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Aidan's Way Paperback – May 1, 2004

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This life we're given comes in its own season and then follows its vanishing away. If you're at ease in your season, if you can dwell in its vanishing, joy and sorrow never touch you. This is what the ancients called getting free.
--Chuang Tzu

"Aidan's crisis had liberated me in a way. We had come close to death, had looked over the edge of the precipice, and then moved back. He would die at some point, perhaps young, maybe very young. He was profoundly disabled, even more so than he had been before. But his near-death had altered my vision. The length of his life or the physical particulars of his life were not as important as the mere fact of his life itself. He was following along in his own season, moving on the currents of the Way....

I could feel myself starting to get free."
--from Aidan's Way

Sam Crane was unprepared to be the father of Aidan, a boy who would never walk, talk or see. Aidan's Way is an endlessly inspiring account of parental love and devotion, of the lessons of ancient eastern philosophy and of what it means, ultimately, to be human.

"Aidan's Way is the rare personal account that should resonate with any reader....By telling his story simply, beautifully and bravely, Crane challenges us to question the criteria by which we judge everything in this world."-Chicago Tribune

"One of the rare stories about family tragedy: both remarkably perceptive and lacking in self-pity."-Kirkus Reviews
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Sam Crane is Chair of the Department of Asian Studies at Williams College. He has written scholarly books and articles, as well as numerous articles in the popular press, such as the New York Times and Salon.com on his son Aidan. He lives in Williamstown, Massachusetts.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Sourcebooks (May 1, 2004)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 256 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1402201532
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1402201530
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 10.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.25 x 0.89 x 7.75 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
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First, my name: I publish now as Sam Crane, though my birth name, and the name on my first two books, is George T. Crane. There is no organic connection between "Sam" and "George T." (though I sometimes say the "T" in the "Tsam" is silent...). But Sam is a long time nickname, and as my writing has turned to the more personal (with Aidan's Way) and philosophical (with Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Dao) I have decided to use Sam. Friends call me "Sam," so you should, too.

I teach contemporary Chinese politics and ancient Chinese philosophy at Williams College in Williamstown, Massachusetts, where I have been on the faculty since 1989. Before that I taught at the Johns Hopkins-Nanjing University Center in Nanjing, China (1988-1989) and Georgetown University (1985-1988). I completed my Ph.D. in political science at the University of Wisconsin-Madison (go Badgers!) in 1986. My undergraduate education happened at SUNY Purchase (class of 1979), back when its school colors were still heliotrope and puce.

My hometown is Rye, New York and I tend to identify culturally as a New Yorker. Thus, I fight the good fight as a Yankees fan in Western Massachusetts. I travel to China fairly often (about once a year).

I'll leave you, for now, with some lines from Zhuangzi, from David Hinton's translation:

Sufficient because "sufficient." Insufficient because "insufficient."

Traveling the Way makes it Tao. Naming things makes them real. Why real?

Real because "real." Why nonreal? Nonreal because "nonreal." So the real

is originally there in things, and the sufficient is originally there in

things. There's nothing that is not real, and nothing that is not

suffucient.

Hence, the blade of grass and the pillar, the leper and the ravishing

[beauty] Hsi Shih, the noble, the sniveling, the disingenuous, the strange

- in Tao they all move as one and the same. In difference is the whole;

in wholeness is the broken. Once they are neither whole nor broken, all

things move freely as one and the same again.

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Reviewed in the United States on March 24, 2014
This is a thoughtful and touching story of a family's struggle with an extreme special needs child. It makes you think how you might react and live your life if this was your son.
Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2018
A wonderful, raw, expansive story.
Reviewed in the United States on October 18, 2005
This book is not your typical book about a life of a disabled child. There are no miracle breakthroughs for Aidan, not moments of sudden amazing feats, nothing like that. Aidan is profoundly disabled, and that is not really the reason for writing this book. Instead, we are shown how his life, however it might seem to others, has affected his father, his classmates and the community, through his simply being. The author often quotes ancient Chinese writings, which I thought would not really be something I'd want to read, but instead, I found much in them to speak to me. My children attend an inclusion school. There are children in their classes with severe disabilities, and I can say wholeheartedly those children give my children much more than my children give them. This book is also about the power of thinking locally. Aidan brought his father more into his local community, and helped him bring about change for all children. A beautifully written book.
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