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Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man Hardcover – September 22, 1999

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One of the most talked-about books of last year, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Backlash now explores the collapse of traditional masculinity that has left men feeling betrayed. With Backlash in 1991, Susan Faludi broke new ground when she put her finger directly on the problem bedeviling women, and the light of recognition dawned on millions of her readers: what's making women miserable isn't something they're doing to themselves in the name of independence. It's something our society is doing to women. The book was nothing less than a landmark. Now in Stiffed, the author turns her attention to the masculinity crisis plaguing our culture at the end of the '90s, an era of massive layoffs, "Angry White Male" politics, and Million Man marches. As much as the culture wants to proclaim that men are made miserable--or brutal or violent or irresponsible--by their inner nature and their hormones, Faludi finds that even in the world they supposedly own and run, men are at the mercy of cultural forces that disfigure their lives and destroy their chance at happiness. As traditional masculinity continues to collapse, the once-valued male attributes of craft, loyalty, and social utility are no longer honored, much less rewarded. Faludi's journey through the modern masculine landscape takes her into the lives of individual men whose accounts reveal the heart of the male dilemma. Stiffed brings us into the world of industrial workers, sports fans, combat veterans, evangelical husbands, militiamen, astronauts, and troubled "bad" boys--whose sense that they've lost their skills, jobs, civic roles, wives, teams, and a secure future is only one symptom of a larger and historic betrayal.

With Backlash in 1991, Susan Faludi broke new ground when she put her finger directly on the problem bedeviling women, and the light of recognition dawned on millions of her readers: what's making women miserable isn't something they're doing to themselves in the name of independence. It's something our society is doing to women. The book was nothing less than a landmark.

Now in Stiffed, the author turns her attention to the masculinity crisis plaguing our culture at the end of the '90s, an era of massive layoffs, "Angry White Male" politics, and Million Man marches. As much as the culture wants to proclaim that men are made miserable--or brutal or violent or irresponsible--by their inner nature and their hormones, Faludi finds that even in the world they supposedly own and run, men are at the mercy of cultural forces that disfigure their lives and destroy their chance at happiness. As traditional masculinity continues to collapse, the once-valued male attributes of craft, loyalty, and social utility are no longer honored, much less rewarded.

Faludi's journey through the modern masculine landscape takes her into the lives of individual men whose accounts reveal the heart of the male dilemma. Stiffed brings us into the world of industrial workers, sports fans, combat veterans, evangelical husbands, militiamen, astronauts, and troubled "bad" boys--whose sense that they've lost their skills, jobs, civic roles, wives, teams, and a secure future is only one symptom of a larger and historic betrayal.With Backlash in 1991, Susan Faludi broke new ground when she put her finger directly on the problem bedeviling women, and the light of recognition dawned on millions of her readers: what's making women miserable isn't something they're doing to themselves in the name of independence. It's something our society is doing to women. The book was nothing less than a landmark.

Now in Stiffed, the author turns her attention to the masculinity crisis plaguing our culture at the end of the '90s, an era of massive layoffs, "Angry White Male" politics, and Million Man marches. As much as the culture wants to proclaim that men are made miserable--or brutal or violent or irresponsible--by their inner nature and their hormones, Faludi finds that even in the world they supposedly own and run, men are at the mercy of cultural forces that disfigure their lives and destroy their chance at happiness. As traditional masculinity continues to collapse, the once-valued male attributes of craft, loyalty, and social utility are no longer honored, much less rewarded.

Faludi's journey through the modern masculine landscape takes her into the lives of individual men whose accounts reveal the heart of the male dilemma. Stiffed brings us into the world of industrial workers, sports fans, combat veterans, evangelical husbands, militiamen, astronauts, and troubled "bad" boys--whose sense that they've lost their skills, jobs, civic roles, wives, teams, and a secure future is only one symptom of a larger and historic betrayal.

