A great story teller and prolific American novelist, John Irving, was asked why he always wrote novels where families were central to the work. His answer was that good stories are about conflicts, but more important, resolutions, and once one creates a family for a novel, well, if a conflict arises, they're just going to have to figure it out. One can't simply leave a family.
"Quality Problems" gives us that truth with a script of intelligence, humor, and deep feeling, without being manipulative or contrived. The depiction of the understandings between a loving husband and his sweetly driven wife, who is suffering a cancer recurrence, hits every note of a meaningful relationship. They adore each other without restraint. Yet they say things that are on one level fighting words, but brilliant acting shows you they are not. Not really. They are calling one another out. With affection. With honesty. With hilarity. With the goal of making themselves better, making each other better, making good people out of their kids. This development of a complex, three dimensional, endearing marriage and how the couple's relationships with equally well drawn, complex characters among friends, kids, a grandfather, caretakers, doctors and everyone who spins around the story, help a family deal with a frightening possibility is, like art, priceless and inspiring.
It is unfortunate that this mature, funny, bitter-sweet, even wise, style of story-telling, supported by an intelligent script, straightforward camera work and brilliant acting, is so hard to find in film.
If affecting film is your cup of tea, "Quality Problems" is a samovar of pleasure.