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The Secret Life of the Lonely Doll: The Search for Dare Wright Hardcover – September 2, 2004
In 1957, a children's book called The Lonely Doll was published. With its pink-and-white-checked cover and photographs featuring a wide-eyed doll, it captured the imaginations of young girls and made the author, Dare Wright, a household name.
Close to forty years after its publication, the book was out of print but not forgotten. When the cover image inexplicably came to journalist Jean Nathan one afternoon, she went in search of the book-and ultimately its author. Nathan found Dare Wright living out her last days in a decrepit public hospital in Queens, New York.
Over the next five years, Nathan pieced together a glamorous life. Blond, beautiful Wright had begun her career as an actress and model and then turned to fashion photography before stumbling upon her role as bestselling author. But there was a dark side to the story: a brother lost in childhood, ill-fated marriage plans, a complicated, controlling mother. Edith Stevenson Wright, herself a successful portrait painter, played such a dominant role in her daughter's life that Dare was never able to find her way into the adult world. Only through her work could she speak for herself: in her books she created the happy family she'd always yearned for, while her self-portraits betrayed an unresolved tension between sexuality and innocence, a desire to belong and painful isolation.
Illustrated with stunning photographs, The Secret Life of the Lonely Doll tells the unforgettable story of a woman who, imprisoned by her childhood, sought to set herself free through art.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHenry Holt and Co.
- Publication dateSeptember 2, 2004
- Dimensions6.36 x 0.92 x 9.58 inches
- ISBN-100805076123
- ISBN-13978-0805076127
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-- Mark Singer, Author of Somewhere in America and staff writer, The New Yorker
"Jean Nathan has given us a haunting portrait of a haunted and heartbreaking creative life. Here is proof, if ever any was needed, that the children's books that last are those born not of lovely thoughts but of childhood's innermost necessities."-Leonard S. Marcus, author of Margaret Wise Brown: Awakened by the Moon
"Reads like a novel, and a Gothic one at that, full of outsized characters, an evocatively drawn backdrop, and with a strange and compelling mystery at its heart."-Meg Wolitzer, author of The Wife
"A beguiling piece of detective work, which itself makes for a kind of fairy tale."-Stacy Schiff, author of Vera
"Although I never read The Lonely Doll as a child or saw Dare Wright's photographs, it's as if somehow I did. Nathan has done an amazing job to capture Wright's life on the page and to bring us into the household of one of the saddest dysfunctional families ever."-Cindy Sherman
"An evocative, amazing biography."-Jacki Lyden, author of Daughter of the Queen of Sheba
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Mostly, when Edie had to be out in the world, Dare was left at home alone. There, she learned to find comfort and companionship in her books and her dolls, and to fire up her imagination. If Dare's first dolls were improvisational, homemade, the books Edie bought Dare when she was feeling flush were the real thing. The first two she purchased were a collection of Grimm's fairy tales and a picture book called The Lovely Garden, the story of the much-beloved Princess Yolande who lives on the Island of Can-be-done, whose "sweet smile seemed to say: 'What am I here for if it is not to make others happier?'" The book's message was reminiscent of her mother's inscriptions on the backs of her portraits-"To my Good and Precious Daughter"-directives on how to act and so meet the conditions of Edie's love. But the mechanics of fairy tales carried a message, too. If princesses could be put to sleep and awaken unharmed, perhaps fathers and brothers could also. If princesses could escape punishing circumstances, perhaps Dare could, too.
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- Publisher : Henry Holt and Co.
- Publication date : September 2, 2004
- Edition : First Edition
- Language : English
- Print length : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0805076123
- ISBN-13 : 978-0805076127
- Item Weight : 1.44 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.36 x 0.92 x 9.58 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,329,654 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #3,167 in Author Biographies
- #6,840 in Women's Biographies
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Customers find this book to be an interesting read with brilliant storytelling and well-researched content, particularly praising its nuanced biography of Dare Wright. Moreover, the writing quality is outstanding, and customers describe it as beautiful, with one noting it's far stranger than any fiction. However, the story receives mixed reactions, with some finding it poignant while others describe it as sad.
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"I couldn't put the book down it was fascinating! Whether you ever heard of Dare Wright or not I promise this book with spark your interest." Read more
"...is provide us with as much as we'll ever know, leaving us with a compelling, sad, haunting and human story." Read more
"...Good book, wish it wasn't 5:30." Read more
"...Interesting, but not a good one for young readers, that's for sure." Read more
Customers praise the brilliant storytelling and interesting psychological profile of the book, with one customer noting it serves as an excellent cautionary tale for parents.
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"Interesting story. I guess if I had the option to be a spoiled...." Read more
"amazing true story, should be a movie. in the same vein as the "grey gardens". Love this book." Read more
"I couldn't put this down, what a life, so far removed from my own experience. Very well researched and written." Read more
Customers appreciate the book's depth, describing it as a well-researched and nuanced biography that provides great detail about Dare's life and family background.
