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Your Defiant Child, First Edition: Eight Steps to Better Behavior Paperback – October 7, 1998

4.4 out of 5 stars 81 ratings

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Every child has "ornery" moments, but more than 1 in 20 American children exhibit behavioral problems that are out of control. For readers struggling with an unyielding or combative child, YOUR DEFIANT CHILD: EIGHT STEPS TO BETTER BEHAVIOR offers the understanding and guidance they need. Drawing on Dr. Russell A. Barkley's many years of work with parents and children, the book clearly explains what causes defiance, when it becomes a problem, and how it can be resolved. The book's comprehensive eight-step program stresses consistency and cooperation, promoting changes through a system of praise, rewards, and mild punishment. Readers learn tools and strategies for establishing clear patterns of discipline, communicating with children on a level they can understand, and reducing family stress overall. Filled with helpful charts, questionnaires, and checklists, YOUR DEFIANT CHILD helps parents get their child's behavior back on track and restore harmony in the home.

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"This is a superb and extremely helpful book. Readers negotiating the icy roads and blizzard-like conditions of raising a defiant child will find that this book shifts them into four-wheel drive. The advice in these pages not only makes the road less treacherous--it helps parents drive it with confidence, and helps the whole family arrive at their destination happier and wiser for the trip they took. Barkley draws upon a wealth of experience with real families, as well as a thorough command of the latest research and scientific findings, to create an easy-to-read, practical, immensely informative work." --Edward M. Hallowell, MD, coauthor of Answers to Distraction

"This book distills the wisdom of an approach that Dr. Barkley and others have been developing for more than 20 years. As a school psychologist, I have used this program since 1990 in a group setting with over 1,300 parents, the majority of whom found it beneficial. Finally, parents have a manual to help them implement the program at home. It is supportive, nonjudgmental, and filled with practical suggestions and true-to-life anecdotes. All parents who are concerned about their children's behavior should read this book." --Frederick L. Quici, NCSP, Alta Loma School District, Alta Loma, California

"This book provides step-by-step, practical help for parents of children who are difficult to manage. It affords new hope to families desiring a more peaceful and fulfilling life together. Invaluable for parents, teachers, and clinicians." --Sylvia B. Rimm, PhD, author of
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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ The Guilford Press
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ October 7, 1998
  • Edition ‏ : ‎ First Edition
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 239 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1572303212
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1572303218
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 12 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.5 x 9.25 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
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Customers find this book very helpful for parents, with one review noting it provides detailed tips. Moreover, the book receives positive feedback for its readability. Additionally, customers appreciate the practical approach, with one mentioning it suggests implementing one step each week.

15 customers mention "Advice"15 positive0 negative

Customers find the book very helpful, particularly for parents and practitioners, with one customer noting it provides detailed tips and another mentioning it teaches how to defuse situations.

"...There are several good insights that will help you implement reward systems. Good luck!" Read more

"Excellent book for both practitioners and parents seeking to work with children who may have behavioral challenges - practical examples are provided..." Read more

"This is a very helpful book for parents who are discerning DOB vs normal defiance, and want to direct their kids to better behavior and ward off the..." Read more

"...is the expert on nipping defiance in the bud, teaching caretakers how to defuse situations + prevent these kids growing further into bad behaviors...." Read more

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Customers find the book readable and amazing.

"This is a good book to read. It gives good pointers in helping children who are defiant." Read more

"...you detailed and tips how to deal with your defiant child such a great book for anyone who wants to have more structure and peace in their homes." Read more

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3 customers mention "Implementation"3 positive0 negative

Customers appreciate the book's structured approach, with one mentioning it suggests implementing one step each week, while others note it provides a clear plan.

"...caregivers how to respond to defiant behavior in simple, easy to implement steps." Read more

"...The method makes sense to me, making it a part of your life is another tough one, however..." Read more

"...This book gave me a plan, and made me feel less like my child's behavior was because of negligence on my part- just a lack of understanding...." Read more

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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 9, 2014
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    If you're reading this review, you probably have a child who's giving you a run for the money. I was in the same situation. I bought this book when my high energy, strong minded boys were 4 and 6. It was a lifesaver. I implemented the reward system and it made a big difference. I re-implement the system about every year or two for a few months. It's a fair amount of work but the kids really respond. We're using the reward system right now (the boys are 12 and 14), this time with an online app called iRewards. The app lets you follow the B&B protocol but it's less hassle than the old manual poker chip system. I'd still recommend reading the book if your children are challenging. There are several good insights that will help you implement reward systems. Good luck!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2013
    I can't wait until I have time to read this book. I'm tired of being a push over and enabling bad behavior like always having an excuse for not doing chores, not completing homework assignments, and mouthing off to teachers at school. I need to nip this stuff in the bud before high school.
  • Reviewed in the United States on April 13, 2017
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    Excellent book for both practitioners and parents seeking to work with children who may have behavioral challenges - practical examples are provided for illustration of techniques
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 16, 2009
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    This is a very helpful book for parents who are discerning DOB vs normal defiance, and want to direct their kids to better behavior and ward off the possibility of DOB in later years. Teaches caregivers how to respond to defiant behavior in simple, easy to implement steps.
    3 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 10, 2013
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    Dealing with defiant kids can be draining and distracting. This author is the expert on nipping defiance in the bud, teaching caretakers how to defuse situations + prevent these kids growing further into bad behaviors. A classic.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2009
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    I like the ideas and plans the book has if you are dealing with a defiant child. They suggest implementing one step each week and then proceeding from that point. The method makes sense to me, making it a part of your life is another tough one, however...
    4 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2013
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    To start off, my child has attention deficit disorder. Like me. The emotional ups and downs of ADD can be wild, and super frustrating. This book gave me a plan, and made me feel less like my child's behavior was because of negligence on my part- just a lack of understanding. I also don't feel like a dictator, dealing out punishments left and right to try and modify behavior.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 26, 2013
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    Our son's doctor recommended this book and we have just finished reading it and started implementing some of the items the book suggests. Too early to tell how good it works, but initial indications are positive.

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  • Kate
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in Canada on September 9, 2017
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    was a good read
  • Angie L
    1.0 out of 5 stars One Star
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 16, 2015
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    A very antiquated and outdated view on parenting