I wasn't sure about how I felt about this movie when I read the reviews but I thought I'd give it a chance due to the subject it addressed. Wow, I am so glad I did! This is about more than just black or white, it is about unbiased love! As a parent you have no control over who becomes part of your family, question is how do your respond when its not like you wanted it to be? What are you made of; your morals, your values, your commitment as a parent. As a person of mixed nationalities this movie spoke to me about the need in me to embrace who I am and be thankful that I had parents and grandparents who were committed to love and care for me. I needed the unity of diversity to be complete. Olivia Spencer and Kevin Costner did outstanding job of presenting this and the social dilemmas we sometimes find ourselves in...on both sides of the fence!