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Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year (Ballantine Reader's Circle) Paperback – May 1, 1994
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"An enormous triumph . . . Charming . . . Powerful . . . A gracious book, with dozens of lovingly drawn characters and a deep, infectious religiosity throughout. It is also funny." -- San Francisco Chronicle
"Smart, funny and comforting . . . Lamott has a conversational style that perfectly conveys her friendly, self-deprecating humor." -- Los Angeles Times Book Review
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--The Washington Post
"An enormous triumph . . . Charming . . . Powerful . . . A gracious book, with dozens of lovingly drawn characters and a deep, infectious religiosity throughout. It is also funny."
--San Francisco Chronicle
"Smart, funny, and comforting . . .Lamott has a conversational style that perfectly conveys her friendly, self-deprecating humor."
--Los Angeles Times Book Review
"Lamott is a wonderfully lithe writer. . . . Anyone who has ever had a hard time facing a perfectly ordinary day will identify."
--Chicago Tribune
From the Publisher
I'm a sales rep for Ballantine books and this has been one of my favorite books to sell over the years. But if I was to quit tomorrow I would still be talking about this book. It is a book I have given to countless friends the past few years. Expectant parents especially, both men and women love this book because Lamott is able to verbalize the entire spectrum of emotions a child can bring into their lives.
--Karen Hayes, Sales Rep.
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"An enormous triumph . . . Charming . . . Powerful . . . A gracious book, with dozens of lovingly drawn characters and a deep, infectious religiosity throughout. It is also funny." -- San Francisco Chronicle
"Smart, funny and comforting . . . Lamott has a conversational style that perfectly conveys her friendly, self-deprecating humor." -- Los Angeles Times Book Review
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--The Washington Post
"An enormous triumph . . . Charming . . . Powerful . . . A gracious book, with dozens of lovingly drawn characters and a deep, infectious religiosity throughout. It is also funny."
--San Francisco Chronicle
"Smart, funny, and comforting . . .Lamott has a conversational style that perfectly conveys her friendly, self-deprecating humor."
--Los Angeles Times Book Review
"Lamott is a wonderfully lithe writer. . . . Anyone who has ever had a hard time facing a perfectly ordinary day will identify."
--Chicago Tribune
About the Author
- Print length253 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBallantine Books
- Publication dateMay 1, 1994
- Dimensions4.93 x 0.59 x 7.24 inches
- ISBN-10044990928X
- ISBN-13978-0449909287
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- Publisher : Ballantine Books; 1st Ballantine Books Edition, May 1994 (May 1, 1994)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 253 pages
- ISBN-10 : 044990928X
- ISBN-13 : 978-0449909287
- Item Weight : 7 ounces
- Dimensions : 4.93 x 0.59 x 7.24 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,768,242 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #2,928 in Parenting Boys
- #5,545 in Baby & Toddler Parenting
- #34,275 in Women's Biographies
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Anne Lamott is the New York Times bestselling author of Help, Thanks, Wow; Small Victories; Stitches; Some Assembly Required; Grace (Eventually); Plan B; Traveling Mercies; Bird by Bird; Operating Instructions, and the forthcoming Hallelujah Anyway. She is also the author of several novels, including Imperfect Birds and Rosie. A past recipient of a Guggenheim Fellowship and an inductee to the California Hall of Fame, she lives in Northern California.
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The first rule... is that you must not have anything wrong with you or anything different. The second ontvx e is that if you do have something wrong with you, you must get over it as soon as possible. The third rule is that if you can't get over it, you must pretend that you have. The fourth rule is that if you can't even pretend that you have, you shouldn't show up. You should stay home, because it's hard for everyone else to have you around. And the fifth rule is that if you are going to insist on showing up, you should at least have the decency to feel ashamed. (p. 100)
I'm amazed at this woman's voice. The book exudes deeply spiritual insights, while at the same time laughing at itself and any spiritual over-seriousness. Every time I see this book's cover, I get a warm feeling remembering it. Grade: A.
I loved her frankness. If you are a parent and have had an infant, you totally get how people shake babies especially on next to no sleep and you’re breastfeeding. Then add colic to that scenario. It’s hard to put them down and walk away but there are times that you must.
There are also times in church, always during the quiet serious part when your baby is the loudest and proudest to be that loud. Whether it be farts, giggles, or both! Who couldn’t help but to laugh?!?
Great read. Loved her take. Loved her style. Now on to read about her son and grandson
Highly recommend.
I have appreciated her honest and sometimes gut wrenching sharing in her non-fiction. Recently, I prepared a lesson for a women's group at my church based on Traveling Mercies. Anne was quoted from this book in our last Horizon's bible study of the season about family and the household in biblical times and today. The roles we play, traditional or non-traditional are important. But as Lamott progresses on her spiritual journey we also discover the importance of forgiveness and redemption. Try her, you will like her.
She is a woman of profound faith but doesn't seem to fully realize it- which makes it so alarmingly sincere. This is not a book for the sled right and morally pure. This describes on woman's journey to make sense out out of faith through birth and death. Through addictions and stability. That faith grows not merely in the pure, but like a lotus flower it blooms in the mud. The mud of living a human life. The mud of imperfection.
This book was also like a mirror for me and I am sure others will agree if they challenge themselves. Much of what I disliked about her I can see in myself. That we are all deeply flawed characters; especially when viewing from a position of detachment.
Also, I, like Ms. Lamott, was as left of center without being a communist. I was like that for years. There was a time I said probably the same things against a Bush. But now that I am less political I cringed when reading her political diatribes. To be frank they were utterly superfluous and completely unnecessary. The story would have been more fluid and universal.
Lastly some critics have been outraged over her violent fantasies about her baby. To those people: I would suggest that you've never been a parent. She was simply vomiting out what nearly all parents have felt at one point or another. When you've had 4 hours of sleep in tow days while working and it's 3 in the morning and you have a child who sounds like a slaughtered pig, you think strange things.
I commend Ms. Lamott' courage in writing this book.
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And yet, overall, this book really was an intriguing window into someone's experience of the first year of motherhood, its challenges, joys, and the funny moments, the way you try to mark the milestones, anxiously hoping all's well, while also delighting in how different and unique your kid seems to be already. It's a celebration of community, friendship, and family, and almost about that as much as it is about motherhood. And while I was expecting it to be spiritual, it turned out be just that, in a much more literal way. But like many people (Lamott's not a bestselling author for nothing!), I found Lamott's religious thoughts and beliefs intriguing and often inspiring. I also was often delighted when I'd come upon a particularly poetic, well-put description or idea (her concise description of male genitalia in the opening pages is absolutely brilliant).
Overall, this is an often insightful, sometimes funny, sometimes moving account of one mom's first year of motherhood. There's a lot of loss and desperation but also triumph and, above all, love. So basically, it's what a lot of moms go through. Still, I don't know that it's a book you could give to just ANY new mom. I think someone who's very conservative or traditional may not like it. But you never know - maybe it would still bring them some kind of comfort or simply the joy Lamott's spunky writing style so often conveys, despite her tribulations.







