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Your Daughter's Bedroom: Insights for Raising Confident Women Hardcover – April 26, 2011
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“Offers insight and honesty in a discussion of the healthy ways mothers can help their daughters grow comfortable and knowledgeable about their sexuality…An empowering resource for mothers and daughters everywhere.” ―Kirkus
“A fascinating and empowering text for women of all ages.” ―Publishers Weekly
“What an amazing and insightful guide for mothers facing the huge challenge of supporting their daughters amidst the many "hate your body" media messages that assault all of us daily.” ―Judy Norsigian, co-author of Our Bodies, Ourselves
“Your Daughter's Bedroom is loaded with the kind of insight, wisdom, and practical advice that all mothers need to know to raise healthy daughters who are comfortable with their own sexuality. I highly recommend it!” ―Christiane Northrup, M.D., ob/gyn physician and author of the New York Times bestsellers: Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause
“Using thousands of intimate interviews with women Joyce McFadden argues that --despite ourselves and inadvertently--sexism comes, in part, from the unhealthy messages we send our daughters about sex and behavior. A groundbreaking look at sexuality, mothers, daughters, and the myriad subtle ways one generation of women shapes the next.” ―Jennifer Baumgardner, author of Manifesta, Look Both Ways, and Abortion & Life
“Endless talk about women as mothers has focused almost exclusively on the question of how, and whether it is possible, to raise children and still fulfill adult aspirations to work. But an equally important part of adult womanhood that has to be integrated with the competing demands of mothering is adult sexual desire. While mothers often hide their sexuality from their children, the literature seldom asks whether this helps or hurts children, and what kind of sexual honesty might actually help children to develop their own sexuality. In this important book Joyce McFadden shows how mothers affect their daughters' sense of self through the sort of sexuality they model as well as their explicit communications and exhortations. It's an honest, surprising and compelling look at this crucial contemporary dilemma.” ―Jessica Benjamin, Psychoanalyst, author of The Bonds of Love
“An important book that gets at the heart of the mother and daughter bond and finally explodes the myth that women have to turn themselves into sexless Stepford wives to be good mothers. Expansive, honest, informed, and real.” ―Deborah Siegel, author of Sisterhood, Interrupted
“I couldn't put it down. This book is a revolution in mindful caring for girls. It tells us how to dispel our own mother/daughter myths and how to realize and support our girls in the recognition and celebration of their sexual selves to gain lifelong physical and mental happiness. This is THE book I would recommend to all my mothers of girls and to all their doctors, teachers and therapists. I wish I had this book when I started in Pediatric practice 20 years ago: from it I've learned that I missed so many opportunities to nurture my female patients as females growing into themselves. I love this book.” ―Barbara H. Landreth, M.D., Clinical Instructor in Pediatrics, Weill Cornell Medical College, Pediatrician, The New York-Presybterian Hospital
About the Author
Joyce McFadden is a psychoanalyst in private practice in New York and East Hampton. Author of the ongoing anonymous web-based Women's Realities Study, she is a faculty member, clinical supervisor and training analyst at the Training and Research Institute for Self Psychology, as well as a faculty member at the Woodhull Institute and the NYC Open Center. She is a featured writer on intent.com and a columnist on Huffington Post.
Top Customer Reviews
I want to add that even though this is written about mothers and daughters, I have used the author's wisdom in mothering my son and my husband is currently reading it.
Joyce writes so clearly and beautifully- as if she is having a supportive conversation with each of us. She is humble and backs up her findings with stories from her clients and women in her study. It is fascinating and I couldn't put it down.
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My mother didn't teach me ANYTHING about my sexuality. This book teaches me EVERYTHING I need to educate my daughters about their sexuality. I am so glad I found this book. Read morePublished 7 months ago by Sally Bruggeman
I was initially upset with the feminist outlook early in this book. It seemed to belittle men and play up women. Read morePublished 8 months ago by L. Larson
Really enjoying this book and it's an important read for anyone raising a daughter. It actually led me to several explanations about my own feelings and experiences that I had when... Read morePublished 14 months ago by C2
This book is incredibly important. It attempts to break the shame barrier that keeps our generations apart. Think about your relationship with your mother. Read morePublished 19 months ago by Kendra Holliday
Enlightening. Truthful. Insightful. That sums it up! Great book for moms who want open communication with their daughters fast read as well.Published on September 8, 2013 by L. Nickles