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The Same River Twice: A Memoir of Dirtbag Backpackers, Bomb Shelters, and Bad Travel Hardcover – November 3, 2020
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Given the choice, Pam Mandel would say no and stay home. It was getting her nowhere, so she decided to say yes. Yes to hard work and hitch-hiking, to mean boyfriends and dirty travel, to unfolding the map and walking to its edges. Yes to unknown countries, night shifts, language lessons, bad decisions, to anything to make her feel real, visible, alive.
A product of beige California suburbs, Mandel was overlooked and unexceptional. When her father ships her off on a youth group tour of Israel, he inadvertently catapults his seventeen-year-old daughter into a world of angry European backpackers, seize-the-day Israelis, and the fall out of cold war-era politics. Border violence hadn't been on the birthright tour agenda. But then neither had domestic violence, going broke, getting wasted, getting sick, or getting lost.
With no guidance and no particular plan, utterly unprepared for what lies ahead, Mandel says yes to everything and everyone, embarking on an adventure across three continents and thousands of miles, from a cold water London flat to rural Pakistan, from the Nile River Delta to the snowy peaks of Ladakh and finally, back home to California, determined to shape a life that is truly hers.
An extraordinary memoir of going away and growing up, The Same River Twice follows Mandel's tangled journey and shows how travel teaches and changes us, even while it helps us become exactly who we have been all along.
- Print length240 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSkyhorse
- Publication dateNovember 3, 2020
- Dimensions6 x 1.1 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101510760059
- ISBN-13978-1510760059
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"Mandel is adept at describing her surroundings, really putting readers right there with her. She also excels at capturing teenage turmoil and the feeling of being a secondary character in your own story. Memoir and travelogue readers will devour this."—Booklist
"This is not your usual travel memoir, but a narrative of a teen on a lonely and sometimes brutal journey to discover herself. . . . Her voice is compelling, authentic, and heartbreaking at times. . . . Young adults and college students who are considering a gap year will be interested in this cautionary coming-of-age story."—Library Journal
"The Same River Twice may be set in a time before Google Maps, but the experiences Pam Mandel generously shares are timeless. By turns wondrous and harrowing, her story of travel without a safety net perfectly captures the experience of finding your way into adulthood, halfway around the globe. Mandel has managed to remind me of both the poignant uncertainty of my not-quite-adult years and the great thrill of discovering that the world is a beautiful, welcoming place. The Same River Twice is a generous lesson for any traveler."—Zora O’Neill, author of All Strangers Are Kin: Adventures in Arabic and the Arab World
"Pam Mandel’s remarkable memoir is a love letter to travel, to youth, and to a certain kind of beautiful aimlessness. It’s about getting lost and finding your way. Most of all, it reminds us of how thrilling, perilous, and important it is to be a traveler, to go off on that journey and discover our place in the world. The Same River Twice is an extraordinary and poignant work of travel writing.”—Jason Wilson, series editor The Best American Travel Writing, author of Godforsaken Grapes
"A vivid, raw, and lyrical book that cuts deep from the very start, and reminds you that there are no shortcuts to healing. If you were skeptical of fairy tales as a kid, the moral of this gritty story will resonate: that sometimes, the only person coming to save you is yourself."—Geraldine DeRuiter, author of All Over the Place
"In The Same River Twice, Mandel beautifully conveys how we can be both free and trapped, liberated and lost. This book snuck up on me. Yes, it's a travel memoir, full of vivid details of faraway lands. But at some point I realized Mandel was also writing her way through one of adulthood’s key lessons—forgiving ourselves for missteps and mistakes. She writes with empathy and resilience about the path to adulthood, which is often meandering and messy, but always full of adventure."—Rachel Friedman, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Getting Lost
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- Publisher : Skyhorse; First Edition (November 3, 2020)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 240 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1510760059
- ISBN-13 : 978-1510760059
- Item Weight : 14.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 1.1 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,850,738 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #5,850 in Travelogues & Travel Essays
- #8,617 in Traveler & Explorer Biographies
- #53,171 in Memoirs (Books)
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About the author

PAM MANDEL started her career as a travel writer in the mid 90’s with her blog: www.nerdseyeview.com. She’s since had her stories published by AFAR, Lonely Planet, AAA, Seattle Met, Sunset, and across the web. Her essays have been included in Ghosts of Seattle Past and The Best Women's Travel Writing. She’s been to all seven continents and is as surprised by that as anyone. She lives in Seattle, Washington, with a rescue dog named Harley and too many ukuleles.
