John, I have read both Secret Keeping, your professional take on that subject-and your memoir, Stolen Hours, and find your writing compelling in the storytelling and the strong content.
My question is: Is is work enough to have a strong and vital marriage, how in the word do secret keepers find the time and energy to "do their secret thing" and also meet their family's needs as well as work demands?
Any thoughts on that? I'm exhausted just thinking about how much they must have to "balance."
Signed: Curious in Minneapolis