I really wish someone had recommended this book to me early on in the divorce process. Regardless, it helped a lot and made dealing with this type of person “easier.” (Note I did not say easy because that’s never the case.). If you even THINK you may be dealing with a Borderline or Narcissitic Personality Disorder spouse, BUY THIS BOOK. You will swear, like I did, that the author has personal knowledge of the person you are dealing with. It is uncanny. Great book!