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Shipped off to an Israeli kibbutz, her own coming-of-age in the desert is tender in the beauty of her widening worldview, yet disastrous as the characters around her take advantage of her naïveté, youth, and gender. Resisting anything that smacks of formulaic narrative, the author tells each new chapter as they happened in real life. There is no handsome woke princely male savior. There is no sudden redemption or awesome turn-of-events. This is the story of a young woman who (sometimes literally) crawls to the other side of the world, up and over mountains, learning the power of her own lungs, her own hands, and her own mind.
From a feminist perspective, this book is unique and important. The narrator begins as a blank canvas upon which society, family, men (and many women) instruct her regarding the definitions, boundaries, and attributes of being a woman in the world. As it turns out, a lot of that instruction is lousy, ill-fitting, and does very little favors to the narrator.
Just like real travel, the writing fluctuates from smooth lyrical picturesque moments of wonder, spaced out with the hard work, discomfort, and real humdrum of life on the road. At moments, there is a welcome dryness to the story. The author is not fighting for the reader's attention or pity. She is merely revealing her deepest truths and lining them up in a natural chronology that leads us to . . . an end? More like a continuation, but a young woman's life now lived with more confidence, a life lived with greater self-knowledge, on her terms, with a newfound strength that only comes from the self-test of no-frills travel.
As an author, Mandel has delivered the ultimate Bildungsroman for the Gen X woman. If you've ever felt forgotten, marginalized, pressured into something that was not right for you, undervalued, you will find something highly relatable in these words. You will also find the hope that merely learning the power of your own voice is hugely liberating.
Highly recommended.
Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2020
Shipped off to an Israeli kibbutz, her own coming-of-age in the desert is tender in the beauty of her widening worldview, yet disastrous as the characters around her take advantage of her naïveté, youth, and gender. Resisting anything that smacks of formulaic narrative, the author tells each new chapter as they happened in real life. There is no handsome woke princely male savior. There is no sudden redemption or awesome turn-of-events. This is the story of a young woman who (sometimes literally) crawls to the other side of the world, up and over mountains, learning the power of her own lungs, her own hands, and her own mind.
From a feminist perspective, this book is unique and important. The narrator begins as a blank canvas upon which society, family, men (and many women) instruct her regarding the definitions, boundaries, and attributes of being a woman in the world. As it turns out, a lot of that instruction is lousy, ill-fitting, and does very little favors to the narrator.
Just like real travel, the writing fluctuates from smooth lyrical picturesque moments of wonder, spaced out with the hard work, discomfort, and real humdrum of life on the road. At moments, there is a welcome dryness to the story. The author is not fighting for the reader's attention or pity. She is merely revealing her deepest truths and lining them up in a natural chronology that leads us to . . . an end? More like a continuation, but a young woman's life now lived with more confidence, a life lived with greater self-knowledge, on her terms, with a newfound strength that only comes from the self-test of no-frills travel.
As an author, Mandel has delivered the ultimate Bildungsroman for the Gen X woman. If you've ever felt forgotten, marginalized, pressured into something that was not right for you, undervalued, you will find something highly relatable in these words. You will also find the hope that merely learning the power of your own voice is hugely liberating.
Highly recommended.
There are some typos, mostly missing words, but the meaning was always clear and they didn't detract from the enjoyment of the story for me.
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The hope in the story derives from the optimistic, resilient protagonist-narrator, who doesn't dwell on her own problems, but is intensely aware of the world around her, the culture and the politics. When people around her aren't behaving well, she manages to figure out who she is and how she wants to behave and who she wants to be in the world.
A great read.


