If I could give it a 0 I would. Honestly, I try to always rate nicely. This book comes off chauvinistic and ignorant to modern day lifestyles. There is a quote discussing the mom getting smarter. Granted, the reference is about the mom using a new technique. I feel that using the word smarter and only using it to reference a mother create a sexist feel. There is also a part about grandma and grandpa visiting. grandpa and dad go somewhere while mom and grandma disagree in parenting while learning how to parent. There are many great points as well as tips and tricks. However , there is not a great focus in mom and dad teams.