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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun) Paperback – March 4, 2012
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Whether you're about to walk down the aisle or you've been married for decades, The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery towards the amazing sex life God designed you for.
With humor, research, and lots of anecdotes, author Sheila Wray Gregoire helps women see how our culture's version of sex, which concentrates on the physical above all else, makes sex shallow. God, on the other hand, intended sex to unite us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Gregoire walks through these three aspects of sex, showing how to make each amazing, and how to overcome the roadblocks in each area we often encounter.
Drawing on survey results from over 2,000 people, she also includes lots of voices from other Good Girls, giving insight into how other women have learned to truly enjoy sex in marriage.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherZondervan
- Publication dateMarch 4, 2012
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.75 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-109780310334095
- ISBN-13978-0310334095
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First, she does a brilliant job at explaining the underlying disagreement in many arguments about sex: "Men make love to feel loved, whereas women need to feel loved to make love." I have read many other books that have tried to explain this concept, but she does such a good job of boiling it down to the basics. I think understanding this is great for husbands and wives. Many wives I know think that sex is just physical for their husbands, and it really isn't. Just discussing this with my husband was great because it made us both more aware of each other.
Second, she explains the spiritual, emotional, and physical triad that makes up sex. She divides these things into sections but does a great job of tying the three together. By separating them she is able to really focus on the specific component. Some of the other books have a topical approach that integrates all three in every chapter. That can take away from the idea that these are all components which should be addressed and fulfilled in a healthy marriage.
Third, she is a great communicator. Her writing is a pleasure to read. It is definitely not literature, but it is full of practical advice. And her writing is not dry at all. You can tell that she has shared a variety of struggles in her married sex life, but truly enjoys sharing and improving her sex life with her husband. She can relate to struggles, but definitely does not let women make a bunch of excuses about their responsibility in their sex life. There is a lot of importance placed on the husband's role, but there is an equal amount placed on wives. I think this is a balanced approach which is applicable for the modern evangelical couple. Husbands and wives both have responsibilities and needs.
Now, the two minor issues I somewhat disliked. First, although she is balanced she typically gives women the benefit of the doubt more than men. This is minor and does not detract from the message of the book, but it is something to be aware of when reading. Second, she downplays oral sex (and warns about its potential to lead to selfishness in the bedroom), yet she encourages role playing/fantasies (in the context of one's marriage, and only concerning one's spouse). I think there is more danger in role playing/fantasies than there is in oral sex. She discusses the pitfalls of pornography and erotica (to men and women), and it seems like role playing/fantasies is straddling the line. Another major point she makes to women is the importance of being mentally there when making love, and I think role playing/fantasies could really get in the way of that. On the other hand, oral sex has the possibility of being very selfless, in addition to being a pleasurable way to give and receive expressions of love.
With all that said, this is a great book and I would highly recommend it to engaged Christian women and wives.
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This was certainly a religious book meant specifically for christians but that didn't put me off because I am a very devout muslim and believe in many of the things she says like how sex was created by God for the sole purpose of creating a deep intimate bond between man and woman.
She did write many parts specifically for engaged women or newly weds which were dragging. I do wish I had read this back then and will certainly recommend this book to brides to be.
Thanks for the great advices Shiela.
I was looking for materials to help me in my decision to be celibate, so in some ways, going by the title, it seemed like a pointless choice. But I read some reviews, read the introduction and thought it was a good choice.
This book is great! The message is that the idea of 'good sex' has been hijacked by the secular world, leading christian women to believe that a fun, exciting sexual relationship within a marriage is sinful. She debunks this myth by really discussing God's vision for marriage.
I'm not married, but this book really helped me. I began looking at sex in a brand new light, that regardless of if you aren't entering your marriage as a virgin, sex can still be new. I examined the reasons I had been involved in sexual relationships (apart from the obvious). Had me running back to God and reaffirming why I am embracing abstainance.
If you are a virgin, engaged, a newly-wed or long time married; this book is for you. It covers so much, some you may know and some you will not. At the end of it, you can come away with tools to enhance your experiences in your marriage so that it can be everything God has promised.








