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Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work Kindle Edition

4.8 4.8 out of 5 stars 237 ratings

Great marriages don't just happen--they're made, intentionally, day by day. Yet most of us enter the covenant of marriage thinking that the role of spouse will be easy, natural, effortless. Rarely is this true. In fact, the number one cause of divorce isn't adultery or finances or disagreements. It's apathy--a lack of intentional emotional, physical, and mental investment in the relationship.

With engaging stories and clear, simple language, pastor Kevin A. Thompson explains the three critical roles of a spouse--friend, partner, and lover--and shows how to nurture those roles in order to keep a marriage healthy and strong. Using solid biblical principles, he helps couples understand how to grow their friendship, be a supportive partner through the good times and the bad, and develop a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Friends, Partners, and Lovers offers essential insight for couples at any stage of marriage but will be especially helpful to those who are struggling and those who are engaged or newly married and looking to start their marriage on strong footing.

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Customers find the advice in the book great, encouraging, and practical. They describe the book as excellent, a good read for young couples, and one of the best marriage books they have ever read. Readers also appreciate the writing quality, saying it's understandable, relatable, and wonderful.

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"...The knowledge is profound, but in terms that us ordinary guys can appreciate and understand. I'm excited to share this book with my wife...." Read more

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"This is a wonderful read! This book made me look deeper into my marriage and I realized where my spouse and I have been lacking in our marriage...." Read more

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Everyone needs this in their library.
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Everyone needs this in their library.
I've read a lot of books about relationships and marriage and never felt so encouraged and inspired as when I read this book. After being married for 21 years I still have work to do and Friends Partners and Lovers gave me practical guidance and my husbands curiosity has even been peeked. This is one book I can wholeheartedly with confidence endorse.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 28, 2023
This book is exquisitely written and immensely practical to help and encourage marriages at any stage of life. Kevin Thompson tells it like it is with wit and wisdom. One of the very best marriage books I have ever read!
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Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2017
I have been following and posting Kevin Thompson's blog since he started the blog. I always share his blog on Facebook. I repost his blog hoping that at least one person will read and get his message. In following the blog I kept saying to myself and to others, he needs to write a book on marriage. Well that day has come and here I am writing a review. This book is just a great practical guide with a very nice pace to reading. Three sections that are all powerful. I can't imagine any couple not finding help and wisdom from FPL. Even if you have a great marriage you will find a few ah ha thoughts in here that will make you marriage stronger and healthier. Start a book club with your spouse and read this book you will be glad you did.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2022
I've followed his blog for some time, and for reasons unknown, I didn't come across the book until my wife signed us up for his marriage seminar in Granite Bay. This book is full of valuable information that every couple needs to know. Even though Kevin is a Pastor, the information is priceless whether you are religious or not. This book covers everything from finances to friendship, and even sex. A great investment in knowledge.
Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2018
This is a wonderful read! This book made me look deeper into my marriage and I realized where my spouse and I have been lacking in our marriage. I was ready to divorce but I agreed to counseling. 2 weeks later Kevin was a guest speaker at my work. I really enjoyed listening to him so I decided to get this book. Wow! It helped me open my eyes to the possibility of saving our marriage and creating a better one than the past 15 years. And Kevin's writing is wonderful! I rarely read a self help book from beginning to end but I wasn't able to put this one down. Thank you Kevin for this wonderful book!
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Reviewed in the United States on October 13, 2022
Be a better friend, partner and lover. All three relational behaviors add up to a happy wife, happy life.
Marriage is designed to be enjoyed!
Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2017
I have followed Kevin's blogs for quite some time now, and I was happy that he assembled his advice into a book. I've read the first few chapters and I'm excited that it's every bit as good as the posts. Now, I don't actually run with Kevin, but I liken it to getting advice from my running partner. It's practical, it's Biblical, and while it doesn't lay a guilt trip, it doesn't let you off the hook, either. There are some sections that I read that I think "yeah, we've got that", but others that are convicting and remind me that I have work to do. The knowledge is profound, but in terms that us ordinary guys can appreciate and understand. I'm excited to share this book with my wife. Add this one to your marriage toolkit, guys. It won't disappoint.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 19, 2022
Author/pastor speaks to you in such a way I had to get this book on audio too. Life changing and all around great book. I highly recommend to all couples; dating, engaged or married.
Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2022
Love this book and a recent seminar we attended based around this book. Everyone who needs a boost in their marriage needs to read this. Kevin is such a great author and teacher and brings so much content. Love his teachings!

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Patrick Ducklow
2.0 out of 5 stars Fair-ish.
Reviewed in Canada on July 23, 2018
Fair-ish but I am a marital psychologist and I have developed prejudices that are not especially religious ones. Recommended to me by a client and they like it. Try John Gottman when you are done with this.