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The Same River Twice: A Memoir of Dirtbag Backpackers, Bomb Shelters, and Bad Travel Hardcover – November 3, 2020

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Acclaimed travel writer Pam Mandel's thrilling account of a life-defining journey from the California suburbs to Israel to the Himalayan peaks and back.

Given the choice, Pam Mandel would say no and stay home. It was getting her nowhere, so she decided to say yes. Yes to hard work and hitch-hiking, to mean boyfriends and dirty travel, to unfolding the map and walking to its edges. Yes to unknown countries, night shifts, language lessons, bad decisions, to anything to make her feel real, visible, alive.

A product of beige California suburbs, Mandel was overlooked and unexceptional. When her father ships her off on a youth group tour of Israel, he inadvertently catapults his seventeen-year-old daughter into a world of angry European backpackers, seize-the-day Israelis, and the fall out of cold war-era politics. Border violence hadn't been on the birthright tour agenda. But then neither had domestic violence, going broke, getting wasted, getting sick, or getting lost.

With no guidance and no particular plan, utterly unprepared for what lies ahead, Mandel says yes to everything and everyone, embarking on an adventure across three continents and thousands of miles, from a cold water London flat to rural Pakistan, from the Nile River Delta to the snowy peaks of Ladakh and finally, back home to California, determined to shape a life that is truly hers.
An extraordinary memoir of going away and growing up,
 The Same River Twice follows Mandel's tangled journey and shows how travel teaches and changes us, even while it helps us become exactly who we have been all along. 
 

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"Messy but provocative, Mandel’s chaotic coming-of-age story is emotionally hard to read, but also hard to put down."—Publisher's Weekly

"Mandel is adept at describing her surroundings, really putting readers right there with her. She also excels at capturing teenage turmoil and the feeling of being a secondary character in your own story. Memoir and travelogue readers will devour this."—
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"This is not your usual travel memoir, but a narrative of a teen on a lonely and sometimes brutal journey to discover herself. . . . Her voice is compelling, authentic, and heartbreaking at times. . . . Young adults and college students who are considering a gap year will be interested in this cautionary coming-of-age story."—
Library Journal

"The Same River Twice may be set in a time before Google Maps, but the experiences Pam Mandel generously shares are timeless. By turns wondrous and harrowing, her story of travel without a safety net perfectly captures the experience of finding your way into adulthood, halfway around the globe. Mandel has managed to remind me of both the poignant uncertainty of my not-quite-adult years and the great thrill of discovering that the world is a beautiful, welcoming place. The Same River Twice is a generous lesson for any traveler."—Zora O’Neill, author of All Strangers Are Kin: Adventures in Arabic and the Arab World

"Pam Mandel’s remarkable memoir is a love letter to travel, to youth, and to a certain kind of beautiful aimlessness. It’s about getting lost and finding your way. Most of all, it reminds us of how thrilling, perilous, and important it is to be a traveler, to go off on that journey and discover our place in the world. 
The Same River Twice is an extraordinary and poignant work of travel writing.”—Jason Wilson, series editor The Best American Travel Writing, author of Godforsaken Grapes

"A vivid, raw, and lyrical book that cuts deep from the very start, and reminds you that there are no shortcuts to healing. If you were skeptical of fairy tales as a kid, the moral of this gritty story will resonate: that sometimes, the only person coming to save you is yourself."—Geraldine DeRuiter, author of 
All Over the Place

"In 
The Same River Twice, Mandel beautifully conveys how we can be both free and trapped, liberated and lost. This book snuck up on me. Yes, it's a travel memoir, full of vivid details of faraway lands. But at some point I realized Mandel was also writing her way through one of adulthood’s key lessons—forgiving ourselves for missteps and mistakes. She writes with empathy and resilience about the path to adulthood, which is often meandering and messy, but always full of adventure."—Rachel Friedman, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Getting Lost
 

About the Author

Pam Mandel launched her career as a travel writer with a blog; Nerd's Eye View. She's since had her stories published by AFAR, Lonely Planet, AAA, Seattle Met, Sunset, and across the web. She's been to all seven continents and is as surprised by that as anyone. She lives in Seattle, Washington, with a rescue dog named Harley and too many ukuleles. 
 

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Skyhorse; First Edition (November 3, 2020)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1510760059
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1510760059
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 14.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 1.1 x 9 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
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PAM MANDEL started her career as a travel writer in the mid 90’s with her blog: www.nerdseyeview.com. She’s since had her stories published by AFAR, Lonely Planet, AAA, Seattle Met, Sunset, and across the web. Her essays have been included in Ghosts of Seattle Past and The Best Women's Travel Writing. She’s been to all seven continents and is as surprised by that as anyone. She lives in Seattle, Washington, with a rescue dog named Harley and too many ukuleles.

