6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
, September 30, 2011
This review is from: Lipstick Jungle: A Novel (Mass Market Paperback)
I was really looking forward to reading this book. I am just about the biggest SATC fan on earth, so I figured I would fall in love with Lipstick Jungle as well. I thought there was no way I wouldn't like anything that involved girlfriends, shopping, cocktails, & fun (like SATC).. Some of my most loved things!
The book is a good read, well written, etc. But I was VERY disappointed in the general message. I find it extremely sad that Candace Bushnell views motherhood & marriage as such low priorities. Throughout this entire book I was waiting for the characters to finally realize that family & especially CHILDREN are always more important than financial success & "power". Unfortunately it never happened. These women are completely self-absorbed & shallow.
I quite admire women who can balance work & motherhood. In this book however, there is no balance. ALL these women care about are power, esteem, & money. Their husbands/boyfriends & children are of no importance.
I had a successful career before I became a mother, which I gladly postponed to stay home with my babies. I would NEVER in a million years consider my own power & ego more important than raising my beautiful children. Kids need to be raised by their parents, not by nannies & daycares.
Being a full-time mother absolutely does NOT mean a woman is a "failure" or inferior, as this book implies. Quite the opposite in fact, especially in the eyes of the ones who matter most.
Pretty disappointing for this SATC fan!!!
When I gave my husband my thoughts on this book, here was his reply.. "Sounds like it was written by a lonely, bitter woman who envies women who have what she doesn't. So she puts it down to make herself feel better." Maybe???
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