This book is absolutely wonderful! It is far from preachy and cheerleadery, but more like a conversation with someone you've gone to for advice. This books advice is so well rounded that it can be read by someone who wants to change their career, lose weight, or gain confidence. It is really helping me go through the proper process of what I need to do to change things in my life that I want changed. I think one of the best pieces of advice that is given in this book is to ask YOURSELF the right question, that is something a lot of people forget to do. The Blanchards give you the honest answer to many questions by always reminding you that change is not easy and can force you to take alternate routes and there can be set backs to get where you want to be. But that is life and once you understand that, you can really accept the advice in this book. I suggest this book to everyone! Thank you Blanchards!