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A Refreshingly Honest Voice that Transcends Time & Setting
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A Refreshingly Honest Voice that Transcends Time & Setting
A phenomenally raw and brutally honest travel memoir, "The Same River Twice" sets a new standard for the genre. Eschewing grandiosity or forced meaning, the author unravels her own painful past, opening in early 1980's California, where as an awkward-yet-intelligent young woman, she exists on the margins of school, family, culture, and America-at-large.Shipped off to an Israeli kibbutz, her own coming-of-age in the desert is tender in the beauty of her widening worldview, yet disastrous as the characters around her take advantage of her naïveté, youth, and gender. Resisting anything that smacks of formulaic narrative, the author tells each new chapter as they happened in real life. There is no handsome woke princely male savior. There is no sudden redemption or awesome turn-of-events. This is the story of a young woman who (sometimes literally) crawls to the other side of the world, up and over mountains, learning the power of her own lungs, her own hands, and her own mind.From a feminist perspective, this book is unique and important. The narrator begins as a blank canvas upon which society, family, men (and many women) instruct her regarding the definitions, boundaries, and attributes of being a woman in the world. As it turns out, a lot of that instruction is lousy, ill-fitting, and does very little favors to the narrator.Just like real travel, the writing fluctuates from smooth lyrical picturesque moments of wonder, spaced out with the hard work, discomfort, and real humdrum of life on the road. At moments, there is a welcome dryness to the story. The author is not fighting for the reader's attention or pity. She is merely revealing her deepest truths and lining them up in a natural chronology that leads us to . . . an end? More like a continuation, but a young woman's life now lived with more confidence, a life lived with greater self-knowledge, on her terms, with a newfound strength that only comes from the self-test of no-frills travel.As an author, Mandel has delivered the ultimate Bildungsroman for the Gen X woman. If you've ever felt forgotten, marginalized, pressured into something that was not right for you, undervalued, you will find something highly relatable in these words. You will also find the hope that merely learning the power of your own voice is hugely liberating.Highly recommended.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2020
A phenomenally raw and brutally honest travel memoir, "The Same River Twice" sets a new standard for the genre. Eschewing grandiosity or forced meaning, the author unravels her own painful past, opening in early 1980's California, where as an awkward-yet-intelligent young woman, she exists on the margins of school, family, culture, and America-at-large.

Shipped off to an Israeli kibbutz, her own coming-of-age in the desert is tender in the beauty of her widening worldview, yet disastrous as the characters around her take advantage of her naïveté, youth, and gender. Resisting anything that smacks of formulaic narrative, the author tells each new chapter as they happened in real life. There is no handsome woke princely male savior. There is no sudden redemption or awesome turn-of-events. This is the story of a young woman who (sometimes literally) crawls to the other side of the world, up and over mountains, learning the power of her own lungs, her own hands, and her own mind.

From a feminist perspective, this book is unique and important. The narrator begins as a blank canvas upon which society, family, men (and many women) instruct her regarding the definitions, boundaries, and attributes of being a woman in the world. As it turns out, a lot of that instruction is lousy, ill-fitting, and does very little favors to the narrator.

Just like real travel, the writing fluctuates from smooth lyrical picturesque moments of wonder, spaced out with the hard work, discomfort, and real humdrum of life on the road. At moments, there is a welcome dryness to the story. The author is not fighting for the reader's attention or pity. She is merely revealing her deepest truths and lining them up in a natural chronology that leads us to . . . an end? More like a continuation, but a young woman's life now lived with more confidence, a life lived with greater self-knowledge, on her terms, with a newfound strength that only comes from the self-test of no-frills travel.

As an author, Mandel has delivered the ultimate Bildungsroman for the Gen X woman. If you've ever felt forgotten, marginalized, pressured into something that was not right for you, undervalued, you will find something highly relatable in these words. You will also find the hope that merely learning the power of your own voice is hugely liberating.

Highly recommended.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2020
A phenomenally raw and brutally honest travel memoir, "The Same River Twice" sets a new standard for the genre. Eschewing grandiosity or forced meaning, the author unravels her own painful past, opening in early 1980's California, where as an awkward-yet-intelligent young woman, she exists on the margins of school, family, culture, and America-at-large.

