This book is only for people who do not have kids or people who have an open mind and are capable of hearing the truth after they already do have a kid. That cuts out a vast majority of parents who are tortured by the fact that they have already made the plunge and cannot truly consider what they have done as the years go by without extreme bias and fear. My daughter died, so I have lived both sides of this coin. With that said...this author is correct. There is no true rebuttal of it without extreme insanity. Any reviews I have seen from naysayers of this book from parents are nonsensical and viscious. As a former parent...SHE IS RIGHT...SHE IS ALSO A PARENT. This is an excellent book with tons of sarcastic humor laced around the cold hard facts.