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Reviewed in the United States on June 27, 2023
Faludi is a terrific writer. Considering the subject matter I find this book to be supremely funny. Ride along with the Spur Posse and attend a Promise Keepers meeting. While the book takes place before most social media, Faludis premise that media representation is of ascending importance shows prescience. This book is enlightening and surprisingly hilarious.
Reviewed in the United States on December 4, 2023
I love this book it’s a must ready for men who support feminism but not at the expense of their Masculinity. The author articulates clearly that masculinity is not the enemy of feminism. The book gives historical account of the evaluation of masculinity its trials and its injustices.
This book made me think and appreciate all that men have done for our country and for the sake of family.
Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2000
Now and then, I have the disconcerting experience of reading a review that seems to be for a different book than the one I read. I have that experience as I read reviews for _Stiffed_. At the same time, I'm reminded of a high school english teacher who insisted _ad nauseum_ that "Death of a Salesman" was about the hearlessness of the american business community...
Like _Backlash_, _Stiffed_ says a lot of things that people don't want to hear. Unlike _Backlash_, the more recent book isn't afraid to put the blame on consumer culture. That fact is missed by virtually every negative reviewer -- yet having actually read the book, I find it hard to understand how. Reading _Backlash_ was sometimes maddening for her refusal (and it did smack of refusal) to name a culprit; that weakness is gone in _Stiffed_.
Yet still these negative reviews, most of them dismissive ("the most overrated journalist of the '90s...") in character, without any substantive criticism, proliferate. There's something here that people are afraid to hear. That makes it important for thinking people to read.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 26, 2012
As I read Susan Faludi's ("Backlash") depressing opus about the "crisis" in American manhood, I kept changing my opinion of its author. At times I wanted to laud Faludi for insightful reporting - and sometimes I wanted to throttle her for general cluelessness. As a former journalist, I appreciate the sheer amount of legwork that went into her book: She interviewed scores of men, from construction workers to porn stars, and much of her analysis is thoughtful. But at times Faludi adopts the tone of a victor perched atop the pedestal of feminism, sitting subtly and condescendingly in judgment of pitiful males.

Random thoughts: 1) Faludi's conclusion is that most American men are unhappy (and resistant to feminism) because their fathers - those heroes of World War II and members of the "greatest generation" - were cold, distant, and silent parents, providing little or no guidance to boys growing up in a consumer culture that rewards image over true worth. I'm sure there is some truth to this theory. But what about all of the mothers - do they make no impact on their sons? Other than in passing, Faludi makes no mention of the mothers.

2) Feminism, like motherhood, gets a pass from Faludi as a contributing factor to modern male distress. Men who criticize any aspect of the women's movement are unreasonable, delusional, or scapegoating. Yet I was struck by this assessment of feminism by one of the men Faludi interviewed: "It doesn't seem to have made anyone very happy."

3) I'm not convinced that the average American male is quite as tormented as Faludi would have us believe. But a 600-page volume of interviews with men who are basically happy and content would be an awfully dull read.

4) Faludi's final words of advice to men who are unhappy or confused by our Brave New World? "Wage a battle against no enemy." Great. That helps.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2014
Faludi provides an eloquent analysis of where we are (circa the turn to the 21st century) in terms of gender issues, with a particular focus on masculinity and its challenges. She combines ethnography, interviews, and popular culture references to create a snapshot of these issues at that time. More importantly, she uses historical data and references to show how we got there, and thoughtful analysis to suggest effective ways forward. While this is a book that deserves to be read in full, it is easily dividable into sections for persons studying or doing research involving gender concerns.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 30, 2021
Everybody should read this book. Hits home very heart rentching and real. Susan Faludi is an awesome person and researcher. She is the top of the top shelf. Total expert professional of researchers.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 10, 2014
Susan Falludi writes in a precise, clear style and offers profound insights. She is a well-renown feminist, and her take on the struggles men face is incisive and compassionate. I read backlash years ago and was persuaded to call myself a feminist, which is still somewhat unusual for a man.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2017
Boring. Repetitious
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Great read, book was in good condition and came very quick.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 30, 2019
The book was listed as being in good or very good condition when in fact it was battered and covered in various stains.