Shipped off to an Israeli kibbutz, her own coming-of-age in the desert is tender in the beauty of her widening worldview, yet disastrous as the characters around her take advantage of her naïveté, youth, and gender. Resisting anything that smacks of formulaic narrative, the author tells each new chapter as they happened in real life. There is no handsome woke princely male savior. There is no sudden redemption or awesome turn-of-events. This is the story of a young woman who (sometimes literally) crawls to the other side of the world, up and over mountains, learning the power of her own lungs, her own hands, and her own mind.

From a feminist perspective, this book is unique and important. The narrator begins as a blank canvas upon which society, family, men (and many women) instruct her regarding the definitions, boundaries, and attributes of being a woman in the world. As it turns out, a lot of that instruction is lousy, ill-fitting, and does very little favors to the narrator.

Just like real travel, the writing fluctuates from smooth lyrical picturesque moments of wonder, spaced out with the hard work, discomfort, and real humdrum of life on the road. At moments, there is a welcome dryness to the story. The author is not fighting for the reader's attention or pity. She is merely revealing her deepest truths and lining them up in a natural chronology that leads us to . . . an end? More like a continuation, but a young woman's life now lived with more confidence, a life lived with greater self-knowledge, on her terms, with a newfound strength that only comes from the self-test of no-frills travel.

As an author, Mandel has delivered the ultimate Bildungsroman for the Gen X woman. If you've ever felt forgotten, marginalized, pressured into something that was not right for you, undervalued, you will find something highly relatable in these words. You will also find the hope that merely learning the power of your own voice is hugely liberating.

Highly recommended.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 27, 2020
I've enjoyed Pam's blog for years and was excited about this book! Pam's talent for voice and observation is limitless, and the details in her memoir are so rich that it's a sometimes a surprise these are events that occurred 30 years ago and not more recently. The description of a cow standing in city traffic in India is sublime. There's so much devoted here to the exterior journey that I wish the interior journey had been given the same diligence. It's not easy to write about abuse of any kind, but I would have liked to have seen more exploration regarding the dynamics with the English boyfriend. I had so many questions as I read, and felt like more detail was given describing a museum or a landscape than the complicated dynamics of a couple traveling the world together. The abuse sometimes felt like a footnote. That said, pages are packed with action and engagement. This isn't another over-the-top, navel-gazing Eat Pray Love or Wild, thankfully, but a raw reflection on what's ugly and beautiful in this world.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 24, 2022
Poignant and unflinchingly honest; I finished it in less than 24 hours. So much of her story resonated: I was similarly lost in my 20s and backpacked through many of the same places. The book brought back long-forgotten memories for me, both good and bad, which was unexpectedly therapeutic. I was glad though the story didn't dwell too much on the abuse as it would have been too hard to read.

There are some typos, mostly missing words, but the meaning was always clear and they didn't detract from the enjoyment of the story for me.
Reviewed in the United States on December 1, 2020
The many typos in this edition were super distracting to the story. The author is a good writer and had a good story to tell. Her book deserved five stars. In her next book, I hope she either finds a new editor/publisher or does some serious complaining about the sloppy editing.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2020
I tore through this book. It was the perfect escape to some places I've never been but also to another time (mostly the 80s). I wanted to stay on a Kibbutz in the early 90s and reading this book is unfortunately the closest I get! For me this really captured the feeling of heading out on one's own for the first time and figuring life out as a young woman (relating to crazy stuff she encountered on the road such as a child bride, and navigating love via some good boyfriends and one very bad). The writing is exquisite, clean and straight forward. You never have to go back and figure out what she meant, it' all so clear and brings the reader in from the very first paragraph. A perfect read for a time when few of us can travel.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 21, 2022
I am giving it 2 stars because it was well written and it is a clever title. Based on the description I was quite excited to join the author on her adventures in the East. Unfortunately it mostly felt like a teenage romance saga and she just happened to be in different places of the world.

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4.0 out of 5 stars Annoying errors.
Reviewed in Canada on March 22, 2021
If you’re bothered by missing words, extra words, sentences rhat don’t make sense, this book will try your patience. However, if you can ignore the errors & keep going, you will find a mémoire worth reading.
Ciaran Buckley
5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling and Gut-Wrenching Memoir
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 17, 2023
This book is authentic, well-written and utterly gut-wrenching. High-school graduate Pam leaves California to work on a kibbutz in Israel - finally ending up in the Himalayas - but her youth and vulnerability expose her to a lot of life experiences that we imagine we can shelter our own children from, while acknowledging that we probably can't.

The hope in the story derives from the optimistic, resilient protagonist-narrator, who doesn't dwell on her own problems, but is intensely aware of the world around her, the culture and the politics. When people around her aren't behaving well, she manages to figure out who she is and how she wants to behave and who she wants to be in the world.

A great read.