (Books)
- #23,563 in Women's Domestic Life Fiction
- #31,520 in Short Stories (Books)
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About the author

Siobhan Fallon is the author of the 2012 PEN Center USA Literary Award in Fiction winner You Know When the Men Are Gone. She is also the recipient of the 2012 Indies Choice Honor Award and the Texas Institute of Letters Award for First Fiction. Her writing has appeared in The Washington Post Magazine, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, Military Spouse, The Huffington Post, and NPR’s Morning Edition, among others. She was raised in Highland Falls, New York, just outside the gates of the United States Military Academy at West Point. She graduated from Providence College and spent a year at Cambridge University in England. After teaching English in Japan, she earned an MFA at the New School in New York City. She and her family moved to Jordan in 2011, lived in Abu Dhabi from 2013 to 2019, and now reside in Virginia.
Her new novel, THE CONFUSION OF LANGUAGES, available everywhere, can be ordered now.
For more about Siobhan, please go to: www.siobhanfallon.com
"...gripping, straight-up, no-nonsense stories" The New York Times
"There is the war we know - from Hollywood and CNN- and then there is the battleground at home depicted by breakout author Siobhan Fallon, an army wife with...a staggering arsenal of talent, her sentences popping like small arm fire, her stories scaring a gasp out of you like tracer rounds burning in the night sky over your home town."
- Benjamin Percy, author of The Wilding, Refresh, Refresh, and The Language of Elk
"In this poignant and beautiful collection of linked stories, Siobhan Fallon has created a world of characters we need to know. These are our wounded, our courageous, our disheartened, our cynical and our brave. You won't read these stories on the front pages of the newspaper, but still they feel like a news flash about the emotional toll of war. YOU KNOW WHEN THE MEN ARE GONE delivers to us the inner lives of families who fight for our country while fighting their deepest fears and demons. This is a brave and illuminating book."
-- Dani Shapiro, author of Devotion
"Siobhan Fallon's YOU KNOW WHEN THE MEN ARE GONE is a haunting elegy
to those who bear the real burden when our nation goes to war: spouses and children left behind. She writes with the authority of hard-earned experience, and this collection of stories has much to teach us all."
-Nathaniel Fick, author of One Bullet Away: The Making of a Marine Officer
"What a fascinating, rare glimpse into the domesticity of war. This is a wonderful debut. Each beautifully rendered story is braced with intelligence and wisdom."
-Jill Ciment, author of Heroic Measures
"Siobhan Fallon is a remarkable debut author whose first collection of short stories, YOU KNOW WHEN THE MEN ARE GONE, signals the debut of a new American talent. I was drawn into a world I had never seen before, and found heartache, courage, and laughter there."
- Jean Kwok, author of Girl in Translation
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There's so much more to military life than this handful of short stories portrays, but yes, these things do happen and these are some of the struggles that real families face. I don't want to say I 'liked' this book because that feels wrong given the subject matter, but I did want to read it in its entirety, and I really came to feel for the couples that were portrayed here. I know this is a work of fiction, but being military my entire life...first a military child, now a military wife...I know the author saw these stories (or something similar) first or second hand.
Some of the things in this book are a bit outdated at his point in time, but the stories, at their heart, are not. These things have been going on since the dawn of the military. They went on during WWI...WWII...Vietnam...Afghanistan...and will continue to go on in wars and conflicts to come. Some military families make it, and some don't. That's the reality, and I feel like this book did a good job of portraying just a small glimpse of that.
I understand where they were coming from but don't agree. The polish earned from an MFA is just that - polish and skill. So it's not a negative unless education and training are somehow considered a bad thing.
I was a soldier, and almost none of Fallon's fictional narratives rang falsely or contrived. If they didn't happen to me, they happened to someone I knew. The crummy homecomings, the stress, the fear and frustration. I understand that many readers would want stories that focus on the positive, but at least from my point of view, I'm not emotionally affected by "positive" stories. I don't read fiction for the happy ending, because it usually won't make me feel anything special. These are stories about men at war and women at home, and if they aren't heartbreaking, I'm not sure what the point would be.
A couple of the stories didn't ring false, but weren't as strong as others. A couple do end very abruptly, and while I don't expect to have my hand held, I do prefer a solid conclusion. But, short stories don't always exist to give the reader a complete conclusion - they exist as moments of time.
But, any small complaints aside, I really liked these stories. She presented fully-realized characters who came across as real people living believable representations of events. I cared about the characters, and I liked how Fallon connected the stories together with their repeated appearances across the stories. Sometimes it was just a subtle repetition of a name; other characters were equally pivotal in multiple stories, but in different ways.
It would be a shame if concerns about the "negative" storylines steered readers away - and I'm not sure Fallon's fellow Army wives or other veterans are the best audience anyway. They don't really need Fallon's made-up stories about what they lived through.
But after 10 years of war, there's value here to NON-military readers. Most of the stories are heartbreaking and sad, but that's what happens when you're 21 and you get your foot blown off, and then your wife leaves you. It isn't happy. It is sad. And guess what - it happens, and not that rarely.
So, fictionally, this is as close as most readers will come to those kind of hard days, but at least it will open that window a tiny bit.
This is an amazing collection of short stories, by a brilliant author.
I read it non-stop, cover to over. Bravo!
I thoroughly enjoyed this collection of stories. I was born and raised in a city that houses the largest Army installation in the United States. The base itself is insular, and it wasn't until my return after a ten year absence from my hometown, that I was able to work along side army wives, veterans, and soldiers. I love hearing about their experiences, their hometowns, and how they're coping. These stories could be about anyone, and wherein their beauty lies. I was left wanting more! I read the opening paragraph at 1:00 this afternoon, and read the final sentence four hours later. That's not characteristic for me, but the interweaving stories were so immersive, her style of prose so welcoming. I cannot wait to read her full length novel, The Confusion of Languages.
I thoroughly enjoyed this collection of stories. I was born and raised in a city that houses the largest Army installation in the United States. The base itself is insular, and it wasn't until my return after a ten year absence from my hometown, that I was able to work along side army wives, veterans, and soldiers. I love hearing about their experiences, their hometowns, and how they're coping. These stories could be about anyone, and wherein their beauty lies. I was left wanting more! I read the opening paragraph at 1:00 this afternoon, and read the final sentence four hours later. That's not characteristic for me, but the interweaving stories were so immersive, her style of prose so welcoming. I cannot wait to read her full length novel, The Confusion of Languages.
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way of life I knew very little about. I have never been a huge fan of short stories but each story held it's own and the common place;
i.e. the American army base in Texas, held it all together. Once I started one story, I had to read until I finished!
It's one of those books that you miss when it's over...and not just for women - my husband loved it as well.