"Jean Nathan has written an excellent and well researched book about a talented and emotionally lost lady...." Read more
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"...Lace is feminine. With that being said, Nathan wrote a very well-researched book. The strange lives of Dare and her mother were unbelievable...." Read more
"...Wright's strangely twisted family unit, gives a great insight into what forms an artistic mind: perspective." Read more
Customers appreciate the author's talent, with one review highlighting their fascinating look into the world of artists, while another notes their best-selling children's author status.
"An exceptional and nuanced biography of a fascinating woman. A very, very special book." Read more
"...I've never known a woman like Dare Wright: beautiful, elegant, talented, childlike. you will enjoy this book" Read more
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"...was engrossed in this ultimately tragic fairy tale of a unique, talented woman-child who was never allowed to develop into an emotionally mature and..." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 8, 2018Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseI loved this book. I'd never read or even heard of "The Lonely Doll" or of Dare Wright when I picked up this biography at a used bookstore coz it looked interesting. And, I'm glad to say, it was. To start, it is, to me, fascinating subject matter: the curious and unusual and, to me, creepy children's series, and the enigmatic, beautiful, self-possessed author. Of course, Dare's reality is different, but that's the point - peeling back the the facade. But what makes the book great is how the author, Jean Nathan, tells it. It's not fancy, overwrought writing - it is that kind of non-fiction book where the author is precise, detailed, smart, eloquent, a good storyteller, but also - importantly - steps out of the way of the material. Nathan includes herself only in the intro (how she came across the subject material is itself compelling) and a bit at the end, but in a clearly demarcated way.
Some of the more negative reviewers complain that the details seem far-fetched and may not be factual; and, also, that we only get to know Dare from the outside. I agree with both of these, but, rather than finding them to be a fault of the book, rather find them to be *the point* of the book. I have no doubt of the author's journalistic integrity was utterly 100% - she does shrewd and far-ranging detecting, piecing together a story from from other people's accounts and impressions of Dare, and from Dare's own letters and the art itself, which themselves don't necessarily give insight into how she *truly* felt. Thankfully, Nathan spares us any heavy-handed psychologizing of Dare, and lets the reader draw their own conclusion. The point is *no one* really knew Dare. And I believe that, rather than that being a disappointment or a "fault" of the author, it is what is so affecting about the book, and about Dare. What Nathan has done, I feel, is provide us with as much as we'll ever know, leaving us with a compelling, sad, haunting and human story.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 11, 2011Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseI'd been wanting to read this biography for a while because of Wright's work and my interest in women and creativity. Encouraged by both the negative, as well as positive reviews, I dug in at last. I ended up wanting to know even more about Dare Wright's inner life and thoughts. Alas, they were all too squelched as she clung to a mother who defined the essence of toxic and exploitative. Nathan documents their enmeshment clearly and compellingly throughout this book, which to my mind is not psychologizing, as much as showing character through action--the essence of great writing.
In spite of and perhaps sadly because of this maternal hunger for the spotlight and the resulting relationship (Edie makes Mama Rose look like Mother Theresa), the story of Edith and the Bears emerged from Dare's imagination. Her Lonely Doll tells the story of a blessedly motherless family with a doll who seems as mischievous, impulsive, playful and willful as Dare might have wanted to have been had her mother let her live her own life. Instead, she declines into old age after her mother dies. The nude photos of Dare in the book, which were mostly taken by Edie, the absence of a sex life (although she was a victim of sexual assault in her older years) are shocking only to those readers who demand saints. Dare was neither saint, nor did she have a chance to be a sinner or even seem to know how to be. How sad.
Nathan's role, as truth-telling Greek chorus and even occasional caregiver by the book's end gives the story even more punch and poignancy. One wonders what Dare's life would have been like if she had had a champion, a mentor, a gal pal who would've stood up to Edie (her brother Blaine tried, but had his own problems). For her, the desire to please, to comply was twisted into servitude--in this case a woman, her mother, not a man is the culprit. Recommended reading to those readers who question how such a relationship can exist, and who do want to delve into the psychology of this kind of relationship: 1) Phyllis Chesler's Woman's Inhumanity to Woman and 2) Christine Lawson's Borderline Mother. That Nathan gives voice to this remarkable human being and shares her life as well as her achievements with us is a tribute to her subject. And again, quite readable.
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Amazon CustomerReviewed in the United Kingdom on June 6, 20185.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating biography very well researched
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseThis book is so fascinating. I’ve bought it twice as my first copy is still doing the rounds amongst friend!
Bill LeeReviewed in Canada on January 16, 20215.0 out of 5 stars Great condition
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Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseGift for a friend - she very much enjoyed it, being a fan of the author.





