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Surrender to Kindness: One Man's Epic Journey for Love and Peace Paperback – January 1, 2010

4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 12 ratings

Surrender to Kindness, a beautifully written and designed memoir, is what New York Times bestselling author Steven Pressfield calls a "radical manifesto." The Midwest Book Review gives it FIVE STARS and says Surrender to Kindness is "An important read, and very highly recommended." Former CIA officer and now international security consultant Robert David Steele says, "I have goosebumps as I contemplate this book . . . I am reminded by this author of Bonheoffer, of Gandhi, of Nelson Mandela." Surrender to Kindness is a means to wage peace in Afghanistan, which has known nothing but war for more than three decades. Politicians and military leaders would like to wage a "successful" war in Afghanistan, but author Joseph David Osman has a different idea. . . . . Over a six-year period, Mr. Osman listened intently to prisoners, village elders and men and teens, former Taliban soldiers and sympathizers, and academics and military and civilian leaders. In all his conversations with the people of Afghanistan, a pattern emerged: they wanted peace, freedom and liberty. And they were willing to fight for those universal rights. Mr. Osman, affectionately called Santa Claus and the Red Bucket Brigade by one of his commanders, wandered out into the wilds of Afghanistan, distributing gifts like shampoo, pens and pads of paper, brushes, radios, and other useful items to thousands of Afghan villagers. He touched the hearts and souls of thousands of people, each of whom responded and opened up to him. Surrender to Kindness, or S2K, is not simply an adage that has been handed down from generation to generation. It is a way of life that Mr. Osman firmly believes in, practices every moment of his life, and shares with others wherever he goes. Written in powerful and passionate prose, Steven Pressfield says, "you can't read Surrender to Kindness and not be changed by it." With 145 dramatic b/w photographs.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 16, 2010
    Mr. Joseph Osman has written an excellent book. I crossed paths with Joseph during my two year deployment as a civilian engineer working with Provincial Reconstruction Teams. My last duty station was the brigade office a FOB Shank were Joseph was working.

    Joseph covers the history very well. I've read other books that cover Afghan History that I found overwhelming with details and dates, but he's done a great job focusing on the key point that help explain the historical situation so a person can get a good grasp of it. One can use historical information as a starting point for more research and detail as needed.

    It's very interesting how Joseph's experience is so much like mine and others who deployed and got outside the wire. I went over with preconceived notions and discovered the real situation, though I wasn't able to learn as much as Joseph did and didn't know as much about the culture as he knew before deployment. His book validates many of my observations and resolves many unanswered questions that I needed closure on. His story reminds me of many of my own memorable experiences.

    I'm the contemplative type and I'm energized by times of solitude. Afghanistan was a great place for solitude, particularly at the PRT in Panjshir. There where times of restful quiet and grand views of river valleys, mountains and nighttime sky.

    The hospitality and kindness of Afghans was a pleasant surprise. I understand why a number of people I've met and read about have said how much they love the Afghan People.

    I was pleased to discover that some negative stereotypes I heard were in fact false. Among other things Afghans are really intelligent, hard working, kind, strong, and courageous. I wish the military engineers I traveled with to projects would have accepted all of the many meal and tea invitations we received so there could have been more socializing and communication. There was this one caretaker at a school who always smiled and shook my hand and was so welcoming. One day he gave me some packaged cookies. I have memories of many kind and hospitable people. I think the surrender is both ways. It was easy to surrender to their kindness.

    Joseph has done an excellent job of explaining what many need to know. I know people who will greatly appreciate this book. It's the best I read on Afghanistan. And for me it's not as much a story of war, but a captivating story that reminded me of the beautiful souls I met.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2011
    Sean Risen
    I have had the honor of being a fellow friend and classmate of the author Joe Osman. We shared some memories in high school and have had some of the same friends. In relation to the literature in of itself I can safely say this book is a calming breath of fresh air. Many American's lack the fortitude and patience to seek out resources in relation to the general state of this country. "Surrender to Kindness" is an excellent read because of the simplicity of the story. Following a humble young man on his quest to personal serenity you will be entranced with visions of children in villages playing, irrigation systems being built by villagers, and an occasional bit of humor from the author. You will also be brought full circle into the trials and tribulations this culture faces as well as enlightened with truth. There are no filler's or fluff in this account as related by the photography and excellent editing of the book. I can safely say after reading this book I am a newly educated member of society in terms of not only the Taliban, but Afghanistan as a whole. The irony, simple, many American's as mentioned take little time to actually learn what the conflict is about and our efforts for bringing peace to the region. We also take for granted basic benefits such as running water and transportation. As a born and raised American, the author finds a creative way to relate his experiences in another world to his upbringing as a child, his values as a man, and his goals as a person. I am left with a new found sense of respect for the troubled cultures of the world, namely those of Afghanistan. I would recommend this read to anyone looking to dive into his or herself and find a purer version of self. Through the selfless acts of Joe Osman we as readers can actually embrace the warmth and peace he brings to the table in his acts of kindness.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 4, 2011
    Part memoir, part history lesson, and part essay, Mr. Osman recounts his experience in Afghanistan and writes a passionate book on how to best win the hearts and minds of those in that region. S2K gives us an Afghan perspective on Western occupation and tries to convince us through examples and analogies that kindness is the best means to achieving that goal. While this message oftentimes seemed cliche or oversimplified, I couldn't help but to come away thinking that kindness should be just that simple. The message reminds us that no matter where we are or who we interact with, humans all have the same basic needs, desires, and emotions. This basic concept combined with the conversational nature of the writing and the avoidance of the political rhetoric oftentimes found on cable news makes this a great read no matter what your opinion is of the conflict in Afghanistan.
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